Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#740 Sep 10, 2013
Capricorn wrote:
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I think it is a general overall opinion that Dr. Beuf is lying and covering up a great deal. I won't address the others but hey, they could lie too. A LOT of lying has been done over the years and they are not exempt
I believe Beuf has much to tell and more to hide. He is not an innocent in all this either. His reputation would have been shattered had he failed to acknowledge or report any suspected abuse or neglect. So yeah, IF he lied, he had good reason to and the arrival of a pediatrician, friend or not, at the crime scene to medicate Patsy is just another reason to suspect him as being a big part of the cover up.
Dr. Beuf, along with Susan Stine IMO are people who have a lot of secrets
It may be general overall RDI opinion. That’s neither evidence nor reason. How does Beuf saying that it was “flat wrong” that the Ramseys had refused to be interviewed protect his own reputation?
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AK

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#741 Sep 10, 2013
DrSeussMd wrote:
Being unwilling to sit down with the police for 4 months when your daughter was murdered in your own home is not overstating their unwillingness to cooperate. It is amplifying it!
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Blame goes both ways on this one. True story.
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AK

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#742 Sep 10, 2013
DrSeussMd wrote:
Maybe ‘suspects’ is the wrong word. Anyone who has ever heard of any kidnapping knows the people to see the person last, people in the home with the person, etc. need to be ruled out or discounted as being part of the crime. That can be done without becoming a suspect or really even a person of interest.
By the same token, any attorney worth their salt would have explained that to their clients immediately. Just because the BPD wanted to talk to them separately does not mean they were suspects. It is standard police procedure. Nothing special or concocted just for the Ramsey’s. When you are questioning one person, you don’t want their answers to sway the opinion of the other person you need to question, which is why people are questioned separately.
It is a case of nailing down a sequential timeline of events leading up to, and inclusive of, a missing person or a kidnapping, or even a fake kidnapping as it was in this case. Just as some people are auditory learners and some are visual, people remember things differently. Top get the complete perspective, one must speak to both individuals apart from one another in order to gain complete insight.
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I agree, they needed to be interviewed separately and as we all know, they WERE interviewed separately. So, what’s your point?

The “sequential timeline of events leading up to” had been established early on that first day before the body was even discovered, and discovery of the body didn’t change that.

The four month delay before a formal sit down – a delay which BOTH parties are to blame for – should have played to BPD’s advantage.
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AK

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#743 Sep 10, 2013
Anti-K wrote:
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I’m not sure what the point is behind all the discussion about at what point the Ramseys realized that they were suspects.
I think it’s just as likely that since the Ramseys knew that an intruder had come into their home they also believed, at least in the first few days, that BPD also knew that an intruder had come into their home. So, why would they be suspects?
Even if the Ramseys were responsible, isn’t it the RDI theory that they did this and that to cast suspicion away from themselves? So, if they figured that there plan was working, then they would not have realized that BPD considered them to be suspects; right?
Of course, whether they were suspects or not, they should have understood the need to provide certain things for comparison to evidence from the crime scene; but, there is nothing about this need that is indicative of suspicion on anyone’s part.
However you look at it, it is quite plausible that in the early DAYS the Ramseys did not realize that they should be or would be considered suspects. So what? I don’t really understand why this is being discussed so much? What difference does it make at WHEN they realized that they were suspects?
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AK
Morning AK

LOL, feel free not to discuss it but the point of the discussion was to really dispel the myth that the Ramseys were too naïve to realize that they would have to be eliminated FIRST before the authorities can move on to anyone else. I am disputing that theory due to the reality that the Ramseys lived right here on earth and MUST know that they should have/would have been the prime suspects and should have/would have cooperated IF they had nothing to hide

Obviously, if the Ramseys believed that the BPD also knew that there was an intruder, then you are stating that the BPD intentionally planned to "pin" the murder on them, knowing full well that they were innocent?

That's reaching really far, even for Boulder

In the early days IF the Ramseys didn't believe they should be suspects based on the circumstances, then you are accusing them of being BEYOND naïve and just plain stupid

So what you ask?

Their actions are the crux of the whole case so it is a reason for discussion and differing opinions but if it is silly for you, then feel free not to discuss it further and we can just have differing opinions to which we both are entitled rather than to frustrate you further

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#744 Sep 10, 2013
Anti-K wrote:
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Blame goes both ways on this one. True story.
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AK
There is a lot of blame to go around. It starts with the Ramseys, the BPD, Hunter, the lawyers, the reporters, Smit, Tracey, and worst of all, the internet posters who have tried and in some cases, still try to contact the people involved in the case trying to pretend they are detectives with the real players involved.

