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Maybe so. What I do know is that when you or I see a fetus, we see a fetus. She (and others like her) sees a newborn. You and I know these are different organisms completely. To her (and others like her) they're exactly the same, just at "different stages" of life. NR's ridiculous claim of 12th trimester comes to mind here.
I don't think there's any way talking sense into her or others like her. Or getting around it. She understood why my daughter's death was more meaningful to me, but thought that equated to making the lost fetus unimportant. She probably makes similar deductions with your insightful posts, NAP.
But that's her problem. Not yours. Not mine.
Katie V.: "You and I know these are different organisms completely. To her (and others like her) they're exactly the same, just at 'different stages' of life."
Katie V.: "I named mine Aaron. And still do today."