Statistically, oral sex is very low risk.<quoted text>
What did you think my post meant really?
Who doesn't have a scratch or broken flesh of some kind in their mouth? And most of the time people have no idea of an open sore unless it's painful. Anything that can lead to AIDS is high risk behavior IMO.
Masturbation is more than likely the only safe sex there is. Everything else is guessing. One never knows what their partner, husband or wife is doing, it's all high risk.
Frottage is even lower risk, and widely practiced by many gay men and women.
But you point out the importance of encouraging and supporting committed relationships based on mutual respect and love, as well as honesty in a relationship and knowing your partner well.