So they trick THEMSELVES, is what you're saying now. ANOTHER contradiction. I recommend that you keep your story straight, if you want to appear credible (though it's far too late for that).They think skinny girls are attractive in order to fit in, so they lie to themselves what they find attractive.
Maybe they ACTUALLY THINK these skinny girls ARE attractive, have you considered that? What's wrong with "skinny" (I notice you dropped the "ugly")? Most teenage boys will say that they find girls like CHEERLEADERS attractive. THAT is what makes them "fit in" better. How would claiming that an ugly person is attractive make someone "fit in"? Most gay people struggle with being outcasts. How would it help them "fit in" by being gay? You aren't making ANY sense.
You are NOW claiming that kids trick THEMSELVES (very different from being "evil" or "biological errors" or "indoctrinated") into liking someone that would only get them laughed at or beaten up, and that they do this to fit in.
Come on. You have GOT to be able to see how this makes NO sense, and how it goes in a COMPLETELY new direction from ANYTHING you've said so far.
What is it about someone's upbringing that makes them gay? My dad was a safety supervisor at a metal mill, he excells at automotive work, construction, fishing and hunting. A real "man's man", as they say. My mom was a librarian/court clerk who taught me how to love books and learning, and not to believe wild stories without a thorough investigation. What is it they did wrong, do you suppose? They've modeled an ideal marriage (50 years last August!), and my dad had a real way with the ladies. Oh, and my brother, who was raised by the very same people, is NOT gay.Peoples upbringings make them in the direction of homosexuality, but it is the persons responsibility to not be gay and not make themselves biological errors.
Have you checked into the upbringing of MANY gay people? What kind of research have you done on this, to arrive at your conclusion? How should parents CHANGE their parenting tactics, to AVOID having a gay child?
You must have a long list of comprehensive answers, since you sound like you think you're knowledgable about this subject.