Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex

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Nearly 10% of Self-Proclaimed 'Straight' Men Only Have Sex With Men Sept. 18, 2006 -- Nearly one in 10 men who say they're straight have sex only with other men, a New York City survey finds.
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#1386
Apr 24, 2008
 
Concern Christian wrote:
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anyone desiring to have sex with same sex is gay..no if ands or buts about it
"No if, ands or "BUTS" about it?" I'm sure there's a "BUT" involved somewhere if it involves gay sex,LMAO.

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#1387
Apr 24, 2008
 

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You can find them all down at the local gay bar right after they drop thier wives off at home from going to church!
Ask Haggart!
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#1388
Apr 24, 2008
 
I'm 51,I have sex with an 18 year old straight guy.We even had anal sex,his idea!I do favors for him,buy beer,take him to his girlfreinds home ( he does'nt have a drivers license),I drive him to other homes so he can cut grass to earn extra spending money (that is how we met).After several conversations,the topic of gay sex happened,I did'nt tell him I'm gay,because I enjoy his company and did'n want to scare him away,how would he react to me being gay.Well,an ex-freind told him to keep away from me.This person did'nt say why.But this young man told me what this other guy said.So,I thought eventually,he would find out,and he would be angry at me for not telling him,so I told him.He was ok with it,but said he thinks it's wrong.Well.several months later,he and I are having sex.He did me analy even,his idea,not mine.Imagins that,a straight guy asking me if I wanted him to penetrate me!I said "of course".Then he wanted me to try to enter him!!I tried,when it started to hurt him (a little,as I went very slowly)I stopped.I told him I would never hurt him physically of otherwise.He won't let me do him orally,he says "Only girls get to do that".Am I missing something here?I mean,this young guy was totally nude for me last night,felt him all over,did a hand job,finger his butt,we're in bed naked,just against me doing oral.My first favorite act.I do lend him money,when he can't pay back,he repays me by dropping his pants so I can do him by hand.Then while I give him pleasure,he slides down the edge of the bed,lifts his pelvis,I know he means he wants me to touch him from balls to butt hole.He closes his eyes and relaxes as I follow his lead.he's more relaxed since we started several months ago,he knows I won't harm him,so he closes his eyes and enjoys.This from a straight guy.

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#1389
Apr 25, 2008
 
Gay guy wrote:
I'm 51,I have sex with an 18 year old straight guy.We even had anal sex,his idea!I do favors for him,buy beer,take him to his girlfreinds home ( he does'nt have a drivers license),I drive him to other homes so he can cut grass to earn extra spending money (that is how we met).After several conversations,the topic of gay sex happened,I did'nt tell him I'm gay,because I enjoy his company and did'n want to scare him away,how would he react to me being gay.Well,an ex-freind told him to keep away from me.This person did'nt say why.But this young man told me what this other guy said.So,I thought eventually,he would find out,and he would be angry at me for not telling him,so I told him.He was ok with it,but said he thinks it's wrong.Well.several months later,he and I are having sex.He did me analy even,his idea,not mine.Imagins that,a straight guy asking me if I wanted him to penetrate me!I said "of course".Then he wanted me to try to enter him!!I tried,when it started to hurt him (a little,as I went very slowly)I stopped.I told him I would never hurt him physically of otherwise.He won't let me do him orally,he says "Only girls get to do that".Am I missing something here?I mean,this young guy was totally nude for me last night,felt him all over,did a hand job,finger his butt,we're in bed naked,just against me doing oral.My first favorite act.I do lend him money,when he can't pay back,he repays me by dropping his pants so I can do him by hand.Then while I give him pleasure,he slides down the edge of the bed,lifts his pelvis,I know he means he wants me to touch him from balls to butt hole.He closes his eyes and relaxes as I follow his lead.he's more relaxed since we started several months ago,he knows I won't harm him,so he closes his eyes and enjoys.This from a straight guy.
Sweetheart, he's more than likely not straight. He may be Bi or perhaps curious or he's Gay, but from what I've read, he's GAY and it's only a mater of time before you guy's do it all. Does he really think that you're that naieve, or is it just part of the "game" you two are playing. Come on now it's 2008, let's be real about what's really going on here!! As long as you are two consenting adults, enjoy and have fun.

