Just Turned Gay
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Milpitas, CA

#52 Sep 21, 2012
Xanax, that's the answer. Lots of it. At least that's what my therapist seems to think.

I relate to everything in this entire thread. I'm lesbian, lonely, demoralized, seperated from my family, unloved. I'm feminine, attractive, responsible, unloved.

I go out, try new experiences and attempt to make friends, make amends with my family, I'm unloved.

I don't want a relationship with a male, but I don't shun men either. I like men, I like sex without all the nastiness, I like to give and like to laugh. I'm unloved.

I am a lesbian. I am unloved.

Newark, CA

#53 Sep 21, 2012
Hang in there baby. If all your therapist is doing for you is prescribing drugs, hurry up and get a new therapist. This person sounds horrible. Yeah, its a bitch sometimes being lesbian and its even harder being lonely or celebit. Sorry, it kinda goes with the territory. You do have choices. May be not the most satisfying choices but you don't have to be lonely or all drugged out. May be you could try a match making service??? There are hook-up services for gay/lesbians. I'm just saying this might be one way to go. If this won't work for you, buy shoes.


#54 Sep 22, 2012
I just turned gay too and boy does my butt hurt.

Hayward, CA

#55 Oct 2, 2012
Jan Whitacre wrote:
I came out during the 90's and haven't looked back since. I experienced mixed reactions from family and friends since announcing I'm a lesbian, but I've learned to deal with it. I'm older now and not in a relationship. I make freinds easily, but cannot find a serious love connection. One night stands, while temporarily sexually satisfying, leave me feeling unfullfilled. I'm afraid of my tomorrows. I'm a professional, home owner, attractive, but lonely. How do other unconnected gay/lesbians find fulfillment during their September years? Please advise.
We are all "afraid of our tomorrows." It's hard being lesbian when young, and harder when you become a senior citizen. Its the regrets that hurt the most. You try to dismiss or deny the regrets, but deep down they remain. I don't have any advise for you. Fulfillment is elusive and may never come to you no matter how hard you search for it. It has never come to me and I have searched really hard. So have many of my gay and lesbian friends. Friends, not lovers. There are many things said in done in my past that I wish I could change, or explain, or apologize for, but now is too late. Keep your chin up and try to survive is all I can offer.

San Lorenzo, CA

#56 Oct 2, 2012
Go out often. Stay out late. Leave your panties and bra at home. Flirt.

San Lorenzo, CA

#57 Oct 2, 2012
Botox, hair dye, and keep your bush pruned. Suck on your partners ear lobes and give her a foot massage. Get a double dong toy. All this will keep you focused and appreciated.

Oakland, CA

#58 Oct 3, 2012
I love the double dong from the Adam and Eve catalog. Both my partner and me can get off while looking at each other and playing with each others other body parts. It's woooooonderful! I like the 24 inch version since we are both a bit heavy and we need the extra length to reach each others nethers. Plus you need to be able to move it back and forth in each other, so you need room for your hands as well.

Sunnyvale, CA

#59 Oct 5, 2012
I use a water pik sprayed directly on my clit. I don't have a partner so going solo is my thing. I get the most intense orgams I ever had. Onliest thing about the water pik is you have to quit using it after awhile cause if you use it to much its the onliest thing that will give you an orgasm. But there is nothing better. Do in the shower or tub or on your outdoor patio.
Darla and Wendy

Sunnyvale, CA

#60 Oct 5, 2012
We bought a bidet. Fantastic. Best investment we ever made except you'll end up sitting on it all day. Ours is the warm water version with an adjustable aim. We can also adjust the water pressure. It provides both clitoral and anal stimulation. Were going to get another one and put them side by side so we both can sit and hold hands while we practice "good cleanliness." Ha!

Milpitas, CA

#61 Oct 5, 2012
We have a bidet too. Except When I sit down, Liz can sit on my lap facing me and with the pressure set high enough we both get sprayed at the same time. After awhile we change places because the one on the bottom gets a little more direct hit. This is really cool because we can kiss and suck and play with each others nipples in this position.

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