Am I Lesbian
Penny

Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

#1 Oct 5, 2012
I have just started Uni and my female flat mate who is hetrosexual and very highly sexed has recently started to ask me to finish her off when she is masturbating. I did it the first time after we had been out drinking, but now she is asking me all the time. I now can't wait for her to ask me, but even though I now get very turned on even though there is no other kissing or touching between us. Is this how it normally starts.

Please advise.
kitty

United States

#2 Jan 17, 2013
Yes u are one. Are u a fem? I love sexy lipstick fems. I'll finish u off baby.

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#3 Jan 18, 2013
Penny wrote:
I have just started Uni and my female flat mate who is hetrosexual and very highly sexed has recently started to ask me to finish her off when she is masturbating. I did it the first time after we had been out drinking, but now she is asking me all the time. I now can't wait for her to ask me, but even though I now get very turned on even though there is no other kissing or touching between us. Is this how it normally starts.
Please advise.
Yes,Penny, you are;and,your partner is probably BI. Nothing wrong with that. I think many women are lesbian "at heart." I am BI. I like women,esp. assertive,confident women [policewomen,service women,etc.]. I adore men. My urge is for both.

Since: Jan 11

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#4 Jan 20, 2013
Some people are attracted to the sexual opporunity but might not necesarily have an innate attraction to the gender in whch that opportunity presents itself. Human sexuality doesn't always fit into neat little catagories of "either", "or", "this" or"that" as much as we'd like it to, and sexual activity is not always an indicator of our fundamental sexual orientation. I think the good news is that sooner or later people find their particular sexual nitch, and my advice to you is first of all to thine own self be true, and second that whoever you partner(s) are that you treat them honestly, respectfully and with consideratation of their needs and feelings.

Since: Jan 08

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#5 Jan 20, 2013
RubyTheDyke wrote:
Some people are attracted to the sexual opporunity but might not necesarily have an innate attraction to the gender in whch that opportunity presents itself. Human sexuality doesn't always fit into neat little catagories of "either", "or", "this" or"that" as much as we'd like it to, and sexual activity is not always an indicator of our fundamental sexual orientation. I think the good news is that sooner or later people find their particular sexual nitch, and my advice to you is first of all to thine own self be true, and second that whoever you partner(s) are that you treat them honestly, respectfully and with consideratation of their needs and feelings.
like to describe myself as 'homo-romantic asexual.'

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