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#1391
Apr 25, 2008
 
rEAL mAN oF _____gEnIUs wrote:
Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex?
That's like saying many law abiding citizens are committing murder.
Once a man has sex with another man then he is GAY - period!
Just as once a law abiding citizen commits murder then they are a MURDERER - period!
What are you going to say oh he only killed one person but besides that he's really a law abiding citizen!
Very good example of common sense.
More people need to think like that. Straight Gay Bi Wahtever you are...be happy with it and accept it
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#1392
Apr 25, 2008
 
Ed D35 wrote:
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Sweetheart, he's more than likely not straight. He may be Bi or perhaps curious or he's Gay, but from what I've read, he's GAY and it's only a mater of time before you guy's do it all. Does he really think that you're that naieve, or is it just part of the "game" you two are playing. Come on now it's 2008, let's be real about what's really going on here!! As long as you are two consenting adults, enjoy and have fun.
I think he's at least BI,but does'nt want to admit it to himself,let alone to me.I think he needs to deal with it in his own way/time.He has a freaking hard on!!Everytime.Still claims he's straight.I've been down this road before,although not lately.I needed reassurance from someone like you,about what I think.Thank you.I am willing to wait for him.His beauty is worth the wait.
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#1393
Apr 25, 2008
 
rEAL mAN oF _____gEnIUs wrote:
Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex?
That's like saying many law abiding citizens are committing murder.
Once a man has sex with another man then he is GAY - period!
Just as once a law abiding citizen commits murder then they are a MURDERER - period!
What are you going to say oh he only killed one person but besides that he's really a law abiding citizen!
Although I understand the logic I will have to disagree, I beleive that a gay man is one that is interested in physical and emotional connection to another man while a Bi just wants the physical part. I am not turned on by men and the thought of kissing or snuggling with a man is a complete turn off but I do like to suck a d*ck on occassion, drop to the knees and suck nothing else.
On the other hand - I am comfortable with myself so call me what you want but I will choose a p*ssy over a c*ck any day!
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#1394
Apr 25, 2008
 
Men of any description are my down fall. I love them all, gay or straight. The gay ones drive me crazy enough without having to worry about the straight ones. I can only imagine the drama - oh my. I know many straight women that take more from their straight men than I ever would be expected to with gay men. I have never had a gay man that got fat and sat in a recliner shaking an empty beer can at me. I have had three long time relationships with great guys that treated me with respect and equality. I would not want to have sex with a straight guy - it would be too weird. Most of the straight guys I know are big babies and the gay guys are tough and manly. Straight guys for sex no thanks.
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#1395
Apr 25, 2008
 
Truth wrote:
Men of any description are my down fall. I love them all, gay or straight. The gay ones drive me crazy enough without having to worry about the straight ones. I can only imagine the drama - oh my. I know many straight women that take more from their straight men than I ever would be expected to with gay men. I have never had a gay man that got fat and sat in a recliner shaking an empty beer can at me. I have had three long time relationships with great guys that treated me with respect and equality. I would not want to have sex with a straight guy - it would be too weird. Most of the straight guys I know are big babies and the gay guys are tough and manly. Straight guys for sex no thanks.
You're right.I'd rather have a gay man in my life.Where I live,the place has changed a lot.Not many to meet.There use to be,and I had many gays for sex,whether straight or gay,at a "cruising" location where guys look for sex.Those days are gone.Plus I have become disabled,live only on S.S.,so my prospects are virtually next to nothing.Now,I have this beautiful young guy,claims to be straight,has sex with me.So,I put up with B.S. from him.He's usually an easy going nice guy,but has placed restrictions on what we do.And that is-oral sex I want to give him,anal licking,kissing,hugging.He's fine with me doing a hand job,massaging,total nudity,doing anal entry to me,fingering his butt hole.If he wasn't so beautiful and there were other guys to meet,I'd show him th door(I don't mean the back door,he already went there,ha,ha).Sex with a willing partner is best.
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#1396
May 2, 2008
 
