I'm making no claims against gay and lesbian parents; there is nothing wrong with homosexuals or homosexuality.Depends on when the death of the parent happened and it's not harm in the way you were making your claim against Gay and Lesbian Parents!!!
A child deprived of a mother or father is harmed, whether the parent dies, deserts or is raised by a same sex couple. I've never claimed being raised by a same sex couple is the only way to harm a child.Again, many children are deprived of a mother or father........you want to see the harm in one, but not the other.......and you'd be wrong in your assessment!!!