Single-sex school helps black boys

Oct 19, 2013 | Posted by: roboblogger | Full story: CNN

One of No Child Left Behind's controversial initiatives -- support for single-sex public schools and classes -- has come under heavy fire from critics.

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“Proud White Woman for life!”

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This could help reduce the problems I face. The BM might womanize because of insecurity and the inability to get along with either being alone or being around other BM doing guy things. So remove the distractions like sex or needing to impress girls, spin learning as a good thing, eliminate comparisons with girl students (causing boys to want to fail since they connect learning with effeminacy), and it just might help them.

I get tired of the criticisms of single-gender schools. There are biological differences and they need to be addressed differently, but that is not why single-sex education should be considered.

Girls can often speak up more without the competition of boys, and sexual assaults, dating violence, the distraction of being around boys, bullying, and other things can be reduced, Plus single gender education helps girls by freeing them from gender stereotypes, since if they want to have contact sports or do traditional boy things, the schools could be set up that way.

Boys can be free of the distractions of sex and trying to score girls and learn to interact with other boys and learn to accept their gender. They may be free to do things that are more traditionally feminine, and nobody would be judged, since all could be made to do them. Sure, topics could be spun in ways that interest boys and keep them captivated. In turn, they can grow up to have more education and learn better about how to be men.

I think a lot of the problems with men is growing up around mostly only female authority. Slavery took power from BM, but growing up in female-led households continue to make them feel powerless. So if they could be given intensive exposure to male bonding and stuff, then it could counteract the culture of male insecurity and enable BM to make better husbands and fathers. If you are socialized to be too much like girls, then what is the point of marrying girls? You simply would keep trying to look for that female who is a challenge or who makes you "feel like a man" and never find it. But the thing is, feeling "like a man" comes from the inside; it is not out there. If you don't already feel that way, there is no "right woman" who can make you feel that way. It is not there. And their search for it "out there" makes them perpetuate the problem, since they leave children behind without real fathers, insuring they feel just as empty and powerless.

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In the Uk it is accepted that kids do better in single sex schools. My daughter has attended a single sex school since she was 11 years old.

“You may call me pat”

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There are advantages in the academic point of view but disadvantages in the social interaction point of view.
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-patricia- wrote:
There are advantages in the academic point of view but disadvantages in the social interaction point of view.
73 percent of black boys are born to unwed mothers with no baby daddy. How do you think that helps them with their social interaction?

“You may call me pat”

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Jonesson wrote:
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73 percent of black boys are born to unwed mothers with no baby daddy. How do you think that helps them with their social interaction?
I was speaking according to the OP's point of view. A school environment not a society as a whole.

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-patricia- wrote:
There are advantages in the academic point of view but disadvantages in the social interaction point of view.
No, not really. BM have the worse socialization already. Part of the problem is getting sexualized too early in life. They need to learn to get along with their peers of the same gender, learn to accept them, and accept their own masculinity first.

In studies, home-schooled kids do far better in terms of academics and social skills. One of the whole purposes of school is to be independent and to need others less. And public schools fail at teaching independence rather than group think. Home-schooled kids are also less likely to bully. Bullying means a total lack of social skills. So those who never learn that in the first place are socially superior to those who do. The less people approach strangers whom they have no right to speak to or "try to know" in the first place, the better they are socially.

That is just home-schooled kids, a whole different scenario than this. But if this reduces violence, hypersexuality, and bullying, while increasing academics (which is far more important than being "socialized"), then they actually have superior social skills. The social engineers out there want to ruin and destroy everyone's kids and pretend that if you don't let them get ruined, they are not "socialized," as if this weapon everyone calls "socialized" is something good in the first place. There are many places to be "socialized," and that includes church, clubs outside the school, the streets, family, etc.

Personally, I think large and unstable families ruin children. It teaches them to boss, bully, patronize, condescend, and force unwanted "help" on others. It encourages nosiness, discourages intellect, discourages independence, and discourages individuality.

Nearly everything evil in the world happens because of an excessive emphasis on being "socialized." People assault and kill in groups. They drink to excess and take drugs in groups. They rape in groups. Oh, and the ultimate in being socialized are those who kill themselves in groups.

