It doesn't bother me at all. The way you use it:<quoted text>You guys sure HATE the word "Homophobia" don't you? Your kind constantly rail against that word, that word upsets you more than any word I can think of. I wonder why that upsets you all so much?
OK, how about just calling you "intolerant", is THAT more palatable to you?
homophobia = disagreement
The fact is that we tolerate gays everyday. It's no problem.