The propaganda is abundant in this case and the citizens who are internet posters are partially responsible for the crime not being solved. They made it a circus with their self touting "skills" and interference in a real case.

That is my opinion. It's one thing to discuss the case on the internet but quite another to attempt to actually solve it yourself and pestering the people involved

JMHO
Just Wondering

Beckley, WV

#745 Sep 10, 2013
Capricorn wrote:
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Morning AK
LOL, feel free not to discuss it but the point of the discussion was to really dispel the myth that the Ramseys were too naïve to realize that they would have to be eliminated FIRST before the authorities can move on to anyone else. I am disputing that theory due to the reality that the Ramseys lived right here on earth and MUST know that they should have/would have been the prime suspects and should have/would have cooperated IF they had nothing to hide
Obviously, if the Ramseys believed that the BPD also knew that there was an intruder, then you are stating that the BPD intentionally planned to "pin" the murder on them, knowing full well that they were innocent?
That's reaching really far, even for Boulder
In the early days IF the Ramseys didn't believe they should be suspects based on the circumstances, then you are accusing them of being BEYOND naïve and just plain stupid
So what you ask?
Their actions are the crux of the whole case so it is a reason for discussion and differing opinions but if it is silly for you, then feel free not to discuss it further and we can just have differing opinions to which we both are entitled rather than to frustrate you further
I am not commenting on this post. Forgive me for trying this route, but I need some instruction here.

I have tried to post four posts within the past day, and they do not show up on this forum. Am I being blocked? Does anyone have any idea on how to resolve this issue?

Thanks for any aid given.:)

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#746 Sep 10, 2013
Just Wondering wrote:
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I am not commenting on this post. Forgive me for trying this route, but I need some instruction here.
I have tried to post four posts within the past day, and they do not show up on this forum. Am I being blocked? Does anyone have any idea on how to resolve this issue?
Thanks for any aid given.:)
This post came through without a problem. If your posts contained links, sometimes they won't post.

If you have a continuing problem, you may have to contact topix directly

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#747 Sep 10, 2013
With all due respect, but what’s my point, LOL? I am not sure we can discuss this (although I would still like to try) on the same level if you seriously don’t see a difference in interviewing the parents separately the day of, the day after, or 2 days after the crime as opposed to 4 months later after they have had time to discuss it among themselves, go on CNN, meet with their attorneys, have their attorneys prep them for the police interviews to iron out any little coinkydinks in their stories. So I might have to ask what your point is in deflecting the subject from the ridiculous to the sublime? We certainly don’t “have” to discuss it, but to attempt to parallel the requested interviews with the actual ones, and indicate there wasn’t a difference is kind of like playing make believe.
Anti-K wrote:
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I agree, they needed to be interviewed separately and as we all know, they WERE interviewed separately. So, what’s your point?
Ah, but it entirely changes the frame-of-reference of the interviewer and their approach to asking/rewording/re-asking specific questions. Would you ask the same questions - in the same manner - of an alleged shoplifter as you would an alleged drug trafficker? How about an accident witness vs an alleged kidnapper, or an accident witness vs a person of interest in a securities fraud. A sequential timeline changes dependent on the questions asked and the manner in which they are asked.
Anti-K wrote:
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The “sequential timeline of events leading up to” had been established early on that first day before the body was even discovered, and discovery of the body didn’t change that.
I absolutely disagree. They aren’t even on the same playing field in the same ballpark. How can you compare the two? Once you lose the original window of opportunity and the element of surprise, the rest is as they say – History!
Anti-K wrote:
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The four month delay before a formal sit down – a delay which BOTH parties are to blame for – should have played to BPD’s advantage.
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AK

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#748 Sep 10, 2013
Capricorn wrote:
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Morning AK
LOL, feel free not to discuss it but the point of the discussion was to really dispel the myth that the Ramseys were too naïve to realize that they would have to be eliminated FIRST before the authorities can move on to anyone else. I am disputing that theory due to the reality that the Ramseys lived right here on earth and MUST know that they should have/would have been the prime suspects and should have/would have cooperated IF they had nothing to hide
Obviously, if the Ramseys believed that the BPD also knew that there was an intruder, then you are stating that the BPD intentionally planned to "pin" the murder on them, knowing full well that they were innocent?
That's reaching really far, even for Boulder
In the early days IF the Ramseys didn't believe they should be suspects based on the circumstances, then you are accusing them of being BEYOND naïve and just plain stupid
So what you ask?
Their actions are the crux of the whole case so it is a reason for discussion and differing opinions but if it is silly for you, then feel free not to discuss it further and we can just have differing opinions to which we both are entitled rather than to frustrate you further
I think you misunderstood what I was saying.

