How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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Brown Eyes

Hagerhill, KY

#584 Aug 14, 2009
Teeenngirrrll wrote:
i had sex the other day. and it was my first time and he didnt do foreplay. and it didnt hurt to much tbh but it did for a bit after. and now even if i masturbate it hurts abit but this is the day after. i bled a little bit aswell. but thats normal i guess. but i got a rash like on my anul bit but i put cream on and now its gone. but uno if any of that isnt normal can u tell me? coz i am abit unsure.
Dear that doesnt sound Normal at all! You should never have a rash Especially around you Ass.Now if you like it Rough,Hard Fast ,Ect.Some people say it Different but my oppion No you should not have a rash,I have had 3 children ,No I don't know everythingbut do know quite Abit.You might want to get that checked because I once Slept with a guy and wanted to get checked and when I talked to the doctor he was Explaining what to look at for as far as STD"S and a couple of them they say you have rashes that come and go and sometimes you can go A Year without having any Sign's.So just to be safe I would go be checked to make 4 sure so that incase of Bad Luck you can tryin gettting some4 Med's to help it not gets so bad.Now that's my Oppion After having 3kid's and other than that 2 Miscarriage's and being married and of course having sex for 13 years I have never heard of rases unless maybe you had rough sex or something of that sort and then it should just be alittle sore,alittle redness,and maybe alitle raw.Hope I helped.
mz oj

Altamonte Springs, FL

#585 Aug 14, 2009
Imma be honest it hurt when he finally got in and it was really wierd i was like hurting forever but after like two mins it was a pleasurable pain and now im lke a sex addict lol. but i did bleed for like 2 days. and it all depends if you can use tampons if you still have ur v card it shouldnt hurt really bad at all. but i just started using tampons and it still feels weird. but good luck to whoevers gonna do it just pick the right person cuz i didnt i really didnt care who it was but me and him are still really close but not together sx changes everything once you start you dont EVER wanna STOP!
my name his rosie

Rotherham, UK

#586 Aug 16, 2009
and i want to no see if sex hurts cos i do want it with my bf but iam too shiting myself lol
Katherine

Port Orchard, WA

#587 Aug 16, 2009
I hope I can help. It's been 7 years since I lost my virginity. I was 14 at the time. It was just a little painful because the guy was very considerate. I have a fairly small and tight vagina, at least that's what guys tell me and he was probably bigger than average. Even so, he did everything he could to minimize my discomfort. He peformed oral sex on my breasts and vagina to get me really aroused which will of course make your vaginal canal lengthen and get very wet. He put lubricant on the head and first couple inches of his penis. Then he entered me very slowly and gradually. He would push maybe a half inch deeper into me with each thrust until all 7 inches were inside me. Then he just kissed me and held me close until I felt ready to have him start pumping. He wasn't my boy friend, just a really good friend who I had known for several years so I felt some affection for him. I'm probably in the minority when I say I had an orgasm my first time.
oprah

United States

#589 Aug 18, 2009
im sacred but ready to do it with my boyfriend of 2 years hes 2 years older and hes a virgin to and idk im just scared about the pain
Yeahyeahyeah

Virginia Beach, VA

#590 Aug 18, 2009
I am a virgin who has been with my boyfriend for a year, & I feel that I am ready to give myself up to him as he is a trusting, caring, reliable guy who I am very in love with. He's never pressured me or anything, & we have done 'everything but'. I just feel that I'm ready for the next thing to happen, but Im nervous & could use some advice for having my first time be a joyful, pleasureable, & most pain-free experience. All help & advice is appreciated, thanks.
Emily

Sulphur, OK

#592 Aug 21, 2009
well sex really isnt that bad its actually really amazing but the first time it does hurt! I made my boyfriend stop and he did pop my cherry but after it hurt to walk kinda like if you ran or worked out alot before, but after the first time it goes pretty smooth.

Since: Aug 08

Silver Spring, MD

#594 Aug 21, 2009
Sex did not hurt me the first time at all. It felt really, really good. I welcomed every bit of it.
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Sadie

UK

#595 Aug 21, 2009
It depends lol. Pople say that if your ride horses or did gymnastics and could do splits it doesn't hurt as bad because it rips the layer of skin, which gets ripped when having sex. This is true =] It hurt me, but not that bad..and i didn't bleed, which most people do. I wouldn't know if being flexible changes the pain or not. So if your flexible then, it shouldn't hurt that bad. Good luck if your gonna do it xD
pwincez of aston

Birmingham, UK

#596 Aug 22, 2009
why does it hurt it dnt ppl cht it
teeenngirll

Hemel Hempstead, UK

#597 Aug 22, 2009
Brown Eyes wrote:
<quoted text>Dear that doesnt sound Normal at all! You should never have a rash Especially around you Ass.Now if you like it Rough,Hard Fast ,Ect.Some people say it Different but my oppion No you should not have a rash,I have had 3 children ,No I don't know everythingbut do know quite Abit.You might want to get that checked because I once Slept with a guy and wanted to get checked and when I talked to the doctor he was Explaining what to look at for as far as STD"S and a couple of them they say you have rashes that come and go and sometimes you can go A Year without having any Sign's.So just to be safe I would go be checked to make 4 sure so that incase of Bad Luck you can tryin gettting some4 Med's to help it not gets so bad.Now that's my Oppion After having 3kid's and other than that 2 Miscarriage's and being married and of course having sex for 13 years I have never heard of rases unless maybe you had rough sex or something of that sort and then it should just be alittle sore,alittle redness,and maybe alitle raw.Hope I helped.
yeahh but we used a extra safe condom yh it was jus abit saw i duno if it was a propa rash or sumink lol
vcporn

