I realize that reincarnation is not a religion. I bring it up only because it's what you and your children believe. I am aware that not all Wiccans believe in reincarnation.<quoted text>
I don't know WHY you keep insisting on bringing up reincarnation. It's not my religion. It's not even something that all Wiccans believe.
And yes, they are Wiccan. Why not? They made their choice, as I've always encouraged them to do.
And of course they made the choice you encouraged them to make.
Had you been a Muslim, my guess is, they would all have "chosen" Islam.