Who the hell is Nancy Polosey?
What "evidence" to the contrary? The government has no business deciding for us what a marriage is. They should instead protect our right to make those personal decisions for ourselves. But that would mean giving up some of their control over us, some of their power and they would not be able to micromanage our lives like they do now.
Do you really believe that the likes of Chris Christie knows how you should live your life better than you do? Or Prom Queen Nancy Polosey? Would you even trust her to walk across the street with a dime of your money? Yet you allow them to define your marriage for you. If that isn't insanity what would be?