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brandicakes

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#55
Mar 31, 2008
 
I have now had the unfortunate pleasure of having this addiction rear its ugly head in my house! Last night as a matter of fact. He would not admit he has a problem at first... then when i broke down and said i was going to leave he finally admitted it. When i was single I LOVED PORN!!! Now, that i have met my BF I dont want it in my house, becaue of his actions...being sneaky and lying about doing it. Sometimes i feel he is watching it because im not good enough...the only thing i can tell you is...try to tell him how you truly feel...and if he cant accept the fact he has the problem and needs help...i dont know if he is the right one :-)
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Forest Hills, NY

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#56
Mar 31, 2008
 
My boyfriend watches porn all the time... I wouldn't care, but we NEVER have sex. We live together and we used to have a great sex life. Now I am lucky to get it twice a month. I WANT TO HAVE SEX, once he even sat in the other room and watched porn while I was asking him to PLLLLLLLLLEAAAAASE have sex with me. I don't know...... maybe I am ugly

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#57
Mar 31, 2008
 
You have the choice to choose the man you want. There are men who do not think porn is everything.

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Apr 1, 2008
 
Tanya wrote:
I am a beautiful young girl and Iveben with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I've always been open sexually with him. WE've been watching porn together since about 3 months into the relationship and it didn't bother me at first. But now, if we're not wathing porn we can't go more than a few minutes, and if we do, everytime I look over at hi, he's staring and not paying any attention to what I'm doing and it hurts. I've told him that this is a problem, but everytime I leave the house I find more porn saved onto the computer. We're very close friends and we do love each other I just constantly feel that he picks the porn over me. Unlike some of the womenon here who just say porn is bad, Idon't feel that way. I just feel that if I'm willing to do whatever my boyfriend says he wants then why does he have to masturbate 5 days a week when I'd be willing to sleep with him and he knows it. He says I'm being rediculous and he just likeswatching people have sex. Please help!
I don't know you of course but your personality seems ok..I mean none psychotic LOL You say that you are beautiful and that he had to watch porn 3 months into the relationship?? It is doomed honey sorry.

Strikes me the guy has just a piece of meat to target his perversions on...or just a cover for his inadequacies to his friends. They will see you with him and think lucky man. The doing whatever he wants is quite common..honet he will have you sleeping with friends in threesomes and ramming your cute ass till it rips...because you love him.

Dump him, find someone who actually loves you...

I am in a kind of relationship were we love each other soo much we believe sex may spoil it...we got some big decisions ahead...but love and sex are not the same thing...they can be divorced from one another. I think your guy has issues that you should keep away from...why the hell does a guy live with an attractive woman and watch porn...my mind is boggled...honey I would show you more respect than he...hell I would show the mouse in my shed more respect than he shows you...

Dump him he is a wrong 'un :)
lee

Peace River, Canada

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#60
Aug 8, 2008
 
MEN YOU KNOW WHY UR WOMEN CHEAT?
WOMAN THINK ABOUT CHEATING AS MUCH AS MEN THINK ABOUT SEX....
READ BETWEEN THE LINES,FOR THE MEN WHO CANT UNDERSTAND THEN THEY THE ONES WHO GET CHEATED ON.
bakerygirl24

Memphis, TN

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#62
Dec 7, 2008
 
Tanya-
Wow! There is so much good and bad advice in these pages. I feel you so much, girl. I had a recent problem with my boyfriend; I found his porn collection under his dresser while I was searching for an earring I lost in his room. I saw he'd bought several since we'd been together; this actually hurt more than seeing the focus of the porn, which was large-chested girls (i'm a 32 B). We had a good, honest conversation and i've had to let the realization set in that porn is just a part of most young men's lives. It's the age we live in. But when he stops trying to do his part in the sack, it IS a problem, and he had been slacking. He told me he was going to focus on us. Do i think he got rid of the porn? Well I wasn't born yesterday...but do i think he will try? Absolutely. The moral of my story I suppose, is give your guy a chance. If you love each other, it shouldn't be taking over either persons life. Talk to him! Don't make it a time when you're emotional and crazed; be logical about it, and let him know you aren't trying to sitfle him, you're only being concerned for your own mental health, right? Don't ever let another person make you doubt that you still "got it". If he doesn't appreciate you, forget him and appreciate yourself. By doing so, someone else will notice and scoop you right up. Best of luck to you girl! Julie
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#63
Dec 8, 2008
 
