When did you realize you were gay?
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#878 Mar 7, 2013
iI am in New Castle Delaware not Beverly Nj just wanted to clear that up
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#879 Mar 7, 2013
But maby I should move there maby its what I should do to persue my new life

Since: Jan 13

Reno, NV

#880 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
iI am in New Castle Delaware not Beverly Nj just wanted to clear that up
Jon who are you talking to?
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#881 Mar 7, 2013
I am starting to love being gay
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#882 Mar 7, 2013
I guess I am secretly coming out to my family and friends on here tell me how to come ut to them im dredding this
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#883 Mar 7, 2013
out to them
Anonymous Stakeout

Alpharetta, GA

#884 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
Let me know if i should include my full name
OMG! Real names would be a disaster on the TOPIX forum
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Jon

Lancaster, PA

#885 Mar 7, 2013
I am not looking for a lover I am jus trying to come to grips that im gay sorry if I was leading you that way

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#886 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
I am not looking for a lover I am jus trying to come to grips that im gay sorry if I was leading you that way
Please, check out pflag.org .
Anonymous Stakeout

Alpharetta, GA

#887 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
I am not looking for a lover I am jus trying to come to grips that im gay sorry if I was leading you that way
You were born with the same sexual orientation your mother was born with; attracted to men
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Ponder this:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons...
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So obviously your difficulty is not with yourself; but with 'certain' people in your surroundings (usually homophobes)
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Homophobes are likely to stay that way; so leave them behind or they'll drag you down
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Who's life is it; anyway! Yours or theirs?
Big Tony

Chesapeake, OH

#888 Mar 7, 2013
Jon, you're a [email protected], deal with it.
Robsan5

Chesapeake, OH

#889 Mar 7, 2013
I knew I was gay around 6 yrs old. My daddy showed me all there was to learn. At first it scared me a little, then I started liking it. Now, all I can say is, thanks dad.

Robert
disgusted american

Chesapeake, OH

#890 Mar 7, 2013
I was born that way but some, so called gays on here, I'm not so sure about. Take for instance, the Rainboy Kid, he probably gets more pu:s:s y than he does d!ck. Makes one wonder.
allthreemedia

Charleston, WV

#891 Mar 7, 2013
Good for you jon make sure you stay safe .And play safe .
Cjj

United States

#892 Mar 7, 2013
Txt me 5855201945 I'm gay and dirty
freshmen 2016

Morristown, TN

#893 Mar 17, 2013
I realized it about two years ago when I was Twelve, although I was sort of realizing it when I was ten or so and started having crushes on the guys in my class. It really all started when this guy that was my age moved into my neighborhood,we started to hang out, and he told me he was gay, had a crush on me, and then I realized that I felt the same way.

I came out to my friend about two months later, and maybe a year and a half later I came out to my whole school, and the funny thing is is that when I had not told anyone a lot of people would call me a queer and the day after I came out, I never heard it again.

Since: Mar 11

Location hidden

#894 Mar 17, 2013
fr Big Tony:

>Jon, you're a ******, deal with it. <

Grow UP, tony, and get a flippin' LIFE.
Jody

United States

#895 Apr 4, 2013
I remember being in kindergarten and at recess a girl lifted her little skirt and showed me her panties and and I thought I wanted to have underwear like hers. It looked soft and I wanted boys to look at me that way. It was'nt long before I was looking at boys and getting excited.
South African guy

South Africa

#897 Jul 8, 2013
Well, actually my family hates gay people and hate the thought of guy, one of our family members was abandonded for being gay and it just makes me wonder what if I were to come out... I've had many crushes on class mates from school but I just can't come out, I honestly can't
lil-phil

Ireland

#898 Jul 14, 2013
Its interesting how many people knew they were gay
so young. I had absolutely no interest in boys until I was 12 / 13, up until then I only thought, looked at or fantasized about girls. But then one day I saw the music video to justin timberlakes song 'cry me a river' where he's kissing a girl and she bites his lip. It was like something clicked in my head and I noticed for the first time how attractive he was. After that I started looking at boys and instead of thinking nothing I started to think 'oh he's hot' or somethink like that, its like I hadn't even realisedboys could be attractive up until then (ps that was 3 years ago and I think I'm bi)

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