How can you tell if your Boy or anoth...

How can you tell if your Boy or another boy are gay?

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Shubret

Queen Creek, AZ

#1 May 30, 2009
I have had many boys in the past make odd statements or act out oddly with me.

I knew a boy who was 12 to 13 at the time, and I was 22 who would want me to rent porno videos. One time when we had to share a bed at his relatives house,I woke up to find his hand in between my legs and half way up my shorts!!!

He also liked to wrestle alot. Then he would make comments or ask a question ofa sexual nature.

Then one time, He was in my bedroom with another 13year boy and,I think I caught them in an act but not 100% sure.

Now I never did anything illegal with him but, was a thirteen year old boy hitting on me for sex?

There are other incidents too. But what do you all think. I would like to know
Shubret

Queen Creek, AZ

#2 May 31, 2009
I also wonder why he wanted to hide the fact that he was coming over to my apartment and hanging out with me from his mother and sister.

I got to be friends with his mother and I don't think he was to thrilled when I introduced myself.
Spider

Alpharetta, GA

#3 May 31, 2009
Shubret, you're not supposed to kiss and tell.

It breaches the trust between intimate friends if they have different sexual orientations.
Shubret

Queen Creek, AZ

#4 May 31, 2009
My friend is 34 now, who I will call (BY) is heterosexually married now but when he and the other kid (BD) were 13, I think, it was a differen't story. They may have been bisexual or still are.

His sister thought I was turning him gay, I suppose.
The Sheriff

Chongqing, China

#5 May 31, 2009
Shubret wrote:
My friend is 34 now, who I will call (BY) is heterosexually married now but when he and the other kid (BD) were 13, I think, it was a differen't story. They may have been bisexual or still are.
His sister thought I was turning him gay, I suppose.
So let me get this right...you were 22 and had two 13 year old boys hanging out in your apartment and they were sticking their hands down your pants.

What's your address?

- The Sheriff
Spider

Alpharetta, GA

#6 May 31, 2009
It is caused by lack of sex education at the crucial time when it is needed the most; when a kid's hormones kick in.

The boy wants to become active with girls, but he has no idea if his feelings and his physical equipment are suitable for girls until he compares himself with another guy. The technical name for this is "validation"

He will usually engage in one (sometimes two) experiences to achieve validation; then move on to successful relationships with girls from then on.

Validation is a normal process in social and sexual development for teens who are deprived of sex education because of religious prohibitions or parental failure.

The alternative is paraphilia, a not so desireable outcome of inhibited social and sexual development
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphil...
Shubret

Queen Creek, AZ

#7 May 31, 2009
The Sheriff wrote:
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So let me get this right...you were 22 and had two 13 year old boys hanging out in your apartment and they were sticking their hands down your pants.
What's your address?
- The Sheriff
Not quite like that, I awoke on morning to (BY) having his hand on my leg. He was still asleep. I never did anything illegal. Both (BD) and (BY) would act just a little flaky at times around me.
Shubret

Queen Creek, AZ

#8 May 31, 2009
Spider wrote:
It is caused by lack of sex education at the crucial time when it is needed the most; when a kid's hormones kick in.
The boy wants to become active with girls, but he has no idea if his feelings and his physical equipment are suitable for girls until he compares himself with another guy. The technical name for this is "validation"
He will usually engage in one (sometimes two) experiences to achieve validation; then move on to successful relationships with girls from then on.
Validation is a normal process in social and sexual development for teens who are deprived of sex education because of religious prohibitions or parental failure.
The alternative is paraphilia, a not so desireable outcome of inhibited social and sexual development
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphil...
(BY) was sexualized by his Father, Who was a abusive alcoholic. He made (BY) have sex with a four year old female cousin when he was just six.
Spider

Alpharetta, GA

#9 May 31, 2009
Shubret wrote:
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(BY) was sexualized by his Father, Who was a abusive alcoholic. He made (BY) have sex with a four year old female cousin when he was just six.
They should go on the Jerry Springer Show.

None of this is related inborn sexual orientation. You are on the wrong forum. Try this one
http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex

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