What is your point ..Here Sassy
3 hrs ago
You're right, in many cases the teen's mom does often end up raising another child. It's a huge impact on the entire family involved, both sets of families.
I agree with your recommendation of girls reading the stories of moms who regret motherhood. For some mothers, it's not the rainbows and butterflies they thought it'd be...
This was supposed to be a response to one of your posts ..I found it on the Misconception thread but did not see your original post over there
Yours was about the tough time you had
It Is most certainly hard to be a single working mom.
I finally git my arrears. But at the rate of 35 a week..Lol.
By that time my daughter was in college..so I gave mist of it to her for expenses..the little left..she git to use FOR her wedding.
Didn't help.me much
Got most of my education by taking classes,on my own..Still never made much at all.
The one time I asked for help..Vic Rehab was helping me as I had get a new,line if work ..so they paid some for school.
I got a blood clot..at that time you had to be in the hospital 2weeks. And then off your feet.
So I actually got food stamps! For two whole weeks!! BUT as I was talking to some agency that would help me out from the VOC REHAB people..they had s someone call me about TAKING MY CHILD INTO FOSTER CARE!!!
I think I screamed so loud the nurses came running..I was in shock and crying...
Thankfully my folks were still alive then..they both died a few years later...I convinced them THAT NONE OF THEIR SERVICES would be needed or welcome!!!!
That's what the total of my government HELP was.
I had a least worked and in my new job I just worked harder..determined that my child would have it better
No one can take her e education from her.
Thankfully she can manage with hubby job..to work part time and have the boys in school..SHE HAS A PROFESSION.
the one thing through all this I made sure of is I never again would have an unplanned pregnancy ..like the one I had in high school.
I knew,I could NEVER ever have an abortion...not give a child again for adoption ..not raise another child on my own
And when I could no longer use the pill.
I HAD MY TUBES tied..That is how SERIOUS I Was to be responsible.
We women do not have it easy .
But my daughter and now my son. Whose life I am now aPart of ..
Are my pride and joy.
That they have a better lot in life.
IS WHAT THIS COUNTRY. WAS MADE OF..
OUR chief goal in life is to make it better for them
And part of that is,WAIT ON SEX...DO NOT get pregnant ..unless you are ready and want to raise a child ..
I posted that to Katie but on the wrong thread ..so who cares..except ME and KATIE
It was an answer to a post about hoe hard her life had been as a single mother
Again so what .
SOME OF US HAVE HAD A,HARDER LIFE THAN YOURS
again SO WHAT knit
Now you are not just tracking me ..You are posting yet again from one thread to another .
Is this another of your attempts to HARASS AND EMBARASS ME.
OH will you ever learn