How bad does sex hurt the first time?

How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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Orange Park, FL

#5728 May 16, 2013
Im 16 and my bf is 15 and. We plane on haveing sex this summer we been going out for 10. 1 ear when I get up there. And I'm scaerd its going to hurt and he's bot that big like 5 or 6 in willit hurt I. Platy all sprots so does that mean my hymes brook I been plat. Sports all my life
TheUnknownChic

Millville, NJ

#5729 May 18, 2013
Many women are afraid of the pain that they worry they will have when their hymen is stretched open during the first time they have vaginal intercourse with a man. I lost my virginity when I was 11 to a 17 year old but I wasn't a slut or anything but it just happened and it was so pleasuring!
Cass

Staten Island, NY

#5730 May 19, 2013
Well I'm turning 13 I don't want to have sex but I'm teaching my self for the worst when I get older , I don't want it to hurt when I do have it later on what shld I do ,?
bradley g

Enfield, Canada

#5731 May 19, 2013
Paige wrote:
Uh. I'm virgin, but I'm really scared it will kill. I know it will be painful, because of my hymen but still...I'm alittle scared. I mean, I love my boyfriend to death, and we've already agreed we were ready and the moment I did he bought condoms (figures...) and I really, truly WANT to have sex with him, badly. But...I'm scared about it hurting. Boys have it so easy!
i am a boy but yeah i agree, we dont have piriods so yeah and im 13 but most of my older [girl][16-20] say it feels good 2 have sex but i was like :/

Since: Dec 12

Sheffield, UK

#5732 May 19, 2013
It didn't hurt me it just felt a little odd, ad i felt a bit of pressure but luckily there wasn't any pain. I guess i expected it to kill so when i had sex it just felt a little uncomfortable at first with the pressure but it didnt hurt. Guess its different for everyone
lover133

Birmingham, AL

#5733 May 21, 2013
I'm 13 years Old and my boyfriend wants to have sex so bad but I'm a little scared but folks tell me it doesn't hurts it only feels like a pinch I need helo

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#5735 May 22, 2013
LianneLove wrote:
It didn't hurt me it just felt a little odd, ad i felt a bit of pressure but luckily there wasn't any pain. I guess i expected it to kill so when i had sex it just felt a little uncomfortable at first with the pressure but it didnt hurt. Guess its different for everyone
people just put such a huge emphasis on how painful their first time is going to be and girls start stressing so much and then they actually start getting into it and realise that it's not really that bad...obviously some woman will feel a lot more pain then others...
Trey4life

White Plains, NY

#5736 May 22, 2013
i mean i guess it would hurt. But you should really wait until ur ready. Don't rush into anything. Make sure ur doing it with the right person. get married first.

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Since: Jun 12

Weston-Super-Mare, England

#5737 May 22, 2013
Trey4life wrote:
i mean i guess it would hurt. But you should really wait until ur ready. Don't rush into anything. Make sure ur doing it with the right person. get married first.
Wait till married is the 'perfect world' scenario, but these days is a rare thing. I believe there is a lot of 'peer pressure' to have sex at an early age. Sex-ed in schools does not help, in that it often raises more questions and makes youngsters think more about sex that they would normally.

I do agree that it should be with the right person, someone you trust to be patient and understand the fears. Yes, wait till you are really ready.

The truth is, if you are scared of the pain, then you will be tense and that will make things worse. The secret is to relax and enjoy the foreplay and (if 'he' is doing a good job of that) then it will be MUCH easier

Since: Apr 13

UK

#5738 May 22, 2013
Not gonna lie it hurt a little... Got better everytime. Muscles ache the next day that's it. Little blood not much. Don't panic and relax. Lots of foreplay. You'll know the times right. I was with the boy for 2 years and a half in the end. Not 1 regret...

Since: Dec 12

Sheffield, UK

#5740 May 23, 2013
jay0992 wrote:
<quoted text>people just put such a huge emphasis on how painful their first time is going to be and girls start stressing so much and then they actually start getting into it and realise that it's not really that bad...obviously some woman will feel a lot more pain then others...
I agree it differes from woman to woman but i think expecting the pain helped me to not feel it if that makes sense, just discomfort
Jemstone

Las Vegas, NV

#5741 May 23, 2013
I loved it!! My man was so gentle, he didn't hurt me at all!! I would do it again, except my bf moved out of the state.
Jemstone

Las Vegas, NV

#5742 May 23, 2013
18 female uk wrote:
Not gonna lie it hurt a little... Got better everytime. Muscles ache the next day that's it. Little blood not much. Don't panic and relax. Lots of foreplay. You'll know the times right. I was with the boy for 2 years and a half in the end. Not 1 regret...
I definitely agree, same guy for two years had sex just a year ago and I have had it a lot since then. It really didn't hurt at all, but guys still have it easy.
jjjjj

Paragould, AR

#5744 May 27, 2013
I dont know what im dumd
Gena

Dunkirk, NY

#5745 May 29, 2013
I have a friend that asked me if I knew what porn sex was and I said yes and every time I see him e talks about it and I get scared that he's gonna rape me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Marisssa

United States

#5746 May 31, 2013
When i had sex it really reallly hurt,me i barely let him get his penis in my hole since that Day we havent had sex he wants it badly but im worried it will hurt again!! Is there any tips???
Andrew

United States

#5747 May 31, 2013
I know the same thing happened to my lady!! We want to have sex but i dont want to hurt her!!
Andrew

United States

#5748 May 31, 2013
jg25578t wrote:
When my girl and I first started having sex, the first time we couldn't even get me inside her. She was so tight and I'm a stocky guy with a thick c*ock. It was the second attempt that worked, with lube. She was in terrible pain and had what I think may have been some form of vaginismus. Some women are lucky that there is no pain or minimal discomfort, others have lots of pain and problems. It just varies by woman.
The same thing happened to me and my,lady last,night
Alyssa

United States

#5749 Jun 1, 2013
It hurts really bad!!!!! I guess the feeling could be related to like taking out a dry/clean tampon out.
djguy

Ripon, WI

#5750 Jun 1, 2013
Alyssa wrote:
It hurts really bad!!!!! I guess the feeling could be related to like taking out a dry/clean tampon out.
That don't sound fun, thats for sure...
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