Bi-sexual men are real, I'm one. Except for my girl that knows of my tendancies, everyone that knows me knows me as a straight male. I would never consider living with or having a long term relation with a man. In fact seeing two guys kissing turns me off. I always check out women when I'm out in public because that's what I like to look at. I do however like to get blown by a guy or suck a nice co## till he c@ms in my mouth. Usually it's anonamous sex, like in an adult bookstore. I don't even really want to talk to the person, that's part of the turn on.
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#1397
May 2, 2008
 
I've been with lots of Straight guys that just wanted to get off.
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#1398
May 2, 2008
 
Bobby wrote:
I've been with lots of Straight guys that just wanted to get off.
Me to.I just wish this current straight guy would let me do oral on him.Straight guys are too much trouble,usually,to bother with,not worth my time.when I use to cruise,there were a fair amount of straight guys seeking oral from a gay man only.I enjoy doing it,but much rather persue another gay man,less restictions to deal with.

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#1399
May 2, 2008
 
I think if a straight man likes anal sex maybe they like men and they are just to worried about letting ppl know their sexuality....its possible bc why would a man like it that way if they wasnt homosexual...nothing wrong with homosexaulity bc I am a homosexual myself thats what i basially think....No doubt about it...

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Straight men do not have sex with men,lmao.How ridiculous. sounds like denial. If u have sex once with a man, in my opinion, you are gay, and probably will always desire it from time to time.

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May 3, 2008
 
Truth wrote:
Men of any description are my down fall. I love them all, gay or straight. The gay ones drive me crazy enough without having to worry about the straight ones. I can only imagine the drama - oh my. I know many straight women that take more from their straight men than I ever would be expected to with gay men. I have never had a gay man that got fat and sat in a recliner shaking an empty beer can at me. I have had three long time relationships with great guys that treated me with respect and equality. I would not want to have sex with a straight guy - it would be and the gay guys are tough and manly. Straight guys for sex no thanks.
"Most of the straight guys I know are big babies"
Thank you!

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#1402
May 3, 2008
 
WTF ARE you thinking have u heard bi men damn are u stupid

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May 3, 2008
 
Bye-Bi wrote:
Bi-sexual men are real, I'm one. Except for my girl that knows of my tendancies, everyone that knows me knows me as a straight male. I would never consider living with or having a long term relation with a man. In fact seeing two guys kissing turns me off. I always check out women when I'm out in public because that's what I like to look at. I do however like to get blown by a guy or suck a nice co## till he c@ms in my mouth. Usually it's anonamous sex, like in an adult bookstore. I don't even really want to talk to the person, that's part of the turn on.
You're so strange that you're QUEER!
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#1404
May 3, 2008
 
Tony17 wrote:
<quoted text>You're so strange that you're QUEER!
Do I hear the pot calling the kettle black?

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May 3, 2008
 
Think Tank wrote:
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Do I hear the pot calling the kettle black?
What the hell does that phrase mean? The pot calling the kettle black. And why can't the pot call a kettle black if the pot is say,silver and the kettle is actually Black?
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#1406
May 3, 2008
 
I have known of many married (so called)straight men that will seek out sex with guys in bookstores, rest areas etc. They are not looking for a gay relationship, they just enjoy the sex, and/or the sexual bonding with another man. They will lie and deny ANY accusations of being "gay" if found out. I had a tryst with a "straight" man one time that lasted about 4 months.It was to be a "friend with benefits" sort of thing.He was very attractive, and great in bed, so I went along for awhile. But there was to be NO on the mouth kissing, NO cuddling, or any form of intimacy once the "act" was over. The guilt was too much for him at times, but the hot 30 minutes we had in bed made him keep begging for more. I was never to call him, only e-mail to set up a "date".I really enjoyed his company, and started having deeper feelings for him,(another no-no) so after awhile I felt like a tramp, and started to feel like "the other woman", so I got out of it.

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