Yes, I figured it was.Aquarious, this above post is to you....
I was perhaps a little harsh with her, but sometimes communicating through the keyboard is hard, and having personally witnessed similar ill advised (in my opinion) withholding of medical issues from supposedly close family members, leads ONLY down a path of personal relationship destruction, and is an act of selfishness and not an act of love for the other person.
Facing the truth and being open (ESPECIALLY to your immediate family members) about it is the only path to reconciliation and love.
BK has always told me she appreciates my "in your face honesty". Sometimes I may get a little forceful in that endeavor, but you know I mean well, and so does she.