Question for the Homosexuals and Lesbians

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Pierre

Anonymous Proxy

#3 Feb 3, 2013
Born_Again_Christian wrote:
I guess the homosexuals are afraid of being honest what could have led to them becoming homosexual.
BINGO!!!

“Mindful-Observer”

Since: Feb 13

Dallas, Texas

#4 Feb 3, 2013
Born_Again_Christian wrote:
I would like to do a survey on here concerning homosexuality.
I believe homosexuality is caused by sexual abuse as a child and also by a same sex parent that did not meet the emotional and psychological needs of the child growing up so men and women sought out love through the same gender because they lacked it growing up.
1. Where you sexually abused (yes or no) no details needed please.
2. Did you come from a divorced family? For the males did you father nurture you or did he walk out on you emotionally as a child? For the females same question, but geared toward the mother did your mother nurture you and show you emotional support as a child?
I am not asking for anyone's life story. I rather not go down that route because of the sensitivity of the subjects. This survey will show me how many are actually emotionally wounded individuals who have never healed from their past and that is why they leaned toward homosexuality not because they were born gay.
Thanks for all who do answer the questions. I am not going to say much on here I just want to see the responses to my questions. No one is going to accuse anyone of this or that. I was told to come to the homosexual if I want to understand and this will help me understand.
Hey, my name is Joshua, I am 23 years old... This little psychology experiment you're conducting caught my attention mainly because I'm sudying to become a neuropsychologist. I am gay, but more importantly I am also a Christian.

Answers to your questions:
1. No I was not sexually abused...
2. Mother & Father were and still are happily married. My father wasn't the most nurturing man I have ever come into contact with nonetheless he definitely cared for my brother and I in his own way...With that said let me state that I would not & could not have been blessed with a better father.

Please feel free to ask me what ever questions you have. I'm quite eager to find out your over all conclusions of this "study"...

Sincerely
Joshua Michael Newby
Bill Of Rights

Oakland, CA

#5 Feb 3, 2013
CerebralHierarchy wrote:
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Please feel free to ask me what ever questions you have. I'm quite eager to find out your over all conclusions of this "study"...
Sincerely
Joshua Michael Newby
When was the last time you got fisted?

“Equality marches on! ”

Since: Apr 08

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#6 Feb 3, 2013
No to both questions.
Your little study is already flawed with 2 biased questions.
Oh, and I was only born once.
Notice the unregistered troll with multiple usernames your little born again study has attracted. He's a classic example of born again!
Franz

Germany

#7 Feb 3, 2013
NE Jade wrote:
No to both questions.
Oh, and I was only born once.
Were you a butt baby?

“Petite twink, barely legal”

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#8 Feb 3, 2013
No to both questions.
Boris

Ukraine

#9 Feb 3, 2013
Tiny Timmie wrote:
No to both questions.
Denial - and I ain't talking about the river in Egypt!

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#10 Feb 3, 2013
Don't project your crap of a life as if it happened to others, R1(Boris)!

“Petite twink, barely legal”

Since: Dec 12

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#11 Feb 3, 2013
No, you're talking about YOURSELF and YOUR denial of gay impulses and desires you're ashamed of. THAT is denial.

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#12 Feb 3, 2013
Boris, get back over to the cafe and post with your alters, your embarrassing yourself...again. Like usual.

Since: Mar 07

Woodford, VA

#14 Feb 3, 2013
Born_Again_Christian wrote:
I would like to do a survey on here concerning homosexuality.
I believe homosexuality is caused by sexual abuse as a child and also by a same sex parent that did not meet the emotional and psychological needs of the child growing up so men and women sought out love through the same gender because they lacked it growing up.
.....
This stuff has already been discredited ages ago by the experts. Most gay folks were not molested, and of the many people who are molested, the vast majority are heterosexual.

And no, bad parenting doesn't cause anyone to be gay.

Although many gay folks will tell you that they suspected they were different even as young children - most figure it out normally as a part of hitting puberty, in the same way that straight kids do.

When a straight girl starts finding boys cute and desirable, a lesbian girl discovers that only girls fill that bill. And is often surprised.

Now, as for myself, I was never ever abused in any way, and was raised by the most wonderful set of very very devout Christian parents that ever lived.

And I'm still gay.

And my story is faaaaaar from the exception. It's more the rule.

You should always question your beliefs, especially when they fly in the fact of reality.

Since: Mar 07

Woodford, VA

#15 Feb 3, 2013
Born_Again_Christian wrote:
I guess the homosexuals are afraid of being honest what could have led to them becoming homosexual.
You demand instant responses? That's a bit arrogant of you.

“Mindful-Observer”

Since: Feb 13

Dallas, Texas

#16 Feb 3, 2013
NE Jade wrote:
No to both questions.
Your little study is already flawed with 2 biased questions.
Oh, and I was only born once.
Notice the unregistered troll with multiple usernames your little born again study has attracted. He's a classic example of born again!
Lol, he's just trying to rationalize his own homosexual urges...And seriously don't knock the "Born again" thing until you actually try it. Trust me when God walks into your life, the world you know can no longer exist...

“Mindful-Observer”

Since: Feb 13

Dallas, Texas

#18 Feb 3, 2013
Bill Of Rights wrote:
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When was the last time you got fisted?
You're retarded! And I'm more of a watersports type a guy...
Luigi

Anonymous Proxy

#19 Feb 3, 2013
NE Jade wrote:
Boris, get back over to the cafe and post with your alters, your embarrassing yourself...again. Like usual.
Your embarrassing yourself?

Why are so many queers illiterate?

“Equality marches on! ”

Since: Apr 08

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#20 Feb 3, 2013
CerebralHierarchy wrote:
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Lol, he's just trying to rationalize his own homosexual urges...And seriously don't knock the "Born again" thing until you actually try it. Trust me when God walks into your life, the world you know can no longer exist...
God never left my life. I just get tired of fanatical "re-borns" trying to explain what I've already known. Glad you have peace!

“ reality, what a concept”

Since: Nov 07

this one

#21 Feb 3, 2013
You are not here to learn, you are here to confirm your preconceived myths already bolstered by unverifiable sources, known only to you. Try to fit this into your little theory, I was never sexually abused and hadn't even been sexually active when I came out at 17 and my parents were role models for heterosexuality, they were together for more than 60 years before my father passed.

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