If the Ramseys believed – in the first day or two, at least – that BPD believed that there was an intruder then they would have no reason to believe – in the first day or two, at least - that BPD suspected them.
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AK

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#749 Sep 10, 2013
DrSeussMd wrote:
With all due respect, but what’s my point, LOL? I am not sure we can discuss this (although I would still like to try) on the same level if you seriously don’t see a difference in interviewing the parents separately the day of, the day after, or 2 days after the crime as opposed to 4 months later after they have had time to discuss it among themselves, go on CNN, meet with their attorneys, have their attorneys prep them for the police interviews to iron out any little coinkydinks in their stories. So I might have to ask what your point is in deflecting the subject from the ridiculous to the sublime? We certainly don’t “have” to discuss it, but to attempt to parallel the requested interviews with the actual ones, and indicate there wasn’t a difference is kind of like playing make believe.
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Ah, but it entirely changes the frame-of-reference of the interviewer and their approach to asking/rewording/re-asking specific questions. Would you ask the same questions - in the same manner - of an alleged shoplifter as you would an alleged drug trafficker? How about an accident witness vs an alleged kidnapper, or an accident witness vs a person of interest in a securities fraud. A sequential timeline changes dependent on the questions asked and the manner in which they are asked.
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I absolutely disagree. They aren’t even on the same playing field in the same ballpark. How can you compare the two? Once you lose the original window of opportunity and the element of surprise, the rest is as they say – History!
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The sequential time line as you call it, was established before the body was even discovered. Subsequent interviews, etc may not have proceeded ideally – with blame for this going to both sides - but they did proceed. The fact that they did not proceed as you and some would have liked is not indicative of Ramsey guilt or involvement in any crime.

This is how the four moth delay could have played to BPD’s advantage. Those four months gave BPD the opportunity to investigate the family, their friends, associates, etc and to spend time investigating the crime scene and neighborhood, it allowed time for results from forensic tests to be delivered and so on; all this should have aided BPD in developing and refining various lines of questioning once they were able to formally sit down with the Ramseys.

As to what we should make of their lawyer’s demands – paired interviews, for example – the focus should really be on what actually transpired – separate interviews.
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AK

Since: May 11

AOL

#750 Sep 10, 2013
DrSeussMd wrote:
With all due respect, but what’s my point, LOL? I am not sure we can discuss this (although I would still like to try) on the same level if you seriously don’t see a difference in interviewing the parents separately the day of, the day after, or 2 days after the crime as opposed to 4 months later after they have had time to discuss it among themselves, go on CNN, meet with their attorneys, have their attorneys prep them for the police interviews to iron out any little coinkydinks in their stories. So I might have to ask what your point is in deflecting the subject from the ridiculous to the sublime? We certainly don’t “have” to discuss it, but to attempt to parallel the requested interviews with the actual ones, and indicate there wasn’t a difference is kind of like playing make believe.
<quoted text>
Ah, but it entirely changes the frame-of-reference of the interviewer and their approach to asking/rewording/re-asking specific questions. Would you ask the same questions - in the same manner - of an alleged shoplifter as you would an alleged drug trafficker? How about an accident witness vs an alleged kidnapper, or an accident witness vs a person of interest in a securities fraud. A sequential timeline changes dependent on the questions asked and the manner in which they are asked.
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I absolutely disagree. They aren’t even on the same playing field in the same ballpark. How can you compare the two? Once you lose the original window of opportunity and the element of surprise, the rest is as they say – History!
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Don't you want to just scream sometimes? Innocent people ask questions, go into shock, NEED to know WHO did this..there is NOTHING normal about leaving a child of your's dead under a christmas tree while you vamoose to another state! If the Van Dams did that,..OMG!
Innocent victims of a crime want answers and they want the police to get those answers. The Ramseys wanted the police to go away and forget about it. All the discussions with IDI is like talking to Jodi Arias.