bakerygirl24 wrote:
Tanya-
Wow! There is so much good and bad advice in these pages. I feel you so much, girl. I had a recent problem with my boyfriend; I found his porn collection under his dresser while I was searching for an earring I lost in his room. I saw he'd bought several since we'd been together; this actually hurt more than seeing the focus of the porn, which was large-chested girls (i'm a 32 B). We had a good, honest conversation and i've had to let the realization set in that porn is just a part of most young men's lives. It's the age we live in. But when he stops trying to do his part in the sack, it IS a problem, and he had been slacking. He told me he was going to focus on us. Do i think he got rid of the porn? Well I wasn't born yesterday...but do i think he will try? Absolutely. The moral of my story I suppose, is give your guy a chance. If you love each other, it shouldn't be taking over either persons life. Talk to him! Don't make it a time when you're emotional and crazed; be logical about it, and let him know you aren't trying to sitfle him, you're only being concerned for your own mental health, right? Don't ever let another person make you doubt that you still "got it". If he doesn't appreciate you, forget him and appreciate yourself. By doing so, someone else will notice and scoop you right up. Best of luck to you girl! Julie
The other part of the problem is YOU.

What is interesting is you don't see the JEALOUSY and CONTROL issues that you have and have been expressed in your post.

Interesting how you locked onto that other women have larger breasts than you in porn. This is a reflection of your insecurity with your own breasts size.

That you turn the issue into Porn versus you and make it an issue that he get rid of it, is a reflection of your thinking process to try to control your boyfriend's penis and sexuality.

Jealousy, control, and selfishness are NOT love.

Not allowing your boyfriend to watch or engage in something he enjoys or have his fantasies can be demonstrating your selfishness. The combination of negative traits (jealousy, seeking control, selfishness) can doom your relationship. Not just this one, but many (if not all) your future relationships.
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#66
Feb 25, 2009
 
Thanks for the comment. The more my boyfriend keeps watching porn every single day and lies about it, the more I feel like replacing him. Of course, we used to watch it together, until I found out that he also signed up to meet people on a sex site using my cc. Well, he also tried to say that was not what it looked like. I have tried to forget about it but it is impossible. I am a sexy woman who is fit and looks very young for her age. We do not have sex nearly as much as he watches porn. It's not the porn. It's the person. I have been in other relationships where I did not feel that my man would be looking over my shoulder at other assets.
lee wrote:
MEN YOU KNOW WHY UR WOMEN CHEAT?
WOMAN THINK ABOUT CHEATING AS MUCH AS MEN THINK ABOUT SEX....
READ BETWEEN THE LINES,FOR THE MEN WHO CANT UNDERSTAND THEN THEY THE ONES WHO GET CHEATED ON.
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#67
Feb 26, 2009
 
Tanya wrote:
I am a beautiful young girl and Iveben with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I've always been open sexually with him. WE've been watching porn together since about 3 months into the relationship and it didn't bother me at first. But now, if we're not wathing porn we can't go more than a few minutes, and if we do, everytime I look over at hi, he's staring and not paying any attention to what I'm doing and it hurts. I've told him that this is a problem, but everytime I leave the house I find more porn saved onto the computer. We're very close friends and we do love each other I just constantly feel that he picks the porn over me. Unlike some of the womenon here who just say porn is bad, Idon't feel that way. I just feel that if I'm willing to do whatever my boyfriend says he wants then why does he have to masturbate 5 days a week when I'd be willing to sleep with him and he knows it. He says I'm being rediculous and he just likeswatching people have sex. Please help!
my husband became this way during a 15 yr previous marriage during which time the interrnet came into existance. We play a bunch , and I entertain his rather odd fetishes too ,, but if I left him alne for 5 minutes he'd be back on my laptop watching it .

