Should I have sex with my son?

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Since: Dec 06

Cathedral City, CA

#1 Dec 23, 2006
Anyone who has to ask whether he should have sex with his son ought to be locked up. I though the biblical lesson of Lot and his daughter made that clear.
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Attleboro, MA

#6 Dec 23, 2006
OO - Openly Okie wrote:
Anyone who has to ask whether he should have sex with his son ought to be locked up. I though the biblical lesson of Lot and his daughter made that clear.
Okie, we don't need the bible to tell us this is a bad thing.
See More

Attleboro, MA

#8 Dec 23, 2006
Top Side wrote:
It has finally come to me that the Spanish whore from Miami will do more to piss off the public about gays and cast them in a negative light more than I ever could. Just let her post away and name call away. She is our secret weapon against gays. You go girl! Go clobber all the gays you can with that stupid mouth of yours, I loving it.
Well that one was flagged multiple times for review! Switch computers? Change your handle?

You are the most clever idito that's ever been on Topix!!! Congratulations, you are on your way out, AGAIN!
Dave

Seattle, WA

#10 Dec 25, 2006
Right Wing wrote:
THIS GUY SURE HAS A GOOD VIEW OF WHAT'S HAPPENING TO THIS COUNTRY!
We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery.
We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare.
We have killed our unborn and called it choice.
We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self esteem.
We have abused power and called it politics.
We have coveted our neighbor's possessions and called it ambition.
We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression.
We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers and called it enlightenment.
We don't even sing "God Bless America" any more in schools.
We have lost our spiritual equilibrium and reversed our values.
PAUL HARVEY'S ON AIR PRAYER:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you today to ask your forgiveness and to seek your direction and guidance."
"We know Your Word says, "Woe to those who call evil good," but that is exactly what we have done. Search us, Oh God, and know our hearts today! ; cleans e us from every sin and Set us free. Amen!"
Commentator Paul Harvey aired this prayer on his radio program, "The Rest of the Story," and received a larger response to this program than any other he has ever aired. If possible, please pass this prayer on to your friends. "If you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything."
With the Lord's help, may this prayer sweep over our nation and wholeheartedly become our desire so that we again can be called "One nation under God."
Think about this: If you forward this prayer to everyone on your e-mail list, in less than 30 days it would be heard by the world.(It's worth a try!) One Nation Under God
I disagree with you.
America is a democracy not a theocracy (Religious Dictatorship).
Why do you feel so threatened by those who are different from yourself?
Why do you think you need to use civil law to impose your defination of marriage on non-believers?
What are you afraid of?
Why should liberal, compassionate citizens of this country be forced into following your ideas of morality?
No one is going to force you to marry someone of the same sex!!!
No one will assault you just because your hetrosexual!!
No one will destroy your property just because of your sexuality!!!
Again, just what are you afraid of?
As a compassionate, liberal minded, spiritually oriented citizen, I have only 3 legal obligations to my fellow citizens who are members of conservative religions.
These three obligations are:
1) As best as I am able, do no harm to your person or the person(s) of your loved ones.
2) Do no harm to your physical property.
3) Do no harm to your finances.

I have no legal obligation to belong to the same church/mosque or synagoue that you do. Nor do I have a legal obligation to follow the religious principles of any church/mosque or synagogue, of which I am not a voluntary member.(Subject to the 3 legal obligations mentioned above.)

I wish you, and all who think as you do, would simply leave their religious beliefs inside your(their) own homes, churches, mosques or synagogues and leave the rest of us alone.
I don't need self rightous, pharisees telling me how I am supposed to live or what religion I should join.
My prayer is: "GOD SAVE ME FROM YOUR CONSERVATIVE FOLLOWERS and PLEASE SAVE THE UNITED STATES FROM THEIR INFLUENCE."
Dave

Seattle, WA

#11 Dec 25, 2006
Sorry, for the second identical post. Not sure how that happened.

Since: Dec 06

GREEN LANE, PA

#12 Dec 25, 2006
See More wrote:
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Well that one was flagged multiple times for review! Switch computers? Change your handle?
You are the most clever idito that's ever been on Topix!!! Congratulations, you are on your way out, AGAIN!
See More, goes to show ya that flagging someone does work when deserved. Don't happen to see that persons post on here that you flagged. Good job.
Jeff698

Seattle, WA

#13 Dec 25, 2006
Why not. You are both adults. If you both have the desire, and know that you won't be hung up on phoney guilt trips afterwards, I see nothing wrong with it. Talk together about your desires and then go from there. The two of you may not want a long term relationship, but just a few fun and games. Talk it over and make your own decisions.
Jeff698