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#751 Sep 11, 2013
realTopaz wrote:
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Don't you want to just scream sometimes? Innocent people ask questions, go into shock, NEED to know WHO did this..there is NOTHING normal about leaving a child of your's dead under a christmas tree while you vamoose to another state! If the Van Dams did that,..OMG!
Innocent victims of a crime want answers and they want the police to get those answers. The Ramseys wanted the police to go away and forget about it. All the discussions with IDI is like talking to Jodi Arias.
Were they supposed to pack the body up and take it with them? You do realize that they were essentially evicted from their home, it being a crime scene and all that; right? And, you know that they didn’t “vamoose to another state,” they went to the Fernie’s.

And, please don’t tell us that innocent people only ever behave one way and one way only. That’s beyond naïve.

And, what’s the sense of asking questions or seeking help from someone you may believe to be incompetent and wrongly obsessed? How do you convince such a person or entity that they are wrong? You don’t; you can’t.

Regardless, it all comes back to the same thing – the Ramseys did cooperate, they just didn’t do it in as fully, completely or timely or what-have-you manner as some believe that they should have; this ‘failure” made them look guilty. But, both sides are to blame for what transpired.
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AK

Since: Oct 08

Grande Prairie, Canada

#752 Sep 11, 2013
I actually understand and even agree with RDI on many aspects of this specific discussion, although I know it may not seem that way. However, it seems to me that even if the Ramseys had moved into BPD headquarters and had spent every second and minute of every day and night eating and sleeping with investigators, doing “whatever it takes,” 24/7, for years on end, we’d still end up where we are now with a crime unresolved and unsolved.
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AK

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Since: Jul 10

WAX OFF

#753 Sep 11, 2013
Then why wouldn’t they go in as asked for interviews without making a major production about it? They had already retained counsel who would accompany them to protect their civil rights, why refuse? It all goes to timing and intent. Who doesn’t cooperate from the get go, or even bother to ask who killed their child, unless they already know? They were asked on the 26th to go in on the 27th and they made an excuse, and again the same thing the next day. Then they go to Atlanta for the funeral and then on CNN.
Anti-K wrote:
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I’m not sure what the point is behind all the discussion about at what point the Ramseys realized that they were suspects.
I think it’s just as likely that since the Ramseys knew that an intruder had come into their home they also believed, at least in the first few days, that BPD also knew that an intruder had come into their home. So, why would they be suspects?
Then why wouldn’t they sit down with police the next day? Actions speak louder than words.
Anti-K wrote:
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Of course, whether they were suspects or not, they should have understood the need to provide certain things for comparison to evidence from the crime scene; but, there is nothing about this need that is indicative of suspicion on anyone’s part.
Because it changes the intent of their actions. For example, you are posting here and have your own opinions about this case just like other posters here. To find out later that you had been hired by the Ramseys to cloud public opinion by posting here, would change your intent as to why you were here.
Anti-K wrote:
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However you look at it, it is quite plausible that in the early DAYS the Ramseys did not realize that they should be or would be considered suspects. So what? I don’t really understand why this is being discussed so much? What difference does it make at WHEN they realized that they were suspects?
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AK

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Since: Mar 07

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#754 Sep 11, 2013
Anti-K wrote:
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Were they supposed to pack the body up and take it with them? You do realize that they were essentially evicted from their home, it being a crime scene and all that; right? And, you know that they didn’t “vamoose to another state,” they went to the Fernie’s.
And, please don’t tell us that innocent people only ever behave one way and one way only. That’s beyond naïve.
And, what’s the sense of asking questions or seeking help from someone you may believe to be incompetent and wrongly obsessed? How do you convince such a person or entity that they are wrong? You don’t; you can’t.
Regardless, it all comes back to the same thing – the Ramseys did cooperate, they just didn’t do it in as fully, completely or timely or what-have-you manner as some believe that they should have; this ‘failure” made them look guilty. But, both sides are to blame for what transpired.
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AK
Mornin' AK,

The problem with your first sentence is that they were prepared to leave way before they were being "evicted" (something that should have happened to the "visitors" as soon as police arrived but that is another topic. They went to Fernies only after they realized that they could not leave just yet so that rationale isn't quite accurate

Your second paragraph is your opinion based on "myth" when you use the words "incompetent" and "wrongly obsessed", which is ASSUMING based on the RST rhetoric that this was the case. That is wrong. The BPD had a job to do and if you feel they were incompetent and wrongly "OBSESSED" that is a very strong word and not Unbiased; deliberate on your part or not. That is a Ramsey description of their feelings and not necessarily a fact.

