When did you realize you were gay?
Josh C

Durham, NC

#855 Jan 22, 2013
snyper wrote:
<quoted text>
YOU are OUR hope, little one.
YOU are why we have been fighting these fights ... so YOU don't have to go through what we did.
YOU show us that it's working. YOU aren't skulking in self-hatred; just a little self-doubt, and THAT isn't necessarily a bad thing. It keeps you open to learning.
You are our hope. You.
Whether in time you discover that you are gay, hetero, bi, trans ...
... it's ALL for you.
I'm Seriously crying right now. You people are so nice. I've never ever been told anything like that. In fact the best compleiment Iv've ever gotten is "Hey you look like your 16". Jeez I feel so good right now. I can stop crying either. Thank You for making me feel good about myself.
unicornwithadark side

Canada

#858 Jan 25, 2013
This is very interesting... I'm twelve and I'm just kind of beginning realize that I am attracted to girls. And just today I kissed one and it felt REALLY good. I've kissed boys before, but it didn't feel like this. I've known for awhile but I haven't told my parents yet...they should be fine; they're artsy Obama supporting Democrats. Anyways this is really interesting; just to know when you knew.
Livvy13

Grimsby, UK

#859 Feb 13, 2013
I am only 13 but I am beginning to realise I am most probably gay. It seems a bit odd cause I'm still so young and no one else in my year have come out yet. So scared about it becoming public. Also how do I find another les to share my love with?!

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#860 Feb 13, 2013
Livvy13 wrote:
I am only 13 but I am beginning to realise I am most probably gay. It seems a bit odd cause I'm still so young and no one else in my year have come out yet. So scared about it becoming public. Also how do I find another les to share my love with?!
First off, munchkin, give it a few years. Get your head out of your undies and back into your books so that when you are an adult you've got something to trade for the kind of life you'll want to have with whomever. Learn something, get interested in all kinds of stuff. Sex lasts only a few minutes, and a relationships is what you have when you get OUT of bed.

Don't want to be boring, do ya?

In a year or two, get in touch with pflag.org , they'll help you answer a lot of questions for yourself.

In the meantime, get your head back in the game. If you don't discipline your own thoughts and feelings, what kind of adult will you be?

“Petite twink, barely legal”

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#861 Feb 14, 2013
I get the feeling that "unicorn" and "Livvy" aren't real anyway...

Since: Jan 13

Reno, NV

#862 Mar 6, 2013
snyper wrote:
<quoted text>Then shift the battlefield.
Well said.
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#863 Mar 7, 2013
I have known for a few years but i didnt want to admit it to myself till now
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#864 Mar 7, 2013
I have to learn to love myself this way
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#865 Mar 7, 2013
I have known for a few years that im gay i was afraid to ad mit it to myself till now
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#866 Mar 7, 2013
I am coming out now im gay and I love it
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#867 Mar 7, 2013
I knew something was missing from my life now I know what I was missing

Since: Jan 13

Reno, NV

#868 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
I knew something was missing from my life now I know what I was missing
Good for you Jon. I'm trying to.
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#869 Mar 7, 2013
It is such a relief to talk to other people openly that im gay I am starting to love myself telling others this

Since: Jan 13

Reno, NV

#870 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
It is such a relief to talk to other people openly that im gay I am starting to love myself telling others this
Uh yeah u have said that already.
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#871 Mar 7, 2013
Thank You so much
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#872 Mar 7, 2013
Sorry if i repeat myself im new to being openly gay

Since: Jan 13

Reno, NV

#873 Mar 7, 2013
Jon wrote:
Thank You so much
Anytime. Hope your happy being gay
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#874 Mar 7, 2013
Let me know if i should include my full name
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#875 Mar 7, 2013
I am learning to be happy now
Jon

Lancaster, PA

#876 Mar 7, 2013
So I can come out fully

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