Am I gay, bi-sexual or just experimen...

Am I gay, bi-sexual or just experimenting???

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YngBlkBi

Sterling, VA

#1 Mar 26, 2008
I am 24 and I lived a straight lifestyle until two years ago when i started having oral sex relationships with other dudes. I have fantasized about this since i was like 10 and even acted upon it around that time. After that it was all girls. I dont see other guys and think "wow hes hot" like a do a woman and i dont yearn for a real relationship with a guy but i do have fun giving and receiving oral sex with other guys. So what am I???

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#2 Mar 27, 2008
You are normal.

Since: Mar 08

Tulsa, OK

#3 Mar 27, 2008
My guess would be bi-sexual.
YngBlkBi

Sterling, VA

#4 Mar 27, 2008
Big_Jake wrote:
My guess would be bi-sexual.
Yeah i guess so. Are there different levels of bi-sexualism? Because I would never like go on a date, kiss or hold hands with another man. This shit is so weird for me because everyone knows me as like a lady's man.

Since: Mar 08

Tulsa, OK

#5 Mar 27, 2008
Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you can continue being a ladies man. Here's a weird one for ya, a friend of mine *woman* likes watching gays go at it and with a little advice on how to work up slowly to it she uses a double strap on now on her husband. They're straight of course but things like that are out there it's not the black and white you are or aren't one thing anymore.

If that's all you like doing with dudes and don't want anyone to know that's fine if you experiment with them more that's fine too.

Do what makes you happy not what you think is what everyone wants. For me being 6'8" and 235 benching 480 coming deciding I wasn't really bisexual but gay took a lot of convincing as I didn't look gay *so I was told over and over again* and I was a ladies man.

I'm not saying that will be you I'm just saying if you're on the down low and happy stick with it, it doesn't mean you don't like the box lunch at the Y any less bud.
explorer

Edmond, OK

#6 Apr 3, 2008
I would try that
YngBlkBi wrote:
I am 24 and I lived a straight lifestyle until two years ago when i started having oral sex relationships with other dudes. I have fantasized about this since i was like 10 and even acted upon it around that time. After that it was all girls. I dont see other guys and think "wow hes hot" like a do a woman and i dont yearn for a real relationship with a guy but i do have fun giving and receiving oral sex with other guys. So what am I???
explorer

Edmond, OK

#7 Apr 3, 2008
I would be interested in trying a guy.
Steven

Babson Park, FL

#8 Sep 6, 2009
I would say your on the fence from bi and straight.

Daniel P from Long Island

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#9 Sep 6, 2009
Big_Jake wrote:
Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you can continue being a ladies man. Here's a weird one for ya, a friend of mine *woman* likes watching gays go at it and with a little advice on how to work up slowly to it she uses a double strap on now on her husband. They're straight of course but things like that are out there it's not the black and white you are or aren't one thing anymore.
If that's all you like doing with dudes and don't want anyone to know that's fine if you experiment with them more that's fine too.
Do what makes you happy not what you think is what everyone wants. For me being 6'8" and 235 benching 480 coming deciding I wasn't really bisexual but gay took a lot of convincing as I didn't look gay *so I was told over and over again* and I was a ladies man.
I'm not saying that will be you I'm just saying if you're on the down low and happy stick with it, it doesn't mean you don't like the box lunch at the Y any less bud.
You're 6'8" ???!!!

Daniel P from Long Island

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#10 Sep 6, 2009
McMike wrote:
You are normal.
I agree with you. He's normal.

Daniel P from Long Island

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#11 Sep 6, 2009
For a long time, I've been trying to get people to agree on a new rule.

New rule is

Oral sex between guys = NOT gay

Anal sex between guys = gay

Can we agree on that ?

:)
u dont know me

Post Falls, ID

#12 Sep 7, 2009
You are bisexual by deffinition. Check out the link for further info on bisexuality

http://members.tde.com/ben/bicplx98.html
sam

Germany

#13 Sep 8, 2009
i feel the same way too just havent did anything yet but would like too email is [email protected]
some guy

San Marcos, CA

#14 Sep 14, 2009
when i was 10 my cousin (only by marraige) and i used to fool around. he was 12 and going through puberty and i was only 10 and not going through puberty. i love women and i am engaged and very in love. i recently told my fiance and shes kinda freakin out. the thing is we had oral sex, jacked eachother off and dry humped. once he came on me and i thought it was pee. i never came, but i remember not ever saying no to him until i was 12. Is this normal?
Boobs

Ringwood, Australia

#16 Mar 10, 2010
Your gay

“a t-girl "in progress"”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#17 Mar 10, 2010
Sexual orientation is a CONTINUUM, and most people fall closer to one end or the other, but for most of us a little mixture is normal and natural. Don't worry about labeling yourself. Labels are for merchandise, not people.

Maybe what you'd really like is a sweet T-girl!

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