How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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Recently, a young lady asked this question: How bad does sex hurt the first time? Click2lose weight blogs about health and wellness so sex and sexual health is a valid ...

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TOM CRUISE

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RYAN SECREST wrote:
My "first" time was very painful....Hell , I couldn't sit down for a week!
I know the feeling , sweetie , boy do I!!!
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It didn't hurt me at all, I just felt a lot of pressure. But my boyfriend had fingered me for a while beforehand so I was used to having things inside of me.
The second time hurt much worse for some reason!
If anyone can tell me why, I would appreciate it.
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Scarlett ---14--- DUH wrote:
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So You Got Pregnant Your First Time?
I heard it hurts like a B**** so im scared to lose my virginity.
uhh im not a girl but i hear it only hurts the first time for a girl if the guy is particularly rough. if he knows its your first time and that you're worried he should be gentle, or hes an asshole. lol. i wouldnt worry though. just try to enjoy it. lol
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As long as u relax and dont worry about it u'll be fine. I suggest alot of foreplay before penetration. I was really gentle wit my gf the first time. and i left it in her for a while before i started thrustin.
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The first time a woman has vaginal intercourse does not have to be painful. Pain or discomfort during the first time a woman has vaginal sex have three common reasons: the inexperience or lack of attentiveness of her partner, the fact that she may be too young and her body isn't ready, and the stretching open of her hymen.
Many women are afraid of the pain that they worry they will have when their hymen is stretched open during the first time they have vaginal intercourse with a man. The hymen is a thin membrane that stretches across a woman's vaginal opening. Menstrual fluids pass through an opening in the hymen during a woman's period. However, many women are born without a hymen, some have very little hymenal tissue, and the hymens of others are stretched open during sports or other activities, such as horseback and bicycle riding. All of these factors influence whether or not initial vaginal intercourse is painful or uncomfortable for a woman.
Women who have hymenal tissue obstructing the opening to the vagina can prepare for their first intercourse by slowly stretching the hymen open with a clean finger. In rare cases, women who have very thick hymens may need to seek medical assistance to remove the obstruction.
Another common cause of pain or discomfort during vaginal intercourse whether or not it's the first time has to do with the amount of time the couple spends in foreplay (sexual activity before penile-vaginal sex). As a woman becomes sexually aroused, more blood flows into her genitals (this is also true for men). For a woman, this increased blood flow allows her vaginal canal to lengthen and widen. It also stimulates the production of vaginal lubrication. All these changes allow insertive sex to be more comfortable. Unfortunately, many women have vaginal intercourse before their bodies are fully aroused because their partners aren't paying attention, don't know what they're doing, or are in too much of a hurry.
Men tend to become sexually aroused more quickly than women. So, often they insert the penis before a woman's body has had time to become fully aroused. If the guy is aware of the difference in arousal speed, then he may be more willing to take his time during foreplay. This lets the vagina become sufficiently lubricated and for the woman's body to become ready for vaginal intercourse. Unfortunately, when people are first having sex, they tend to be impatient, clumsy, and self-conscious which is why people's first experiences aren't always the greatest.
The most important key is communication. Let your partner know what is comfortable and what is not comfortable. Encourage him to take his time. Let him know that women need a longer period of stimulation than men to become fully aroused. If partners take their time, are attentive to one another's pleasure, and they communicate, there can be very little discomfort and sex can be very pleasant even the first time.
For young women whose bodies are not ready, however, no amount of communication or foreplay will make vaginal intercourse comfortable or fun, which is another reason why so many girls wait until they're older.
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uummm me nd my boyfriend began 2 have sex today but it hurt like helll !!!

so he pulled out . what he put in lmfao
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i know how you feel
because ive been waiting to have sex with this one guy but i get to scared its gunna hurt
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I said I didn't want it in my butt but he kept pushing and pushing.

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8th Degree wrote:
I said I didn't want it in my butt but he kept pushing and pushing.
dont ever let a man push you to do anything you are uncomfortable with!!!!! if hes a decent guy, he will understand & respect that!
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Hurt like hell. I can't sit down without it still hurting. But hey, hopefully next time will be better
Chris

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It didnt hurt me. lol. im jp. I wuz gentle so it didnt hurt my girl all that bad. it wuz worth it. ; )
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im scared..... im redy but im scared of the pain
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im 15 and im still a virgin so i dont know if it hurts im looking to see in the near futer
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aright heres what it is from health class & experience ! sex hurts if you are scared of pain. when you have sex the first time ; it is the most UNCOMFORTABLE thing ever - but then it gets better. seriously, just DONT be scared & panic-ish ?! & RELAX. let whatever has to happen, HAPPEN. the end :)
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just about killed me he ripped me i had to go to hos and get stiches an wouldnt quit i was 14 and he was 35 it just kept saying it gonna hurt a little when iwas bleeding he laughed and said he popped my cherry its supposed to but when momma had to take hos that night she wasn't laughing and neither was my uncle he was huge thick and long
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tiara wrote:
im 15 and im still a virgin so i dont know if it hurts im looking to see in the near futer
if you be calm, and not at all nervous, you would really experience a good time...
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well before i did it, i got fingered by like 10 different guys, most of them using different techniques, etc. when i first lost it with my bf, i was reallyy turned on. it didnt hurt one bit, nor did i bleed. thing is, you have to find ways to open up the hole, by letting people finger you, or you doing it to yourself. then when you have sex, it wont hurt.

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end the hate wrote:
well before i did it, i got fingered by like 10 different guys, most of them using different techniques, etc. when i first lost it with my bf, i was reallyy turned on. it didnt hurt one bit, nor did i bleed. thing is, you have to find ways to open up the hole, by letting people finger you, or you doing it to yourself. then when you have sex, it wont hurt.
this does make sense. oddly enough, i was fingered many times before i had sex, and i still bled.
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Rock_Out wrote:
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this does make sense. oddly enough, i was fingered many times before i had sex, and i still bled.
Same holds true for me as well.It was not as painful as I had suspected it to be,however it was a little painful.I think the foreplay,and excitement leading to the actual act,will determine the amount of the pain,as becoming excited is to release our own lubricant,and makes insertion less painful.

“ja sagte ich das :)”

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you should wait until your married to find that out :)

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