Does He Still love Me

“Hello everyone ”

Since: Aug 09

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#1 Aug 25, 2011
I know that this is a long story but please read it and give me good answers. I'm so sad. I met this guy on craigslist weeks ago.( I'm a guy by the way so yeah I'm gay.) He came over my house and we talked and got to know each other. He was very nice and we hugged and kissed. I'm 19 and he's 34 so he's a bit old but doesn't look like it. lol. Ever since we have been talking on yahoo messenger about every day. He said he was on vacation from his job so he had to go back work because he was busy.(He's an accountant.) It was understandable for me so he talked to me about every three days or so. I thought that he really loved me. He said he would always be there for me, he said he wanted me to go to church with him and that he liked to go to church, he helped boost my self esteem and gave me motivation, and he said that when I finish college he wanted me to marry him and buy him a house.

Me and this guy had absolutely the best conversations and he said he would see me again. I was so happy. But recently he hasn't talked to me for 3 weeks and I did ask him for his number before and he said that he would text me it but he never did. He hasn't sent me any messages on yahoo messenger either. I don't know if he's busy, or cheating, or doesn't have any interest in me. But with all that he said I have such a hard time believing that. I am so sad. I have been losing my appetite over this. I just feel like lying in bed all day. Then I rush to check my email or yahoo messenger and still no reply. Right now he still hasn't called me or messaged me. The last time he said good night and said that he loved me was August 8 and now it's the 23 and still no reply from him. I was so mad that I told him in an email messaged that I was tired of his games. Still no reply. The hardest thing anyone can do is break up with you and give you no reason for it. Please tell me what you think is going on here. Thanks. I feel so dead inside.

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Since: Mar 11

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#2 Aug 25, 2011
He wanted you to marry him a YOU buy HIM a house? Did you spend money on this guy? It sound like that was what was going on. I can only assume since you didn't actually say you did spend money on him. You are only 19, if I remember right I have a child not much younger than you.(I am 34) you have plenty of time for mister right let him go. You know the saying there's plenty of fish in the sea? It may be a cliche but it is so true. If he won't email you back, go back fishing! You will find someone, believe that. Good luck to you.

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