We live in a very self serving society these days. I have not known many long term gay relationships that were monogamous. I have seen a lot of gay relationships that have introduced porn or other people into their relationship. In any respect, I have very little confidence in the relationships of gays.<quoted text>I came out during the 90's and haven't looked back since. I experienced mixed reactions from family and friends since announcing I'm a lesbian, but I've learned to deal with it. I'm older now and not in a relationship. I make freinds easily, but cannot find a serious love connection. One night stands, while temporarily sexually satisfying, leave me feeling unfullfilled. I'm afraid of my tomorrows. I'm a professional, home owner, attractive, but lonely. How do other unconnected gay/lesbians find fulfillment during their September years? Please advise.
Common to the gay lifestyle! Most never find the love they long for.
So true! This is one of the sad realitites of being queer. Most die alone, full of regret, and unanswered questions. Depsite the attempts to deny this and appear happy and fulfilled, the grim truth is most of us never achieve acceptance and understanding.