Anti-gay customers refuse tip to server, other patrons rally around him

Oct 25, 2013 | Posted by: roboblogger | Full story: CBS 3 Springfield

A 20-year-old waiter provided exemplary service at an Overland Park Italian restaurant, but his anti-gay customers refused to tip him because of his sexual orientation.

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“Luke laughs at hypocrites!”

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Not in a million years, dickhead. For years I was the line cook preparing the steaks, and later the exec chef overseeing the back of the house. This is why I tip at least 15% when I go out to eat pretty much automatically unless I get lousy service….I give back to the industry that sustained me in my teens and 20's. And let me tell you, as a manager with the authority to hire and fire, punks like you did not last long in my establishments. You want to fuck with MY food as it goes out to the guests? You're fired, MFer. Clock out and get out. LMAO@U.
Fifteen percent, what a MISERABLE tight wad you are. Big whoop. I tip at least 20%, cheapskate.

I worked in my restaurant for over 4 years and was TOP server and when there were training days, the manager just asked me to run the front of the house, and tend bar, while the others tried to figure out which was a spoon and which was a fork.

I only f'd with that ONE customer and anyone else would have done the same thing to such a psycho bitch.

Fifteen percent indeed, and you BRAG about it? Good lord, what a TIGHT ASS you are. I bet you run the staff ragged also for your measly pittance of a tip.

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My favorite restaurant was a chophouse where the whole staff knew me, my table, and my policy : "My tipping starts at 30% and goes down for each time you make me notice you ... for anything. It's about the food. Not you."

They got VERY good at table service.

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Oct 26, 2013
 
Curteese wrote:
<quoted text>Um, from THE BIBLE, you may have heard of it:

Matthew 6:5
Whenever you pray, you must NOT be like the hypocrites, because they LOVE to pray standing ...on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men.

I worked in that restaurant which is long gone in 1982 or so, I'm sure those churchy people who were in their later 60s then are long dead, staring at Jesus all day long now.

A fresh plate? Why? I wouldn't have dropped the PLATE.
I don't think it is necessarily showing off. Most of the times I have seen people praying they were in a corner of the restaurant and I didn't hear them, just noticed they had their head bowed. The only reason I know that is what they were doing is because they were holding hands around the table. People make a habit of praying before they eat. Our family never did in public and that verse was the reason why.

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<quoted text>Sorry, but I simply disagree with the whole idea of tipping.

Every employee should be expected to provide appropriate customer service regardless of their pay or position.

If an employee needs more money they should take that up with their employer.

And I don't dine out at places with a mandatory gratuity.

Would you think it acceptable for your doctor to demand a tip because he removed that tumor with a smile on his face & in a timely manner?
I agree with you...sort of. Most servers in my state (I have no idea about others) get little more than $2 an hour and Uncle Sam gets that. How is that legal? It's because we are expected to tip our servers. I didn't know that carhops at Sonic don't make minimum wage. They are supposed to get tips, but how can they if we didn't know that? This story isn't even about that, it's about the fact that they didn't tip them because they didn't agree with who he was. That's like saying I'm not tipping you because you're black or because you're a man. Not that this is even relevant, but how did they know he was gay? He was good enough to serve them but not good enough to tip?! There's just too many different things wrong with this. They need to go back and read the part of the bible about trying to remove a speck from one person's eye with a plank in their own!
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1. Praying is showing off? Wow!
2. I bet that restaurant and its patrons didn't miss you.
3. Then you'd have to serve them a fresh plate.
Just another ignorant comment from someone who doesn't deserve to be waited on, go eat at Mc Donalds loser!
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I simply refuse to tip out a matter of principle.
If the bill has a "gratuity" added on for me, I simply cross it off.
You are a poor excuse for a human...

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NE Jade wrote:
<quoted text>Seriously? A whole multitude of college students depend on waiting tables and tips. I feel bad for those that do it for a living permanently. Having experience from waiting tables and bar tending for years even after working at my college profession, I can tell you, the best tippers are those that have worked as servers/bartenders, followed by construction workers. The worst: married little housewives out in a pack, and Sunday pew warmers after service.
Seriously.

If someone has no more skills than necessary to wait tables their entire life, then they've got WAY bigger problems than how much they're getting tipped.

Judging from the service I've seen the rare times I eat out, I'm not surprised at all they're stuck waiting tables for a living. Ditto for the burger flippers at fast food restaurants.

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Curteese wrote:
<quoted text>Oh, with your attitude? I can tell you've eaten MANY a dropped steak or spit in soda, or something of that nature.
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Wow, you're not really making the case for tipping these poor hardworking people.

If they'll do that just because they might not get as big a tip as they feel they are somehow entitled to, then imagine what they to do the food of people they really don't like.

I wonder how much business they'd get if they post that info on a sign on the door?

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snyper wrote:
My favorite restaurant was a chophouse where the whole staff knew me, my table, and my policy : "My tipping starts at 30% and goes down for each time you make me notice you ... for anything. It's about the food. Not you."
They got VERY good at table service.
According to all the professional waiters on here, you likely got a LOT of spit in your food with that attitude.

Just saying.

