Oddly enough, pretty much ALL the anti-marriage arguments include the assumption that straight people are all too foolish to make their own decisions and too irresponsible to take care of themselves.<quoted text>....Don't you think that's rather insulting to yourself, and other straight people? If I were that weak and insecure, I wouldn't want to broadcast it.
Most of the straight married folks I know don't seem to be that silly. They just make their own mistakes for their own reasons.
The underlying assumption is that straight people will somehow "forget" that they're straight and start wanting to marry people of their own gender and stop having children if gay people are allowed to get married, too. SO bizarre.
But then, considering that in order to make such stupid arguments, the person making them must *also* be pretty stupid, it kinda does make some sense that they'd feel that way.