At 18 I did gay porn, now the secrets...

At 18 I did gay porn, now the secrets out!!!

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Da B

Potosi, MO

#1 Dec 20, 2011
Lured by the money I got involved in the gay porn industry,actually I was straight and it was hard for me to do at first. The money helped me as I am alone in the world, no family to help when I was on the street. Two years I specialized in interracial gay often head lined as a twink. I got out of it when I could and put it behind me going back to my straight lifestyle, met a beautiful young gal we'd been together for nearly a year. Until last week I attended girl-friends x-mas party at her job. She works with a gay guy that approached me several times that evening inquiring that he knew me from some where, he apparently went home and found me in action amongst his porn collection.. So concerned with her being fooled though they hardly know each other he gave her a " must see", DVD admittedly one of the raunchiest I've done, it destroyed her, and I know there is no putting this back together but why?, why did he do this.. Is it that important to out everyone!!!! Don't think I could ever again trust gay judgement.. What did he accomplish!! I explained why but she says she would never be able to get the image out of her mind,and even she says she wished she never knew but we can't go on. Thank you gay guy

“ reality, what a concept”

Since: Nov 07

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#2 Dec 20, 2011
Just for laughs, I'm going to play along with what you wrote here as being the truth...

Seriously? You try and hide a two year "Gay for Pay" porn career from someone you had been dating for a year and you whine about the person who outs you. You have got to be kidding. It's your own judgment that can't be trusted, buttercup. You've been victimized by no one but yourself. You lived the lie, don't blame anyone but you for the way the truth came out and the fallout from it.
ztormbringer

Austin, TX

#3 Dec 20, 2011
Da B wrote:
Lured by the money I got involved in the gay porn industry,actually I was straight and it was hard for me to do at first. The money helped me as I am alone in the world, no family to help when I was on the street. Two years I specialized in interracial gay often head lined as a twink. I got out of it when I could and put it behind me going back to my straight lifestyle, met a beautiful young gal we'd been together for nearly a year. Until last week I attended girl-friends x-mas party at her job. She works with a gay guy that approached me several times that evening inquiring that he knew me from some where, he apparently went home and found me in action amongst his porn collection.. So concerned with her being fooled though they hardly know each other he gave her a " must see", DVD admittedly one of the raunchiest I've done, it destroyed her, and I know there is no putting this back together but why?, why did he do this.. Is it that important to out everyone!!!! Don't think I could ever again trust gay judgement.. What did he accomplish!! I explained why but she says she would never be able to get the image out of her mind,and even she says she wished she never knew but we can't go on. Thank you gay guy
I cannot understand the reasoning for outing someone. A slip of the tongue or an indiscreet comment in an unfortunate place can be chalked up to accident and the risk everyone who engages in an unorthodox sexuality ( yes even straight folks - how about swingers - or someone in a BDSM lifestyle - or cuckholding - or any number of other "lifestyles"). But to deliberately and with what might be called malice of forethought out someone is reprehensible. I suppose the idea is to force someone, someone who may have very important reasons for being there (like safety, like survival) out of the closet. Newspaper headlines tell us though there are good reasons for some not to risk being out. Is outing someone, forcing then out of their cacoon of safety, to be killed worth it?

I am bi, I know many many others who are nominally bi ( their actions and partners being the nominal part) even if they don't can't or won't identify as such, slept with most of them in fact. And lots and lots who are gay who must be,or are for whatever reasons they believe they have to be or choose to be in the closet. Some of those are important people, people who cannot afford to be out, and frankly who gay and bi people can't afford to have out since they are our hidden persuaders, supporters.
I would never dream of and can't understand how anyone else can dream of exposing someone. Those who do, do they somehow think that exposed person is going to be all thankful and joining up with their brothers or sisters to storm the barricades or something. Do you want ever again to have anything to do with another guy? I bet not! Whereas it always was a little bit of an unexercised option before, now it's a closed road forever. Stead of winning one for the side, that one lost one possible ally at least.
Troll stopper

Lincoln Park, MI

#4 Dec 20, 2011
Rick in Kansas wrote:
Just for laughs, I'm going to play along with what you wrote here as being the truth...
Seriously? You try and hide a two year "Gay for Pay" porn career from someone you had been dating for a year and you whine about the person who outs you. You have got to be kidding. It's your own judgment that can't be trusted, buttercup. You've been victimized by no one but yourself. You lived the lie, don't blame anyone but you for the way the truth came out and the fallout from it.
Why bother? He's full of Sh*t. No porn of any sort and no gay guy would have done that. What we have here is a closeted gay person with a small dic&
luvsrain75

Chantilly, VA

#6 Dec 6, 2013
you're a-holes! plenty of gay dudes have had sex with women and they aren't straight. if you want people to respect u and your sexuality you should try to respect others because not only are you wrong, you're stupid! It would have been more respectful to all involved if the coworker contacted you to let you know she's gonna find out and it's better to come from you. but sounds like he was being a bitch and wanted to cause drama.
hey ... gay for pay guy... it sucks that it went down like that. you cant change what youve done(and you've done nothing wrong in my opinion) and what i think you can learn is that there will always be a chance you're outted so maybe be up front about it. it might turn some women off and change how they feel about venturing into a relationship but i suspect it won't with the right woman for you. Isn't it better to be honest and respected rather than secretive and shameful?

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