We will have to just disagree on the Ramsey level of cooperation. Interviews after four months are just not as legitimate, especially when interviewing both suspects together but you can feel that they did all they could do to cooperate. Most people, other than yourself, believe they could have and should have done a lot more. The bashing of the BPD as to "blame" is not a legitimate reason for the Ramseys to stop caring about the investigation.

I think it is naïve to believe that the Ramseys cooperated fully, completely and certainly NOT timely.

This was their daughter for crying out loud! Blaming everyone else for the Ramsey's lack of cooperation is just wrong.

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#755 Sep 11, 2013
There is no blame on BOTH sides for them not going in for separate interviews on the 27th or 28th like they were asked to do. You made my point for me, by stating in another post that they didn't consider themselves suspects at that time. So why not go?
Anti-K wrote:
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The sequential time line as you call it, was established before the body was even discovered. Subsequent interviews, etc may not have proceeded ideally – with blame for this going to both sides - but they did proceed. The fact that they did not proceed as you and some would have liked is not indicative of Ramsey guilt or involvement in any crime.
AK

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#756 Sep 11, 2013
Anti-K wrote:
I actually understand and even agree with RDI on many aspects of this specific discussion, although I know it may not seem that way. However, it seems to me that even if the Ramseys had moved into BPD headquarters and had spent every second and minute of every day and night eating and sleeping with investigators, doing “whatever it takes,” 24/7, for years on end, we’d still end up where we are now with a crime unresolved and unsolved.
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AK
It's quite possible that you are absolutely correct that we may still end up where we are now with a crime unresolved but had they done the "right" thing, the discussion would be MUCH different.

At least the discussion would NOT include what bad people the Ramseys were for not caring whether the case was solved or not along with other complaints about their behavior and self centered whining.

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#757 Sep 11, 2013
We will certainly never know that, LOL, because the true way they acted was a direct opposite!
Anti-K wrote:
I actually understand and even agree with RDI on many aspects of this specific discussion, although I know it may not seem that way. However, it seems to me that even if the Ramseys had moved into BPD headquarters and had spent every second and minute of every day and night eating and sleeping with investigators, doing “whatever it takes,” 24/7, for years on end, we’d still end up where we are now with a crime unresolved and unsolved.
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AK

Since: Jul 10

Location hidden

#758 Sep 11, 2013
Anti-K wrote:
I actually understand and even agree with RDI on many aspects of this specific discussion, although I know it may not seem that way. However, it seems to me that even if the Ramseys had moved into BPD headquarters and had spent every second and minute of every day and night eating and sleeping with investigators, doing “whatever it takes,” 24/7, for years on end, we’d still end up where we are now with a crime unresolved and unsolved.
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AK
The Ramseys had over 2 years to make their stories match, to make sure every dot connected, to make sure their fabrication of events was cohesive. They had to know what information the investigation had and what questions the police wanted answers to before they would speak with them. They didn't have the personal alone time needed directly after the death as they kept themselves surrounded by a blockade of people. The first interview given after 4 months doesn't count because of the ridiculous demand they only be interviewed together.

Had normal procedures been followed with the protocol of interviewing them seperate as suspects AND OR victims the case would not be open today. I have no clue about Canada but in the US standard police procedures were created and developed to prevent such travesties. The Boulder DA had his beak in where it didn't belong and preverted justice for this dead little girl to benefit the family, a fmaily that had the means to afford such inapropriate 'control' of the DA's actions. It's obvious why, the family laundry was filthy with incest and childhood mental illness. Given the family pathology it's surprising there was only one murder and it hadn't happened sooner.

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#759 Sep 11, 2013
Yes I do, LOL.
I was thinking more of an amoeba although at times they could be synonomous.

I could not have left until my child's body had been removed. If I had to sit in my car with the engine on to stay warm for 8 hours, at the house, I would have. They were asked to leave the structure (house), not the property.
realTopaz wrote:
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Don't you want to just scream sometimes? Innocent people ask questions, go into shock, NEED to know WHO did this..there is NOTHING normal about leaving a child of your's dead under a christmas tree while you vamoose to another state! If the Van Dams did that,..OMG!
Innocent victims of a crime want answers and they want the police to get those answers. The Ramseys wanted the police to go away and forget about it. All the discussions with IDI is like talking to Jodi Arias.

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