Pregnant girl, 12, in baby plea

[KJRussell105]

If i was her parents i would be upset that she had has sex at such a young age but you can't take someone's flesh and blood away from them it would be like the girl's mother getting her youngest taken away from her because of her age.
I should know how she fills because i am pregnant myself and im 12 years old and would like help from my parents but i can't ask for everything and my boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with me now but his mum and dad do. But it isnt the same as she didn't know the boy because she was drunk. My opion is that she should be aloud to keep it it doesn't matter really about your age it is only important that you are mature and love the baby.

[DanielleCT]

KJRussell105 wrote:

If i was her parents i would be upset that she had has sex at such a young age but you can't take someone's flesh and blood away from them it would be like the girl's mother getting her youngest taken away from her because of her age.
I should know how she fills because i am pregnant myself and im 12 years old and would like help from my parents but i can't ask for everything and my boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with me now but his mum and dad do. But it isnt the same as she didn't know the boy because she was drunk. My opion is that she should be aloud to keep it it doesn't matter really about your age it is only important that you are mature and love the baby.

No 12 year old has any business being a parent.

[tori]

DanielleCT wrote:

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No 12 year old has any business being a parent.

...but...but... I wanna babeh!

[DanielleCT]

tori wrote:

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...but...but... I wanna babeh!

Until it starts crying right? LOL

[tori]

DanielleCT wrote:

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Until it starts crying right? LOL

:|. the crying I can handle... it's the whole 3 am deal.

when I had my first baby, his dad worked nights, and so I woke up with him every night, and boy was he a night owl... went to school, came home and took care of him.

that 3 am thing really killed me! it was hard.

but I dealt with it... and now he sleeps all night for the most part... and his brother as well. YAY.

and I don't want any more babies... I don't think. maybe in like... 15 years.

[tori]

oh. and if I were 12... that would have REALLY depressed me.

[Anymous]

give her time to prove herself.....

she might be a good mom,but I do agree THAT SHE IS TO YOUNG TO HAVE A BABY!!!!!!!!!!

[Leria]

kamm wrote:

well, i do think she is really young, but i would give her a chance. here in the U.S.A., the kids are getting younger and younger and having babies, though i dont think they should become mothers at such a young age, but some can be good mothers.
and where is the father of this child about to be born, does she get any support from him, why is it ALWAYS just the mothers that get slandered, it took BOTH of them for her to get pregnant.

Actually, the fathers usually get thrown in jail, that is the reason why she has refused (at last thing I heard) to give the name of the father.

Really, we need to realize that if a girl gets pregnant.... nature has simply deigned that she is mature and old enough to have a baby and get pregnant. It's time to stop fighting that and prevent it by putting all females on birth control starting at the age of 7 and repealing the statutory rape and 'child sexual abuse' laws so in the event that a older man does get a child pregnant, he can help take care of the child.

Frankly, were I to get a young girl pregnant, I would help her take care of the baby until the age of 18... then, she would be on her own because I am not marrying her and I am not planning on spending the rest of my life solely with any one female.
That isn't greed or selfishness, because I tell every single female I sleep with that, and most of them don't care.

[STEPHANIE]

theres a girl a girl ariel thrash b at my school and she is pregnent and she is only TWELVE!!!

[STEPHANIE]

sick huh

[Faheem]

What Mum would let her 11 year old daughter go out party,drinking,smoking and having sex? Aren't 11 year olds suppost to be kids?
The Mum of this 12 year old is on benefits. She had her fourth baby 9 months a go. The 12 year old daughter had to babysit for her brothers.
I pity the child that is going to be born. While I do not agree with abortion. Adoption in some cases should be a option. Like this one.

[Faheem]

If i was her parents i would be upset that she had has sex at such a young age but you can't take someone's flesh and blood away from them it would be like the girl's mother getting her youngest taken away from her because of her age.
I should know how she fills because i am pregnant myself and im 12 years old and would like help from my parents but i can't ask for everything and my boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with me now but his mum and dad do. But it isnt the same as she didn't know the boy because she was drunk. My opion is that she should be aloud to keep it it doesn't matter really about your age it is only important that you are mature and love the baby.

[nickatone24]

i say, let her do what she wants. let her have sex

[nickatone24]

Faheem wrote:

If i was her parents i would be upset that she had has sex at such a young age but you can't take someone's flesh and blood away from them it would be like the girl's mother getting her youngest taken away from her because of her age.
I should know how she fills because i am pregnant myself and im 12 years old and would like help from my parents but i can't ask for everything and my boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with me now but his mum and dad do. But it isnt the same as she didn't know the boy because she was drunk. My opion is that she should be aloud to keep it it doesn't matter really about your age it is only important that you are mature and love the baby.

Im 12 but im a boy and i say the father shouldnt be held responsible

[tori]

nickatone24 wrote:

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Im 12 but im a boy and i say the father shouldnt be held responsible

the father shouldn't be held responsible for KNOWINGLY sleeping with an underage girl?

[Bella]

well its not like shes bring up the child by herself! shes still living with her mum. and also she knows how to look after babies coz of her brothers. but the social workers should still a eye on her just to make sure.

[tori]

Bella wrote:

well its not like shes bring up the child by herself! shes still living with her mum. and also she knows how to look after babies coz of her brothers. but the social workers should still a eye on her just to make sure.

darn you missed it -
the girl drank and smoked all the way through claiming "it doesn't seem like it's effecting the baby"...

they also didn't have room - and SHE took care of her little brothers NOT her mum- so I assume she wouldn't be helping take care of a child that isn't even hers.

they took the baby as well as the children.

[rebecca]

retarted girl i will tell you and if I had sex that early. I wojuld want to keep my baby. She must have loved that boy.

[DNHT]

Let her keep the baby. Although it is not good for a minor to have a baby, Once they become a pregnant let her keep baby! Think of the baby growing up at an adoption center. They are likely to be lonely going through life without a mother. Wait till after the mother has had her baby for at least six months. Then ONLY!!! take the baby if the mother proves that she cannot handle it. rember that all mothers have problems at first, but they always come through.

[tori]

rebecca wrote:

retarted girl i will tell you and if I had sex that early. I wojuld want to keep my baby. She must have loved that boy.

as far as i've understood, she didn't really KNOW the boy. she was just drunk.