And every military must be the most socialized, since they work together to murder thousands in groups, and in their free time, they get drunk under the table, rob or sodomize their platoon buddies, and murder babies and rape foreign women (or the man-wannabes in their own platoon who'd rather kill other women's sons than raise their own) for fun. Plus there are the many in the military who belong to hate groups. Talk about being socialized... I once read an article entitled, "A Few Good Nazis." Okay, there are many fine soldiers whom none of this fits at all, and for some, that is where they learned discipline and respect they would have never learned elsewhere.

Okay, I don't so much mean to disagree as I am trying to get conversation started and give some food for thought.
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School sucks way more than it should because of how the black kids screw it up for the rest of us. Put the chimps and the hoes in separate monkey boxes out back. That would be a good start.
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Btw some black kids are cool as hell, but they outnumbered...
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True grit wrote:
School sucks way more than it should because of how the black kids screw it up for the rest of us. Put the chimps and the hoes in separate monkey boxes out back. That would be a good start.
Hey you asked...
Get in your box!

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-patricia- wrote:
There are advantages in the academic point of view but disadvantages in the social interaction point of view.
Hi Pat, nice to see you back posting.
For girls single sex schools are better because boys usually are more forceful when demanding attention from the teachers. They end up monopolizing the teachers' time while the girls get overlooked.
As for social interaction, you can organize outside school activities like football, a chess club, all kind of things where your kids can interact with other children.
That's what people do who home school their children, they get them involved in activities outside school where they can socialize with other children regularly.
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I say all black boys should attend not only single sex (MALE) schools but single race (BLACK) schools, such action will surely decrease the amount black boy instigated rape, drug use & filth.
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Good write-up, SG. I like all the concepts and grooming of a boy to Man however, it needs to start at the home-level with both Mom and Dad.

The Dad need to do and teach things pertaining to boys and the Mom, things pertaining to girls.

Brothers and Sisters living in the same household is the best social setting for youngies to learn how to respect one another without any sexual thoughts.

They grow up and translates that experience in the real world. Sons remember their Mother/Father teaching, and the protection and respect of their sisters.

Daughters remember their Father/Mother teaching and give love and support to their beloved brothers. Optimal setting to instill good qualities in both sexes. Hm?

If they are growing up separated, girls will most likely grow-up the way you turned out, where you feel the need to compete with Men or see the image of Men to be less masculine and a bit feminine and liberal for your acceptance of them. That's a passive Man, and it is not good.

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thata'as only because black boys sre getting the attention they need/desrve like everyone else.not because they are seperated from girls,everyone else.
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@ Joe,

A lot of those molestation cases are perpetrated by by non-biological parents or someone outside the family. This is why Black Men and Women need to understand, whoever your children parents are, it is best to stick together for the long haul until they are of age to be on their own.

I couldn't even fathom another Man raising my sons or living in a house with my sons. It is not his, and he won't feel that same love and cherishing of the children like I would, their real biological Parent.

Having said that, Whites are the BIGGEST Pedophile, ever. They practice incest more than any other nationality. Even sons mating their White mothers. Fathers mating their own flesh and blood daughters. Sick!

Don't get me started on White, Catholic Priests, either. Smh.

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My brother went to an all boys school and I definitely think it put him at an advantage. They taught them how to be men. Honorable men who benefit society, and I think that's what we're lacking.

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Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
<quoted text>...dayum b**ch - u ugly.........and scary lookin......
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Malic wrote:
I couldn't even fathom another Man raising my sons or living in a house with my sons. It is not his, and he won't feel that same love and cherishing of the children like I would, their real biological Parent.
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That's not true and slave descent BM have been relying on that not being true for generations.
Some men do not want to be fathers. They have drug problems, are violent, mental health problems etc.
It is better not to have a father like that, especially if your mother can marry a good man who will treat you as his own. Many many children have been raised by loving supportive step fathers and step grandparents. I'm one of them :)
I would actually sacrifice my mother and my whole biological family in preference for my step grandfather, who is dead now, but I loved that old Pentecostal pastor more than anyone in my life. And he was not my blood.

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Sometimes we are just biologically related to people with "problems" and it is a blessing when we get people from an outside family who want to be part of our lives.

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Malic wrote:
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I'm sorry for your lost but you are an exception to the case. Can you honestly say molestation is common among biological parents than step-parents or men outside the family...i.e., a boyfriend?
It definitely is more common with step fathers than biological fathers. But I wanted to highlight the fact many children are "rescued" from irresponsible, neglectful biological fathers, by good loving step fathers.

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I don't think students get the much needed social interaction by attending a same sex school plus it sounds too militaristic, I just loved getting attention from guys when I attended school.

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