umh I'm also 14 nd I'm dating this guy we have been dating 4 five months now nd we reali love each other nd I thnk I'm kinda ready 2 have sex with him bt I'm afraid of the pain if its reali gnna hurt and I've also got a small vagina like u nd my bf looks lyk hez got 1 hell of a penis nd I'm scared wat shuld I do coz I want 2 hve it witI hope I can help. It's been 7 years since I lost my virginity. I was 14 at the time. It was just a little painful because the guy was very considerate. I have a fairly small and tight vagina, at least that's what guys tell me and he was probably bigger than average. Even so, he did everything he could to minimize my discomfort. He peformed oral sex on my breasts and vagina to get me really aroused which will of course make your vaginal canal lengthen and get very wet. He put lubricant on the head and first couple inches of his penis. Then he entered me very slowly and gradually. He would push maybe a half inch deeper into me with each thrust until all 7 inches were inside me. Then he just kissed me and held me close until I felt ready to have him start pumping. He wasn't my boy friend, just a really good friend who I had known for several years so I felt some affection for him. I'm probably in the minority when I say I had an orgasm my first time.
h him bt I'm afraid