Soft butch says its impossible to mee...

Soft butch says its impossible to meet a femme

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Scotchmallow

Sacramento, CA

#1 Oct 7, 2013
My experience with personals is that 99% of femmes want to be with other femmes. As a soft butch, whose had some sweet and sexy femmes over the years it seems that my time is over. The femmes like the femmes. Really frustrating to me and even more so because no one else ever talks about this problem. I find it very strange. Been single for two years now and can't even phatham the possibility of meeting a femme who wants to be with a soft butch. Are those femmes extinct now?

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#2 Oct 7, 2013
Scotchmallow wrote:
My experience with personals is that 99% of femmes want to be with other femmes. As a soft butch, whose had some sweet and sexy femmes over the years it seems that my time is over. The femmes like the femmes. Really frustrating to me and even more so because no one else ever talks about this problem. I find it very strange. Been single for two years now and can't even phatham the possibility of meeting a femme who wants to be with a soft butch. Are those femmes extinct now?
I think you're on the wrong forum.

Since: Mar 07

Location hidden

#3 Oct 8, 2013
Scotchmallow wrote:
My experience with personals is that 99% of femmes want to be with other femmes. As a soft butch, whose had some sweet and sexy femmes over the years it seems that my time is over. The femmes like the femmes. Really frustrating to me and even more so because no one else ever talks about this problem. I find it very strange. Been single for two years now and can't even phatham the possibility of meeting a femme who wants to be with a soft butch. Are those femmes extinct now?
I would recommend getting out and finding a hobby, or joining a club, or church, or volunteer somewhere, and stop looking for love in the "personals".

Looking for labels isn't a good way to find actual people.

Of course, no lesbian with any sense would have posted this on this type of forum, but the advice works for gay folks, straight folks, and trolls, too.

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