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Porn Star Arpad Miklos Found Dead, Apparent Suicide

There are 138 comments on the EDGE story from Feb 5, 2013, titled Porn Star Arpad Miklos Found Dead, Apparent Suicide. In it, EDGE reports that:

Popular gay porn star Arpad Miklos reportedly committed suicide in his New York City apartment on Sunday.

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“equality for ALL means ALL”

Since: Jan 07

Fort Lauderdale FL

#179 Feb 11, 2013
NoQ wrote:
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Just like normal for Queers, MORE LIES
LMFAO
WE ALREADY KNOW YOUR MENTAL DISORDER.
As usual, no answer. Why should anyone take you seriously?
Swede

Sweden

#180 Feb 11, 2013
Tony C wrote:
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As usual, no answer. Why should anyone take you seriously?
Obviously you take him seriously or you wouldn't be constantly replying to him with your long-winded posts.

“equality for ALL means ALL”

Since: Jan 07

Fort Lauderdale FL

#181 Feb 11, 2013
Swede wrote:
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Obviously you take him seriously or you wouldn't be constantly replying to him with your long-winded posts.
When do you graduate fourth grade?

“Luke laughs at hypocrites!”

Since: Sep 10

Palm Springs, California

#182 Feb 11, 2013
Swede wrote:
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Obviously you take him seriously or you wouldn't be constantly replying to him with your long-winded posts.
So says the unregistered coward who signs in under every country under the sun, under false names.

Your posts remind me of the "It's a Small World" ride at Disneyland and Disney World. You get into a boat and it meanders all over the "world" through every single country having blank eyed mindless robots singing the same boring song over and over and over...

In other words, YOU.

“equality for ALL means ALL”

Since: Jan 07

Fort Lauderdale FL

#183 Feb 11, 2013
Curteese wrote:
<quoted text>So says the unregistered coward who signs in under every country under the sun, under false names.
Your posts remind me of the "It's a Small World" ride at Disneyland and Disney World. You get into a boat and it meanders all over the "world" through every single country having blank eyed mindless robots singing the same boring song over and over and over...
In other words, YOU.
That ride is endlessly more entertaining than this douche.
Lucky Starr

Saskatoon, Canada

#185 Feb 11, 2013
I'm gay myself-and though this death is tragic-it's proof that NOTHING GOOD can come out of pornography.I don't think his suicide had anything to do with his sexual orientation.I think after all those years of selling himself out he felt old,dirty and used up.Emotionally bankrupt.This is not a moral judgement.I think every time you have sex with someone you don't love you give away a piece of yourself that you can never get back.A lot of my friends that slept around in their early twenties are still doing it as all of us almost hit 40.They are not happy people.I never slept around and have been in a monogamous relationship for 15 years.I have a very satisfying life.Gay men really need to grow a pair,man up,grow up and stop acting like perennial teenagers.If we don't start respecting ourselves how the hell is anyone else ever going to?!?

“equality for ALL means ALL”

Since: Jan 07

Fort Lauderdale FL

#186 Feb 11, 2013
Lucky Starr wrote:
I'm gay myself-and though this death is tragic-it's proof that NOTHING GOOD can come out of pornography.I don't think his suicide had anything to do with his sexual orientation.I think after all those years of selling himself out he felt old,dirty and used up.Emotionally bankrupt.This is not a moral judgement.I think every time you have sex with someone you don't love you give away a piece of yourself that you can never get back.A lot of my friends that slept around in their early twenties are still doing it as all of us almost hit 40.They are not happy people.I never slept around and have been in a monogamous relationship for 15 years.I have a very satisfying life.Gay men really need to grow a pair,man up,grow up and stop acting like perennial teenagers.If we don't start respecting ourselves how the hell is anyone else ever going to?!?
So then all porn stars kill themselves?

Didn't think so.

Next.

“Luke laughs at hypocrites!”

Since: Sep 10

Palm Springs, California

#187 Feb 11, 2013
Tony C wrote:
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That ride is endlessly more entertaining than this douche.
At least THOSE blank eyed robots are cute. Unlike our cowardly unregistered name chameleon name changer.

“Reality is better than truth.”

Since: Nov 09

Indianapolis

#189 Feb 11, 2013
I'm glad you're happy, but your views on sex aren't all that realistic. I'm 54 and find sex to be exhilarating and very positive. If I'd given away a piece of myself every encounter, I'd be typing this sitting on a thimble. Self-respect entails doing what is best for oneself; for you apparently, that involves monogamy, but it's not for everyone. I had a 14-year monogamous relationship, but we eventually grew apart. We're best friends today, but neither of us feels that form of intimacy anymore.

