How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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Düsseldorf, Germany

#5047 Sep 25, 2012
I have had sex quite a lot but you the first you wanna do to not get hurt is to put on some oil...My bf made me put oil, and trust me, it doesn't hurt that bad...One of the first thing he is going to do is find the G-spot in your vagina and wiggle it, then you probably squirt...But keep in mind your partner should be someone that you believe. Just don't be quite scared. I had sex when I was 16. It didn't hurt me...Bye Honey

Piscataway, NJ

#5048 Sep 26, 2012
Well, if u want to know n ur nervous wait a few more years. Lol there is nothin wrong with being a virgin. Ur only a virgin once =D

Perth, Australia

#5049 Sep 26, 2012
Amy wrote:
Hurt like hell. I can't sit down without it still hurting. But hey, hopefully next time will be better
how old r u
butt head

Palm Coast, FL

#5050 Sep 28, 2012
listen it will hurt for 15 seconds but if a dud puts preasure on u then he doesnt love u so then just dup him

Seaside, CA

#5051 Sep 29, 2012
My first time it hurt like a Cheese !!! Maybe because it was my first time & we were kinda in a hurry ! But its worth it !! The feeling is amazing but i did bleed for a while then i was kinda sore but its worth it trust me ;)

Liverpool, UK

#5052 Sep 29, 2012
it hurt a little , the first couple thrusts hurt, and it was a little uncomfortable for a couple days after wards but my boyfriend was gentle with me and went slow at first plus he was not that big then because we were only 14 and he was still growing :).

Bellevue, WA

#5053 Sep 29, 2012
i wanna have sex soooooo bad but all these comments about it hurting is really getting in the way. I just get soo wet sometimes .. I need & want sex bad but idk :(. I like it rough too.

“kik: as username”

Since: Jun 12

Weston-Super-Mare, England

#5054 Sep 29, 2012
typo wrote:
i wanna have sex soooooo bad but all these comments about it hurting is really getting in the way. I just get soo wet sometimes .. I need & want sex bad but idk :(. I like it rough too.
How do you know you like it rough? That is a contradiction because with rough comes some pain but it is the pain that is putting you off.

How old are you? When you are with the right boy, you will know it is time to accept what 'might' be a little pain for the pleasure. But it is something should not be rushed into just because you want it.

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nautica gomez

Omaha, NE

#5055 Sep 30, 2012
My first time was 14 . It hurt so bad . He was doing it as hard as he could . He sticked 3 fingers up me really hard . After we had sex the next morning i could not walk without sort of limping . And i couldnt sit . It took me about 2 weeks to heel . But i did do it again and again LOL

Saint Albert, Canada

#5057 Oct 3, 2012
Well all I gotta say is that I'm not gonna lecture you into not having sex at 13 but you can tell him stop if you want him to STOP... Well have safe sex??!!??

United States

#5058 Oct 3, 2012
My first time hurt so bad, I was 12 and my bf was 49 and huge, he fisted me first to loosen me up. It was so romantic. Then he took cooking oil and put it on me and we had sex for an hour in a parking lot. It hurt alot, and wasnt really good, but it will be worth it. Oh and i was really scared i was pregnant for about 2 weeks. Other then that, not so bad.
cindy levi

North Bergen, NJ

#5059 Oct 4, 2012
im 12 i did it yesturday it did hurt it hurt so bat milk came out lol
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#5061 Oct 10, 2012
Can I have sex with anyone around cardiff plz really deberate and I had sex before so u can go as hard as u want and I'm 16 :p
Old Jim 2

Granada, Nicaragua

#5064 Oct 10, 2012
. Si, amigo. Ain't he that child-molesting book author, who wrote "Azul"? oops, wait, he was Ruben Dario. pardon..
Rubio wrote:
¿Te conozco Diego "Rubio?"

United States

#5066 Oct 13, 2012
last week i tried it with my bf and while he tried to penetrate it got scary n painfull xo i told him to stop..what should i do to make it more fun

“kik: as username”

Since: Jun 12

Weston-Super-Mare, England

#5068 Oct 14, 2012
Lots of foreplay, and learn to relax :)

I suspect that you were expecting it to hurt, so you tensed up and that made it hurt :(

Medford, OR

#5069 Oct 16, 2012
iv nere had sex im actully kinda scared to about all the thrusten up stuff and all that so im actully very scared!

Medford, OR

#5070 Oct 16, 2012
oh that makes sense

Clovis, CA

#5071 Oct 16, 2012

Since: Aug 11

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#5072 Oct 16, 2012
i had sex first time with older scotish was hung like a horse...i screamed and painfull i didnt have sex again for two years

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