Curoius...(Boring i know)

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Bobby

UK

#1 Aug 15, 2013
I'm 42, married etc etc...I think you all know the story by now.
I have never had any issue with anyone's sexual preferences....I've always been that straight guy who backs up his gay friends and confronts anyone who tries to force their ideas of "normal" on another human.
So, why do i feel so reticent in facing up to my own desires? Of course i don't want to lose my family (that would happen i'm afraid)...but still...i know how much i would adore the touch of another man.
I think i can guess your advice...and no, I can't "come out"..I love my family so so much.
What do i do???

Since: Mar 11

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#3 Aug 15, 2013
fr Bobby:

>I'm 42, married etc etc...I think you all know the story by now.
I have never had any issue with anyone's sexual preferences....I've always been that straight guy who backs up his gay friends and confronts anyone who tries to force their ideas of "normal" on another human.
So, why do i feel so reticent in facing up to my own desires? Of course i don't want to lose my family (that would happen i'm afraid)...but still...i know how much i would adore the touch of another man.
I think i can guess your advice...and no, I can't "come out"..I love my family so so much. What do i do???<

Have you tried PFLAG? They helped me a LOT, and my wife as well. We're happily married, five years later! Their site is www.pflag.org , and they are a VERY reputable group.

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