Had she cheated with a man, I pretty much would have viewed it as my fault, hung my head in regret and sorrow and moved on.
I suppose I am in a state of denial myself and I just hope to awake from this bad dream and it will all go away. It's like on ER - I've been doing heroic CPR on my marriage for so long - but no one, including me, wants to "call it."
nope, absolutely not.
there is no level of being a shit-heel that any guy can be that would make a straight woman a lesbian
if there was, there would be more lesbians than straight women
same for dominante mothers can't turn their sons gay
no person can make you something that you are not
if you suspected your wife cheating on you with another man - would you also hang in there, hoping things would change?
if not, why do you feel compelled to act differently just because the other person is a woman?