Straight Guys: Gay Erotic Fantasies

Straight Guys: Gay Erotic Fantasies

There are 66 comments on the EDGE story from Nov 12, 2012, titled Straight Guys: Gay Erotic Fantasies. In it, EDGE reports that:

We tend to view sexual identities in binaries, but in his compilation of short stories, "Straight Guys," Shane Allison has completely flipped that notion on its head.

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“Nirvana”

Since: Mar 12

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#85 Nov 15, 2012
Of course having gay sex does not make a guy gay or bi.....it's just sex. I've been with guys who are straight & they want no strings attached sex, something other than the usual.....they aren't closet cases they're straight.....the married ones feel it would be worse cheating if they went with a woman & the unmarried ones don't want the complications of wondering if the sex means more to the woman (they don't care if it means anything or not to the gay guy).....it's merely getting off & more common than anyone would admit....an extension of the straight guy masturbation with mates while watching porn; (imo)

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#86 Nov 15, 2012
nathanielornament wrote:
Of course having gay sex does not make a guy gay or bi.....it's just sex. I've been with guys who are straight & they want no strings attached sex, something other than the usual.....they aren't closet cases they're straight.....the married ones feel it would be worse cheating if they went with a woman & the unmarried ones don't want the complications of wondering if the sex means more to the woman (they don't care if it means anything or not to the gay guy).....it's merely getting off & more common than anyone would admit....an extension of the straight guy masturbation with mates while watching porn; (imo)
I agree.

Since: Apr 11

Panorama City, CA

#87 Nov 15, 2012
nathanielornament wrote:
Of course having gay sex does not make a guy gay or bi.....it's just sex. I've been with guys who are straight & they want no strings attached sex, something other than the usual.....they aren't closet cases they're straight.....the married ones feel it would be worse cheating if they went with a woman & the unmarried ones don't want the complications of wondering if the sex means more to the woman (they don't care if it means anything or not to the gay guy).....it's merely getting off & more common than anyone would admit....an extension of the straight guy masturbation with mates while watching porn; (imo)
I agree. I don't really care much if my guy's semen strays,(as long as he takes precautions to avoid STDs), but I want his emotions to stay with me.

“Equality First”

Since: Jan 09

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#89 Nov 16, 2012
Rose_NoHo wrote:
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I agree. I don't really care much if my guy's semen strays,(as long as he takes precautions to avoid STDs), but I want his emotions to stay with me.
That's the one thing that men don't understand about women. And a lot of gay men I know. Love is emotional. Sex is physical. To many people mix the two of them together. My spouse and I have been monogamous for over 35 years, but should he eve wander, I could ignore it if he was safe. We have discussed it openly, and I think because it is not a "forbidden fruit" situation, we have both been able to avoid that situation. Well, that, and the fact that we have a healthy, loving relationship where the need for "strange" is not there.
JimmyT

Topton, PA

#90 Nov 16, 2012
what the phuque is "gay sex"? why are you people constantly arguing? I'm a Republican, but sometimes I vote for a Democrat? So what? Same thing with sex. I think straight, feel straight, and live a straight lifestyle -- but a couple of times I have sucked a cock. The first time just to see what it would feel like. Then a couple more times because it's interesting and exciting. So what?

Why don't you argue about whether turquoise has more blue in it or more green? That would be just as productive, and much more interesting. Get a life!
Uve

Indio, CA

#91 Nov 16, 2012
mark in Toronto wrote:
As always, people with simple minds need to have a clear cut explanation to help them deal a complex issue.
Sexuality and sex are NOT black & white .... not gay or straight .... there are many variations and subtleties that go beyond what most can comprehend.
So what if a straight guy wants to experience sex with another man? If nothing else, he would gain from the experience. It's not some end-all juncture.
Those of you who have to categorize (gay/straight - pacifist/murderer) I say to you it's not that simple, so stop trying to make it even more complex. Accept that being human is an omnidirectional experience and don't judge others with such narrow vision.
Well said

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