UK

#598 Aug 22, 2009
hurts less if you have a proper fisting beforehand =)
lil mama

Lake Worth, FL

#599 Aug 23, 2009
For me it didnt hurt at all i lost my virginity at 15 nd i didnt even knoe it happen??..thats the trust.

“Hey!”

Since: Feb 09

HomeTown USA

#600 Aug 23, 2009
If you arent really wanting to do it, and you arent in the mood, and dont fully understand what is about to occur, then yes, its going to be a bit painful. The first time is always the worst, so ive heard. It was for me.
Ashleigh

Bellshill, UK

#601 Aug 25, 2009
Hey lol. Well I'm scared too about it, my boyfriend Liam who I've knows since I was about 4.. So about 11 years now.. We've always been dating each other & then off/on ect. But We've been going with each other for a good! few months now & I think its really working out. Although Liams like.. Kinda wannting to do it cos hes "supposidly" the only virgin in his year. I am gonna use protection ect but I just don't know if its gonna be really sore & what if its just in/out thats it? & I'm really afraid incase (how embarrassing would this be) If he couldnt get it up. aha! sounds weird, but I would feel really embarrassed if it does. Anywaaaaaays, can someone give mee some tips please? Thankyou. xx email mee: ashleigh-bahbee@hotmail.com

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#602 Aug 26, 2009
Ashleigh wrote:
Hey lol. Well I'm scared too about it, my boyfriend Liam who I've knows since I was about 4.. So about 11 years now.. We've always been dating each other & then off/on ect. But We've been going with each other for a good! few months now & I think its really working out. Although Liams like.. Kinda wannting to do it cos hes "supposidly" the only virgin in his year. I am gonna use protection ect but I just don't know if its gonna be really sore & what if its just in/out thats it? & I'm really afraid incase (how embarrassing would this be) If he couldnt get it up. aha! sounds weird, but I would feel really embarrassed if it does. Anywaaaaaays, can someone give mee some tips please? Thankyou. xx email mee: ashleigh-bahbee@hotmail.com
having sex just because everyone else suposedly already did it is NOT a good enough reason.

I will bet that half the class or more has not yet had sex, for both boys and girls.

It is almost impossible for a teen boy to NOT get an erection ... so don't worry about that.

Otherwise, I suggest waiting until both of you are AT LEAST 16, if not older ... there is no hurry, you have many years ahead of you.
Michelle

Lake Station, IN

#603 Aug 28, 2009
Wow.
This is NOT answering your question, but damn, I can't believe these kids younger
than me wanting sex. I'm still a virgin, I'm 16
and for years I've wanted to have sex,
yeah the feeling gets pretty intense &
I do get urges just like all of you 12, 13, 14
year olds are saying, but honestly; Unless your
ready to deal with some emotional pain, I suggest
you don't do it. You'll feel dirty if you do it when you're not mentally ready. I had an experience that was really
close to having sex, and I was a wreck afterward. & I was almost 16! & if you're younger than me the chance of your boyfriend actually loving you are he doesn't.Shit. Me & my current boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months now & he's going to be 18 in September. He's had sex plenty times before, we haven't even done sexual stuff yet either. Of course he wants to, but he doesn't care about it, he cares about me. He left that decision up to me. You young teens really don't know what your getting into. 0_o

Oh & If you want to fight the arguement 'oh we're in love.' Don't even start with me on that. I've been there & thought that when I was 15. Damn. When I was 14 too. Once you have sex it WILL change everything. I'm not kidding. You'll feel different especially if you weren't ready.
marissa

United States

#604 Aug 28, 2009
me and my boyfriend hav been together for over 2 years!!!!!! and we still havnt had sex..
aNON

Johannesburg, South Africa

#605 Aug 29, 2009
do it with someone u love and b sure they love u,i did it wen i was 15 and i dont regret it 4 one moment and me and da guy are still togetha

“na”

Since: Oct 08

na

#606 Sep 2, 2009
do you think you might like bukkake lets give it a try ok
Ashleigh wrote:
Hey lol. Well I'm scared too about it, my boyfriend Liam who I've knows since I was about 4.. So about 11 years now.. We've always been dating each other & then off/on ect. But We've been going with each other for a good! few months now & I think its really working out. Although Liams like.. Kinda wannting to do it cos hes "supposidly" the only virgin in his year. I am gonna use protection ect but I just don't know if its gonna be really sore & what if its just in/out thats it? & I'm really afraid incase (how embarrassing would this be) If he couldnt get it up. aha! sounds weird, but I would feel really embarrassed if it does. Anywaaaaaays, can someone give mee some tips please? Thankyou. xx email mee: ashleigh-bahbee@hotmail.com

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