Seattle, WA

#15 Dec 27, 2006
Gia wrote:
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One has to wonder why you feel incest is comparable to two consenting unrelated adults having a relationship. Some real disturbing inner feelings being expressed here ....get help.
Sorry, don't need help. As long as pregnancy is not a factor then there is no harm. That's just a practical way of looking at a very sensitive and emotionally laden topic.
I understand your viewpoint even if I do not totally agree with it. Hope you have a happy new year.
Kristen

Comanche, OK

#16 Dec 28, 2006
Right Wing wrote:
THIS GUY SURE HAS A GOOD VIEW OF WHAT'S HAPPENING TO THIS COUNTRY!
1 We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery.
2.We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare.
3.We have killed our unborn and called it choice.
4.We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self esteem.
5.We have abused power and called it politics.
6.We have coveted our neighbor's possessions and called it ambition.
7.We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression.
8.We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers and called it enlightenment.
9.We don't even sing "God Bless America" any more in schools.
10.We have lost our spiritual equilibrium and reversed our values.
I numbered the matching comments

1. lottery as in "here, buy a ticket!" their choice
2. not everybody has the same opportunities in life and need help
3. if you dont trust them to decide whether they can care for a kid, how could you trust them to actually care for it
4. what does that even mean?
5. totally agreed
6. without longing to acheive something more, you're never going to get there
7. a definite problem, but, mr. right wing, start worrying about how much were polluting the environment first
8. so how about getting back all of their values, such as rich white males running the country; get a grip, times have changed
9. two minutes singing a song x 5 days a week x 36 weeks per year x 13 years of school = 78 hours of education that we didnt have. go figure.
10. in the 21st century, people can make thier own values

Just another thing: what exactly did your comment have to do with the forum?

“I like to talk about anything”

Since: Dec 06

Balikpapan

#17 Dec 30, 2006
Does anyone think it's okay to have sex with our own son? What would that mean? The dad must be gay, and the son must be too? Or the dad forces his son to have sex with? That'd be cruel.

How could that possibly happen?

“laugh until your belly hurts”

Since: Dec 06

Location hidden

#18 Dec 30, 2006
bearer wrote:
Does anyone think it's okay to have sex with our own son? What would that mean? The dad must be gay, and the son must be too? Or the dad forces his son to have sex with? That'd be cruel.
How could that possibly happen?
i suggest that you follow the link at the top of the page and read the article. it will help you understand it better.
Kristen

Comanche, OK

#19 Dec 30, 2006
bearer wrote:
Does anyone think it's okay to have sex with our own son? What would that mean? The dad must be gay, and the son must be too? Or the dad forces his son to have sex with? That'd be cruel.
How could that possibly happen?
you must be either naive or extremely sheltered to think that there arent creeps out there who do these kinds of things
D-oh

AOL

#20 Dec 30, 2006
And some people think being gay doesn't lead to even more perverted things like incest.

“I like to talk about anything”

Since: Dec 06

Balikpapan

#21 Dec 31, 2006
Yea, i took time reading the article that said that the 42 year-old dad didnt know he had a son until the son himself gave a call to him.

I was wrong thinking that that'd be cruel having sex with our own son. But it'd be truely wrong if the sex's done forcedly by the dad or either by the son to his dad (huh?)

TO Kristen : I never made any single sex, so it's kinda a new thing for me to know that a dad can possibly make love with the son.
Allaboutnothing

Lompoc, CA

#22 Dec 31, 2006
This topix question is just much to "sick" to comment on!

“I like to talk about anything”

Since: Dec 06

Balikpapan

#23 Dec 31, 2006
Allaboutnothing wrote:
This topix question is just much to "sick" to comment on!
You wouldnt have said like that if you would just care. You'd understand when you experience it yourself.:)
Bi Guy

UK

#24 Jan 5, 2007
I wonder how old bearer is? hard to tell from the picture, though it is a sexy one lol!
Bi Guy

UK

#25 Jan 5, 2007
PS- even so Bearer, i think there are some things one should never get to experience (ie rape and incest)

“I like to talk about anything”

Since: Dec 06

Balikpapan

#26 Jan 5, 2007
Bi Guy wrote:
I wonder how old bearer is? hard to tell from the picture, though it is a sexy one lol!
Really!!!?? LOL...

“I like to talk about anything”

Since: Dec 06

Balikpapan

#27 Jan 5, 2007
Bi Guy wrote:
PS- even so Bearer, i think there are some things one should never get to experience (ie rape and incest)
You said you just 15 and havent made sex, rite? but you said then you DO rape and "suprisingly to me" incest. Are you hiding your real profile? Are you really 15? You sound much older, i believe.

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