How bad does sex hurt the first time?

How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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Use tongue

Saint Leonard, MD

#5025 Aug 11, 2012
turtle wrote:
me n my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now, idk now that i mention it, it seems like very little time. but we've been knowing each other for 4 months before we started dating. i just turned 18 a few days ago and am still a virgin. me n my boyfriend are always teasing each other but have not done anything so far. i had told my boyfriend that i wanted to save my self i guess so i wouldnt feel pressured, but he has never actually
pressured me. i feel like im ready but dont know, i dont know if i think right about having to be together longer to have sex. but again i feel like im ready, but me having over protective parents
my mother had always told me to save my self
til marriage, she is constantly reminding me
because she knows that my boyfriend is not a
virgin and is 3 years older than me, and she also
knows about his colorful past. i dont know what
to do, my mother has been constantly asking me
for the past few weeks now if i already had sex
with him, it makes me feel kinda guilty by that
part because i had promised my mother i would
save my self but like i said i feel like im ready
and that hes yhe one i want to lose my virginity
to:/ i need honest opinions please, they would be
greatly appreciated:)
wow I think if you know your ready and you know he's the one you should go for it good look
bbrt

Fayetteville, NC

#5026 Aug 13, 2012
sex feels so good
Loves to dance

Cincinnati, OH

#5027 Aug 14, 2012
I remember my first time it wasn't that long ago and I'm 18 i remember hurting for like the first few thrusts then after that I was great although it helped for me to help a caring partner my thighs were a little sore the next day but other than that it didn't really hurt
sexy girl

Halifax, Canada

#5028 Aug 15, 2012
OMG i want to have sex rite now would anyone care to have sex with me!!!
sexy girl

Halifax, Canada

#5029 Aug 15, 2012
i just turned 21 no kids no boy friend nothing have my own house
denim is cool

UK

#5031 Aug 16, 2012
Virgin boo me someone just do me already gOD
Chantelle

UK

#5032 Aug 17, 2012
Omg my first time hurt so bad I was 14 he was 21 in the back of his car he was lay on me n there wasn't much room but when he stuck it in me I screamed it hurt so bad n I couldn't move he told me to keep goin n it would stop but it didn't it burned n stung so bad when he stopped there was blood everywhere the next few times still hurt not as bad but was burning and stinging
Noah

Encino, CA

#5033 Aug 19, 2012
sexy girl wrote:
OMG i want to have sex rite now would anyone care to have sex with me!!!
where do you live
Noah

Encino, CA

#5034 Aug 19, 2012
I'm 15 boy I want to have sex
Noah

Encino, CA

#5035 Aug 19, 2012
denim is cool wrote:
Virgin boo me someone just do me already gOD
how old are you where you live
michael smith

Kittanning, PA

#5036 Aug 20, 2012
well i am a guy who had sex my gf yesterday and she said it hurt. so then if you push it in very slowly it won't hurt your gf but don't push it in to far that is how it will hurt her a lot
sexy girl

Halifax, Canada

#5037 Aug 22, 2012
well i am 16 and i live in canada !!
FUN couple

UK

#5039 Aug 22, 2012
Add me on bbm girls we can share our first time storys 290BB91B
lucy

Cinderford, UK

#5041 Sep 3, 2012
Am really scared to have sex but my boyfriend wants to have sex but am too scared I think its gnna hurt me what should I do I cry everyday

“kik: as username”

Since: Jun 12

Weston-Super-Mare, England

#5043 Sep 4, 2012
lucy wrote:
Am really scared to have sex but my boyfriend wants to have sex but am too scared I think its gnna hurt me what should I do I cry everyday
When you are ready then you do it. There is a chance of some pain but is rare that is a great deal or lasts for long. If your boyfriend understands your worries he will take his time and get you to want it. That is what foreplay is all about ;-)
mmmmyess

Phoenix, AZ

#5044 Sep 4, 2012
slaveHunterDMC wrote:
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When you are ready then you do it. There is a chance of some pain but is rare that is a great deal or lasts for long. If your boyfriend understands your worries he will take his time and get you to want it. That is what foreplay is all about ;-)
Well said Sir.
Somebody

Vancouver, Canada

#5045 Sep 19, 2012
Hi hmm finger ur self a lot or get some one ales to do it then it shouldn't hurt ..

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#5046 Sep 19, 2012
by the time i got there my nuts hurt like hell
Honey123

Düsseldorf, Germany

#5047 Sep 25, 2012
I have had sex quite a lot but you the first you wanna do to not get hurt is to put on some oil...My bf made me put oil, and trust me, it doesn't hurt that bad...One of the first thing he is going to do is find the G-spot in your vagina and wiggle it, then you probably squirt...But keep in mind your partner should be someone that you believe. Just don't be quite scared. I had sex when I was 16. It didn't hurt me...Bye Honey
Yolo

Piscataway, NJ

#5048 Sep 26, 2012
Well, if u want to know n ur nervous wait a few more years. Lol there is nothin wrong with being a virgin. Ur only a virgin once =D

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