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I agree with you...sort of. Most servers in my state (I have no idea about others) get little more than $2 an hour and Uncle Sam gets that. How is that legal? It's because we are expected to tip our servers. I didn't know that carhops at Sonic don't make minimum wage. They are supposed to get tips, but how can they if we didn't know that? This story isn't even about that, it's about the fact that they didn't tip them because they didn't agree with who he was. That's like saying I'm not tipping you because you're black or because you're a man. Not that this is even relevant, but how did they know he was gay? He was good enough to serve them but not good enough to tip?! There's just too many different things wrong with this. They need to go back and read the part of the bible about trying to remove a speck from one person's eye with a plank in their own!
Obviously the bible-thumpers were discriminating against him just because they thought he was gay. That's a pretty cut & dried bias.

Maybe restaurants should be required to post how much they pay their wait staff? That way those who are so inclined can make up the difference in their pay.

We could extend that to ALL businesses: make them post the wages of all employees so those inclined can help them out with a little extra cash.

Or you could just ask the person serving you or bagging your groceries or changing the oil on your car how much extra money they'd like you to give them!

Sorry, but what you make is NONE OF MY BUSINESS, whether you're a doctor, an auto mechanic, a checkout clerk, or a waiter.
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Seriously.
If someone has no more skills than necessary to wait tables their entire life, then they've got WAY bigger problems than how much they're getting tipped.
When I enlisted into the military I discovered that it was a haven for the otherwise unemployable. I enlisted because I got my draft notice and wanted to chose the branch. The good news is that these days they are more selective.

What was it that you did for a living?

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Obviously the bible-thumpers were discriminating against him just because they thought he was gay. That's a pretty cut & dried bias.
Maybe restaurants should be required to post how much they pay their wait staff? That way those who are so inclined can make up the difference in their pay.
We could extend that to ALL businesses: make them post the wages of all employees so those inclined can help them out with a little extra cash.
Or you could just ask the person serving you or bagging your groceries or changing the oil on your car how much extra money they'd like you to give them!
Sorry, but what you make is NONE OF MY BUSINESS, whether you're a doctor, an auto mechanic, a checkout clerk, or a waiter.
Grandpa, you're cheap - we get it.

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cpeter1313 wrote:
And would go out of business when they have to treble their prices to pay even minimum wage. You have no clue how competitive the food industry is, and how razor-thin the profit margin is.
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That razor-thin profit is why so many restaurants fail in the first year.

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Just Think wrote:
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Grandpa, you're cheap - we get it.
Little child, you're immature - we get it. You must be about 12 yrs old, so anyone over 25 is ancient to you. After puberty you'll start to see how foolish your attitude is.

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Wondering wrote:
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When I enlisted into the military I discovered that it was a haven for the otherwise unemployable. I enlisted because I got my draft notice and wanted to chose the branch. The good news is that these days they are more selective.
What was it that you did for a living?
You weren't very bright if you didn't know that before enlisting. And yes it is very much different today primarily because we went to an all volunteer military. At one point it was not much more than a human meat market with the only exit being a door to the funeral parlor. A sad commentary in this nations history.

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WeTheSheeple wrote:
<quoted text>Obviously the bible-thumpers were discriminating against him just because they thought he was gay. That's a pretty cut & dried bias.

Maybe restaurants should be required to post how much they pay their wait staff? That way those who are so inclined can make up the difference in their pay.

We could extend that to ALL businesses: make them post the wages of all employees so those inclined can help them out with a little extra cash.

Or you could just ask the person serving you or bagging your groceries or changing the oil on your car how much extra money they'd like you to give them!

Sorry, but what you make is NONE OF MY BUSINESS, whether you're a doctor, an auto mechanic, a checkout clerk, or a waiter.
This is why I said I agree with you...sort of: I don't believe it should be legal for employers to get away with paying them less than minimum wage. I don't think it should be up to me to make sure my server's electricity bill is paid. On the other hand, I know when I go into a restaurant tipping is expected for service. You pay the restaurant for the food you pay the server for his service. If you go into the doctor's office and he orders a test you pay for the test, but you also pay for his service. If you go to a mechanic and he says you have a bad thermostat, you'll pay for the thermostat and then you pay for his service.

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WeTheSheeple wrote:
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Wow, you're not really making the case for tipping these poor hardworking people.
If they'll do that just because they might not get as big a tip as they feel they are somehow entitled to, then imagine what they to do the food of people they really don't like.
I wonder how much business they'd get if they post that info on a sign on the door?
No, since the tip is offered AFTER the meal is over and done with my point was that there are horrible customers in all businesses, but in restaurants, it seems that some customers become Henry the Eighth and scream orders and belittle and insult since they think the word "server" is akin to the word "slave". Any wait person can tell you of some dreadful guests who he or she would put rat poison in their food if they wouldn't get thrown into prison. If there is an "oopsie" moment it is BEFORE the tip or lack of it happens.
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WeTheSheeple wrote:
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So you'd have no problem paying another 20% "tip" for your oil change or to the checkout clerk in the supermarket?
If you can't afford the tip, then change your own oil and grow your own food.
Oh puh-leez. The minimum wage laws are different for restaurants. Oil change and supermarket check out ARE NOT restaurant jobs.

The minimum wage for a restaurant job is $2.13

The minimum wage for everything else is $7.25

Think about why.
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When I enlisted into the military I discovered that it was a haven for the otherwise unemployable. I enlisted because I got my draft notice and wanted to chose the branch. The good news is that these days they are more selective.
What was it that you did for a living?
pffft.... you were drafted because you were too stupid to go to college.

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Little child, you're immature - we get it. You must be about 12 yrs old, so anyone over 25 is ancient to you. After puberty you'll start to see how foolish your attitude is.
The gray hair on my balding head begs to disagree...

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