Attributing his suicide to "feeling dirty" is truly and unfairly judgmental.
Lucky Starr wrote:
I'm gay myself-and though this death is tragic-it's proof that NOTHING GOOD can come out of pornography.I don't think his suicide had anything to do with his sexual orientation.I think after all those years of selling himself out he felt old,dirty and used up.Emotionally bankrupt.This is not a moral judgement.I think every time you have sex with someone you don't love you give away a piece of yourself that you can never get back.A lot of my friends that slept around in their early twenties are still doing it as all of us almost hit 40.They are not happy people.I never slept around and have been in a monogamous relationship for 15 years.I have a very satisfying life.Gay men really need to grow a pair,man up,grow up and stop acting like perennial teenagers.If we don't start respecting ourselves how the hell is anyone else ever going to?!?
Lucky Starr

Saskatoon, Canada

#190 Feb 11, 2013
cpeter1313 wrote:
I'm glad you're happy, but your views on sex aren't all that realistic. I'm 54 and find sex to be exhilarating and very positive. If I'd given away a piece of myself every encounter, I'd be typing this sitting on a thimble. Self-respect entails doing what is best for oneself; for you apparently, that involves monogamy, but it's not for everyone. I had a 14-year monogamous relationship, but we eventually grew apart. We're best friends today, but neither of us feels that form of intimacy anymore.
Attributing his suicide to "feeling dirty" is truly and unfairly judgmental.
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All I was doing is speculating as to why -but many porn stars have committed suicide-both gay and straight.I'm also not coming from a religious or moralistic place-
it's from watching people most of my friends fall apart.It's not that they don't want intimacy-it's that they are not capable of it.Some of it comes from internalized homophobia.Porn is a part of this.Lets face it-we had no role models growing up.The first time most of us saw two men kissing was in a porn movie.It teaches young gay men to reduce their sexuality to sex acts.All they know is the mechanics.

Since: Dec 08

Toronto, ON, Canada

#191 Feb 12, 2013
Lucky Starr wrote:
I'm gay myself-and though this death is tragic-it's proof that NOTHING GOOD can come out of pornography.I don't think his suicide had anything to do with his sexual orientation.I think after all those years of selling himself out he felt old,dirty and used up.Emotionally bankrupt.This is not a moral judgement.I think every time you have sex with someone you don't love you give away a piece of yourself that you can never get back.A lot of my friends that slept around in their early twenties are still doing it as all of us almost hit 40.They are not happy people.I never slept around and have been in a monogamous relationship for 15 years.I have a very satisfying life.Gay men really need to grow a pair,man up,grow up and stop acting like perennial teenagers.If we don't start respecting ourselves how the hell is anyone else ever going to?!?
Don't think one can generalize. I remember some time ago there was a study of male whores of the more expensive "call-boy" variety. It found the surprising result that most did not come from broken homes, were not former runaways, and were fairly well educated. They also had few mental problems. This is not to say one should be a whore, however.
Monogamy is great if it works for you. I do not believe it can work for everyone, especially for the male gender, which is genetically geared to seek sexual variety. It is is neither natural or unnatural among higher species - some birds are very monogamous while bonobos (our closest non-hominid relative) and dolphins are very slutty.
What I think may burn out some folks in the sex industry is not having a life or interests beyond sex. Also, as other poster mentioned, there is a distinct ethnic variation in suicide rates (whether nature or nurture related) and Hungarians have one of the highest suicide rates in the world.

“Luke laughs at hypocrites!”

Since: Sep 10

Palm Springs, California

#192 Feb 12, 2013
JohnInToronto wrote:
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Don't think one can generalize. I remember some time ago there was a study of male whores of the more expensive "call-boy" variety. It found the surprising result that most did not come from broken homes, were not former runaways, and were fairly well educated. They also had few mental problems. This is not to say one should be a whore, however.
Monogamy is great if it works for you. I do not believe it can work for everyone, especially for the male gender, which is genetically geared to seek sexual variety. It is is neither natural or unnatural among higher species - some birds are very monogamous while bonobos (our closest non-hominid relative) and dolphins are very slutty.
What I think may burn out some folks in the sex industry is not having a life or interests beyond sex. Also, as other poster mentioned, there is a distinct ethnic variation in suicide rates (whether nature or nurture related) and Hungarians have one of the highest suicide rates in the world.
We stayed at a lovely hotel in Hawaii a couple of years ago and they had a massive dolphin enclosure. The dolphins were segregated by sex. One morning we noted the dolphins playing and rubbing and some of the male dolphins were AROUSED. We asked the cool lesbian trainer whom we had gotten to know from chatting and she said it happened all the time. They weren't humping, they just were REALLY enjoying their intimate touching.

