After a few years, and several upgrades to my GayDar(tm) I stopped being surprised at the occasional presumably straight friend that turned out to be gay.<quoted text>
I have an amusing story about this exact thing that happened to me one nite in the dorm at college (no alcohol involved either. LOL)
I also stopped giving a damn about whether they were gay or not.
I guess NoQ has some growing up to do. Quite a lot of it, if his posts are any indication. He appears to me to be a young man struggling with his own sexuality.