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after he ruined the third hard drive , my new lap has a password so he cannot get on without me. He knows why and accepts it.We still watch plenty of porn together.
wondering why

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#69
Oct 8, 2010
 
my boyfriend and i are both in our late 30's and he looks at porn several times a week when i go to the store but only has sex with me once a week other than this our relationship is good
Brian in DC

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#70
Oct 8, 2010
 
I don't think having sex only once a week is very good...and you dont sound that happy, wondering

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Oct 8, 2010
 
wondering why wrote:
my boyfriend and i are both in our late 30's and he looks at porn several times a week when i go to the store but only has sex with me once a week other than this our relationship is good
hi wondering why,try to have sex with him a little more some night when he is asleep go down on him and get him mad for u,he wont know what got into u.!! And dont worry all guys watch porn i know i am a guy.!!
socal

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#72
Jan 4, 2011
 
My boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time in literally 5 months and we live together and he really doesnt treat me right at all so i snooped his computer and he watches porn EVERYDAY if not 1 video Several! more than 10 or so and it hurts me so badly cause im right here ya know?! i dont know what to do im not selfish or trying to be an attention hog but i need love too. He has this friend whos a girl and shes cool i guess but hes always inviting her over and buying her beer shes not 21 yet he never buys me beer and im almost 22! our lease is up in feb.what do i do?.:(

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Jan 5, 2011
 
socal wrote:
My boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time in literally 5 months and we live together and he really doesnt treat me right at all so i snooped his computer and he watches porn EVERYDAY if not 1 video Several! more than 10 or so and it hurts me so badly cause im right here ya know?! i dont know what to do im not selfish or trying to be an attention hog but i need love too. He has this friend whos a girl and shes cool i guess but hes always inviting her over and buying her beer shes not 21 yet he never buys me beer and im almost 22! our lease is up in feb.what do i do?.:(
hi socal if u would like to chat give me a email e51190@yahoo.com

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Jan 5, 2011
 
restfull wrote:
<quoted text>hi socal if u would like to chat give me a email e51190@yahoo.com
Dump him and find someone who will appreciate you there are plenty of us out here

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#76
May 17, 2012
 
Chris wrote:
My boyfriend watches porn all the time... I wouldn't care, but we NEVER have sex. We live together and we used to have a great sex life. Now I am lucky to get it twice a month. I WANT TO HAVE SEX, once he even sat in the other room and watched porn while I was asking him to PLLLLLLLLLEAAAAASE have sex with me. I don't know...... maybe I am ugly
sounds like my boyfriend... smh ... your not ugly hunni dont worry

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#77
May 17, 2012
 
Well you girls could go and throw away/delete the porn and tell him if he wants to watch it again he better get naked in bed and pay to watch it;) if he don't then there is really something wrong in his head and I would run for the hills if I was you ladies. That and you could break everything that can play porn.
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#79
Oct 30, 2012
 
Ive been with my bf for two n half years, n hes constantly watchin porn since the beggining. I wasnt boverd at first n i confronted him about it and he jus acted like a little boy and got embarrassed about. We dont have sex very often because im tired alot of the time since ive had a baby. But i do try n please him wen i can. But i found at least 25 different porn websites, n i know he does it as soon as i go out cz hes in the bath room for ocer 2hours. And i am disgusted by it ive neverc
watched it cz its degradin women, thats someones daughter ! Its wrong and to me their all slags i dont csre what anyone says, but wen i confront him about it he gets all angry n deffensive about it. It makes me feel like crap cz he would rsther watch a plastic dolled up slut avin sex with a 50 yearold bloke than with me his gf. I dont get it but its infuriatin me.
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#80
Jun 4, 2013
 
I don't know if men understand the hurt.pain.and insecurites they cause us with there selfish acts. No we are not porn stars we are beautiful loving caring women who get hurt when our partners prefer to spend time with a photo or a video than with us !!!!!!!
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#82
Jun 11, 2013
 
I been with my bb 3 yrs ,i don't know his mom and he watches porno everyday.Im getting so tired to the point of living him.

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