Looking for a girlfriend for a married bi-sexual

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Church Hill Hottie

United States

#1 Aug 4, 2008
I am a bi-sexual female and find it very hard to locate attractive drug-free, non ho's to have some adult fun with my husband and I. Any suggestions? Not looking for a one night stand. Mostly a girlfriend for myself

“Let your freak flag fly!”

Since: Mar 08

Saint Paul, MN

#2 Aug 4, 2008
Church Hill Hottie wrote:
I am a bi-sexual female and find it very hard to locate attractive drug-free, non ho's to have some adult fun with my husband and I. Any suggestions? Not looking for a one night stand. Mostly a girlfriend for myself
Volunteer for a local gay rights/activist group. Joint a GLBT bowling team, darts, pool, and or cards. Hang out at the local lesbian bar.

Place a personal ad explaining what you are looking for.

My friend and his wife have had a girlfriend for his wife for most of their relationship. It works for them. I couldn't do it.

They have 3 rules.

The rules are:
1. No sexual contact between the women w/o him.
2. When either one of them says it is over, it is over. No exceptions!
3. She has to be able to support herself. No borrowing money or moving in!

They are happy and it works for them. It is to their advantage that he is in the music business and is around beautiful women all day so he does not run low on resources.

“Marriage=Love+Co mmitment.....”

Since: Oct 07

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#3 Aug 5, 2008
You are looking in the wrong community. If you want to have a threesome, if you want, "adult fun," look for a swinger. The GLBT community wants nothing to do with that.

And before you think I'm judging, I'm not. I am a married bisexual woman who is allowed within my marriage to have a woman in my life, not husband involvement.

“Let your freak flag fly!”

Since: Mar 08

Saint Paul, MN

#4 Aug 5, 2008
LindaS wrote:
You are looking in the wrong community. If you want to have a threesome, if you want, "adult fun," look for a swinger. The GLBT community wants nothing to do with that.
And before you think I'm judging, I'm not. I am a married bisexual woman who is allowed within my marriage to have a woman in my life, not husband involvement.
Excellent point.
ridove

Columbus, GA

#5 Sep 8, 2008
I understand, i'm married bisexual and in a similar situation. It hurts because i can't even get close to another women, i feel like a part of myself is torn...
Morning Show Heather

New York, NY

#6 Sep 24, 2008
Hi! I work for a Nationally Syndicated Morning Show and we are doing a segment on married women with girlfriends...if you or anyone you know would be interested, can you please e-mail me at morningshowheather@hotmail.com . Please be sure to include the best contact number to reach you. Travel to NYC will be provided. Thanks!
dani

El Monte, CA

#7 Jan 23, 2012
I am a married bisexual women and im just looking for a women for me to play with. My husband would join in at times.
Heather

United States

#8 Jan 23, 2012
I'm available:-)

Since: Jun 11

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#9 Jan 24, 2012
LindaS wrote:
You are looking in the wrong community. If you want to have a threesome, if you want, "adult fun," look for a swinger. The GLBT community wants nothing to do with that.

And before you think I'm judging, I'm not. I am a married bisexual woman who is allowed within my marriage to have a woman in my life, not husband involvement.
SO, the gay,lesbian, BISEXUAL, and tranny group want nothing to do with this?? Whatever you're smoking, i want some.
thomas maik

Europe

#10 Jun 26, 2012
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brownbeauty85

Shawnee, KS

#11 Mar 22, 2013
I am a married woman who has always been bi curious. My husband knows this& is supportive he even encourages me to have a girlfriend if I want. I only want another woman to have sex, with not a relationship outside of that. The problem is I'm afraid that if I do then my husband at some point my want a sex partner on the side as well .that scares me because I would not want to share my husband with anyone, I feel selfish and confused anyone else going through this I could use some advise!
same

Odenton, MD

#12 Apr 10, 2013
I am a married women looking for a fwb/girlfriend for myself. My husband is very supportive but would not be involved. It is very hard to find someone. I am not talking just sex but going out and hanging out also. I have to be discreet because I am a teacher and I have 3 teenagers myself. I want someone close by.
Chance

Grove City, PA

#13 May 22, 2013
This is disgusting. Just goes to show how amoral LGBT's are. And it goes to show just how LGBT's regard marriage. It really doesn't mean much at all to them. Married means monogamy and forsaking all others. If LGBT's think they can have their cake and eat it, too, then they don't really have marriage, just a marriage in name only.
Anononus

Greenville, VA

#14 Sep 15, 2013
same wrote:
I am a married women looking for a fwb/girlfriend for myself. My husband is very supportive but would not be involved. It is very hard to find someone. I am not talking just sex but going out and hanging out also. I have to be discreet because I am a teacher and I have 3 teenagers myself. I want someone close by.
Where is it ur from I'm in elkview wv
Red68

Pekin, IL

#16 Oct 7, 2013
I agree....I'm looking for a girlfriend and my husband wants me to have one with him having contact with only me.
Red68

Pekin, IL

#17 Oct 7, 2013
My husband is wanting me to have a girlfriend, long lasting or just one night whichever works for her and I. He wouldn't be sexual with her at all only me.
Red68

Pekin, IL

#18 Oct 7, 2013
brownbeauty85 wrote:
I am a married woman who has always been bi curious. My husband knows this& is supportive he even encourages me to have a girlfriend if I want. I only want another woman to have sex, with not a relationship outside of that. The problem is I'm afraid that if I do then my husband at some point my want a sex partner on the side as well .that scares me because I would not want to share my husband with anyone, I feel selfish and confused anyone else going through this I could use some advise!
I feel the same way but my husband told me he didn't want the other woman he only wants me while I'm with her and I believe him, sounds like you have trust issues if u do bringing in another person isn't a good idea.
cindylov1

Chula Vista, CA

#19 Oct 21, 2013
Heather wrote:
I'm available:-)
hi iam married but my husband will allow me to have a girl friend, i love to make love with another woman, love oral love trv as well as giving
cindylov1

Chula Vista, CA

#20 Oct 21, 2013
iam a married woman that enjoys making love to a another woman. i love oral sex both giving as well as rec, my husband disnt mind that i have a woman lover
cindylov1

Chula Vista, CA

#21 Oct 21, 2013
iam not looking for a threeso, thos is someone just for me

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