"Is that a sardine in your pocket, or are you just really glad to see me?"
Lucky Starr

Saskatoon, Canada

#193 Feb 12, 2013
JohnInToronto wrote:
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Don't think one can generalize. I remember some time ago there was a study of male whores of the more expensive "call-boy" variety. It found the surprising result that most did not come from broken homes, were not former runaways, and were fairly well educated. They also had few mental problems. This is not to say one should be a whore, however.
Monogamy is great if it works for you. I do not believe it can work for everyone, especially for the male gender, which is genetically geared to seek sexual variety. It is is neither natural or unnatural among higher species - some birds are very monogamous while bonobos (our closest non-hominid relative) and dolphins are very slutty.
What I think may burn out some folks in the sex industry is not having a life or interests beyond sex. Also, as other poster mentioned, there is a distinct ethnic variation in suicide rates (whether nature or nurture related) and Hungarians have one of the highest suicide rates in the world.
I agree with most of what you said.I came from the worlds most dysfunction(yet liberal)family in the world yet I continually find myself at odds with a gay "community"that does not represent anything I stand for.I don't think monogamy is natural at all.It's a struggle sometimes.I don't know if that's just about craving sexual variety or about the reality that issues will come up in any long term relationship that can destroy it-if you ALLOW that to happen.But monogamy (as an ideal at least)works.My str8 male friends that have good marriages want to "kill" their wives sometimes-I've been at that breaking point with my partner too.We work through it though instead of doing the "there is someone out there who is better"thing our friends have done.Maybe I just got lucky in the sense that I met someone who wanted the same level of commitment I did.He is ten years older than me-in my early twenties I found dating men my own age was akin to babysitting.We are friends two individuals that are Hungarian(a str8 man and a bi-sexual woman).I love both of them but they are the most emotionally pathological friends we have.I think you're spot on regarding that aspect.

Since: Dec 08

Toronto, ON, Canada

#194 Feb 12, 2013
Curteese wrote:
<quoted text>We stayed at a lovely hotel in Hawaii a couple of years ago and they had a massive dolphin enclosure. The dolphins were segregated by sex. One morning we noted the dolphins playing and rubbing and some of the male dolphins were AROUSED. We asked the cool lesbian trainer whom we had gotten to know from chatting and she said it happened all the time. They weren't humping, they just were REALLY enjoying their intimate touching.
"Is that a sardine in your pocket, or are you just really glad to see me?"
One of my housemates was recently on a trip to Cuba with me and they had an attraction where you could interact with two male dolphins. They only did groups of six people at a time and it turned out that he was with five women. Well, one of the male dolphins, in between the stuff they were supposed to do with each person, totally ignored the women and swam right to him all the time. It also was getting hard. It seemed to really enjoy being hugged by him.

“Luke laughs at hypocrites!”

Since: Sep 10

Palm Springs, California

#195 Feb 12, 2013
JohnInToronto wrote:
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One of my housemates was recently on a trip to Cuba with me and they had an attraction where you could interact with two male dolphins. They only did groups of six people at a time and it turned out that he was with five women. Well, one of the male dolphins, in between the stuff they were supposed to do with each person, totally ignored the women and swam right to him all the time. It also was getting hard. It seemed to really enjoy being hugged by him.
Sorry, ladies, but I guess the dolphin gets enough fish day to day.
benn

UK

#197 Mar 13, 2013
A beautifull angel has left american dream turned into american nightmare for arpad new york has lost a great person shame that all those close friends failed him shared the pleasure with every one kept all the sorrow to himself be in peace will always miss you

“Equality First”

Since: Jan 09

St. Louis, MO

#198 Mar 13, 2013
JohnInToronto wrote:
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Don't think one can generalize. I remember some time ago there was a study of male whores of the more expensive "call-boy" variety. It found the surprising result that most did not come from broken homes, were not former runaways, and were fairly well educated. They also had few mental problems. This is not to say one should be a whore, however.
Monogamy is great if it works for you. I do not believe it can work for everyone, especially for the male gender, which is genetically geared to seek sexual variety. It is is neither natural or unnatural among higher species - some birds are very monogamous while bonobos (our closest non-hominid relative) and dolphins are very slutty.
What I think may burn out some folks in the sex industry is not having a life or interests beyond sex. Also, as other poster mentioned, there is a distinct ethnic variation in suicide rates (whether nature or nurture related) and Hungarians have one of the highest suicide rates in the world.
A good friend of mine was very into gay porn. He told me that too many people outside the industry treat them as sex objects, not human beings with feelings and aspirations. He said that it was just a job to most of them, kind of like me going to the office. I had never really thought about it in those terms. I suppose there is tremendous pressure on them from people outside the industry. It gave me a new perspective on it.

“Reality is better than truth.”

Since: Nov 09

Indianapolis

#199 Mar 13, 2013
It's not a matter of friends failing him; that's cruel and unnecessary. Many suicides are unpredictable because they hold the negative within themselves.
benn wrote:
A beautifull angel has left american dream turned into american nightmare for arpad new york has lost a great person shame that all those close friends failed him shared the pleasure with every one kept all the sorrow to himself be in peace will always miss you

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