This is one of the most cogent and concise posts in a long time. You are absolutely right. Some people seem to feel that the Ramseys are the only people on earth who have lived through tragedy and the loss of a loved one, murdered or otherwise and somehow believe they should be given a pass. Most people, and I speak for many on all the forums have lived through tragedy and yes, even murder in some cases.From where I sit, there are a lot of people who've lost a parent, two or more children, and a spouse. Some have lost even more than that. They just don't whine about it on public television and write books about it and profit from it for the sake of profit.
You are quite right in that most people who have lived through such times do not do what you have described above.
Tragedies like this are horrific and everything that goes along with it but it is not a pass to lie and not do the right and moral thing, especially when it affects so many innocent people.
The Ramsey family has decided that they are entitled to be judge, jury and even worse, God