Alfonso, East Dover assis. fire chief, dies

Brian Alfonso, assistant fire chief of East Dover, died last week at the age of 45. Full Story
Doverinhabitant

Wilmington, VT

#1 Nov 1, 2010
He killied his self.
flat lander

United States

#2 Nov 1, 2010
well I and others hope not but was the recent truck incident from his bosses [town] to blame for this. Pressure in the "Dover's" too much to delete your life. best to his family and friends. Don't climb the mountain if you got no way down, amen
Doverinhabitant

Wilmington, VT

#3 Nov 2, 2010
flat lander wrote:
well I and others hope not but was the recent truck incident from his bosses [town] to blame for this. Pressure in the "Dover's" too much to delete your life. best to his family and friends. Don't climb the mountain if you got no way down, amen
I don't understand, he died at home and shot himself is what i hear. I, myself do not believe he shot himself. But your right, I wish the best of luck to there family and hope he may rest in peace.
DoverGuy

Wilmington, VT

#5 Nov 4, 2010
Brian was deeply respected and liked here in
Dover. My husban and I attended his funeral yesterday. Full Firefighter/EMT/Military honors were afford him. Latest guess 300 - 4oo attended his funeral. EMT's/Firefighters were represented from NY, Mass, NH and of course from all over the state of Vermont. Brian was loved and well liked. His wife and funeral home presented him in a closed casket. How he died is not known at this time but it will be revealed in time. I am searching for a copy of the coroners report (with no success yet). If I find it I will come back and post the facts not speculations. If anyword should find out facts then please email me at flagrainbow@gmail.com THANKS
dover

West Dover, VT

#6 Nov 4, 2010
his wife just left him and was in protective housing with their children. The school was locked down for a few days because he was having some mental issues. He was very well liked in the community but had some anger issues he took out on his family. The deatails are not known becuase they dont want us to know
DoverGuy

Wilmington, VT

#7 Nov 4, 2010
Pehaps it's best not to know. I hope you have a good souce for what you are saying.
outraged

Nassau, NY

#8 Nov 6, 2010
dover wrote:
his wife just left him and was in protective housing with their children. The school was locked down for a few days because he was having some mental issues. He was very well liked in the community but had some anger issues he took out on his family. The deatails are not known becuase they dont want us to know
First of all nobody knows why or what happened but god! Second of all people should not be spreading rumors unless they have facts ...third of all he isnt even here to defend himself so please let him rest in peace!!!
outraged

Nassau, NY

#9 Nov 6, 2010
Doverinhabitant wrote:
He killied his self.
Are you retarded? STFU! Why dont you go killied yourself stupid!
Brians mental friend

Nassau, NY

#10 Nov 6, 2010
dover wrote:
his wife just left him and was in protective housing with their children. The school was locked down for a few days because he was having some mental issues. He was very well liked in the community but had some anger issues he took out on his family. The deatails are not known becuase they dont want us to know
You are a clueless finger pointing douche bag. You can't even spell RERE. Noone knows anything but you right? You don't know jack shit. STFU!
DoverGuy

Wilmington, VT

#11 Nov 6, 2010
What the heck are you all doing? There is not one of you who know anything including myself. But what I do know is that Brian was a really dear friend. It's been awhile since I cried, but I did the other day as they moved his coffin from the church into Rescue #4 for his last trip in it. It's Saturday and I went to visit him, just sat there and thanked him for a lot that he did for me and for my partner. They were both on the same squad together. So as I am reading this CRAP above I'd like to get hold of each you sew your mouths shut, so no more words can come from you. Your all a disgrace to nothing more than yourself! ps THANK YOU OUTRAGED
OUTRAGED

Nassau, NY

#12 Nov 7, 2010
flat lander wrote:
well I and others hope not but was the recent truck incident from his bosses [town] to blame for this. Pressure in the "Dover's" too much to delete your life. best to his family and friends. Don't climb the mountain if you got no way down, amen
I am just wondering what recent truck incident u r talking about my email is caprisun31_2000@yahoo.com

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#13 Nov 7, 2010
I think the recent truck incident he is talking about is the Rescue truck that was stolen from the East Dover FD. It was found a few days later in Albany. Probably just a coincidence.
dover

West Dover, VT

#14 Nov 9, 2010
Brians mental friend wrote:
<quoted text>You are a clueless finger pointing **** bag. You can't even spell RERE. Noone knows anything but you right? You don't know jack ****. STFU!
are you a real friend???? Im sure if you where you would know more. I was the one picking my child up from a lock down school and demanded to know why, they did not give me detailed info but it came together after the fact.... and I didnt even print some of the details that I dont know are true!
Sorry I cant spell RERE????
Outraged

Nassau, NY

#15 Nov 11, 2010
dover wrote:
<quoted text>
are you a real friend???? Im sure if you where you would know more. I was the one picking my child up from a lock down school and demanded to know why, they did not give me detailed info but it came together after the fact.... and I didnt even print some of the details that I dont know are true!
Sorry I cant spell RERE????
Dover i asked the Dover PD if the school was on lockdown and they said no they were just monitoring who was going in and out of the school. Brian would never go into the school and harm anyone ! Anyone that truely knew Brian would know that for sure!
Brians Sincere Friend

Nassau, NY

#16 Nov 11, 2010
dover wrote:
<quoted text>
are you a real friend???? Im sure if you where you would know more. I was the one picking my child up from a lock down school and demanded to know why, they did not give me detailed info but it came together after the fact.... and I didnt even print some of the details that I dont know are true!
Sorry I cant spell RERE????
Cry some more you whining little beotch! You are probably a horrible parent. Maybe it isnt your fault because you are slow.(A nice way to say retarded). Lock your stupid comments down!
mean guy

Nassau, NY

#18 Nov 11, 2010
is there even a moderator on this site???? haha lmfao. eat it!
Newyork

Nassau, NY

#19 Nov 12, 2010
dover wrote:
his wife just left him and was in protective housing with their children. The school was locked down for a few days because he was having some mental issues. He was very well liked in the community but had some anger issues he took out on his family. The deatails are not known becuase they dont want us to know
Whatever, you probably don't even know him.You need to shut your mouth.By the way, learn to use proper grammar and spelling.
indover

West Dover, VT

#21 Nov 16, 2010
you had to ring a bell and be let in the school it simply was not a murder he took his own life
Fellow Firefighter

Nashua, NH

#22 Feb 8, 2011
Brian was a good friend,and a compassionate Individual ! He loved to make others laugh.
What is all the profanity ? Enough is Enough....
Show Respect to him ! Noone is Perfect........

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