So you don't have unconditional love for Jesus?<quoted text>Either scenario you posit is selfishness, not unconditional love. It is selfish because the person's own well-being becomes the top priority.
Unconditional love is the love that has no conditions, NO MATTER WHAT. So if a woman's son rapes her, beats her nearly to death after killing his own father and siblings, that mother would still love her son. Not happenin. There's always a condition to love.
You're gonna hurt his feelings.
Jesus doesn't like when you hurt his feelings.
I mean, he REALLY doesn't like it.