How bad does sex hurt the first time?

How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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ZVG

Plainview, TX

#5752 Jun 5, 2013
I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for a year now,.. We are both virgins and I'm nervous too do it cause I think it will hurt too much...... Any advice??

Since: Dec 12

Sheffield, UK

#5753 Jun 5, 2013
ZVG wrote:
I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for a year now,.. We are both virgins and I'm nervous too do it cause I think it will hurt too much...... Any advice??
I would say do a lot of foreplay and it will help to losen you up and relax you.
natalie

Athens, Greece

#5754 Jun 5, 2013
hey i really wanted to know if it hurts, i am 15 my bf is 25 he has expiriance in sex.It will be my first time.is their something i can do for me not to hurt?
Matthew

South Africa

#5756 Jun 5, 2013
Thats so sad it makes my tears fall
BuM

Medina, OH

#5757 Jun 9, 2013
My distant s scared t on have a penis inside of hurt front bum. Wht do she do.
Taytay

Oklahoma City, OK

#5758 Jun 9, 2013
My first time hurt like shit. But I guess it depends on how big the guy is.
yoyoyoy

UK

#5759 Jun 10, 2013
I've been with my boyfriend for about 5months now, we've done things before...but never sex, his asked me about sex before but I didn't know what to say because I'm worried about the pain!
curious girl

Edinburg, TX

#5760 Jun 11, 2013
Daniel Garcia wrote:
My first time I made a home maade porno it was great it lasted about 3 hours I was 14 and the girl was 16 it was the best till this day I still have the porno hmu if u want to see it ;p
Can I watch it??
Rachel --

Indianapolis, IN

#5761 Jun 11, 2013
Well I never had sex but I'm scared to thoe!!!:((
Rachel --

Indianapolis, IN

#5762 Jun 11, 2013
Amy wrote:
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Lol faceslam thats right honey dont do it you're too young wait alittle longer okay?
Wow :))
Rachel --

Indianapolis, IN

#5763 Jun 11, 2013
awefrdd wrote:
It didn't hurt me at all, I just felt a lot of pressure. But my boyfriend had fingered me for a while beforehand so I was used to having things inside of me.
The second time hurt much worse for some reason!
If anyone can tell me why, I would appreciate it.
Did I fell whird when he fingered u or did it hurt?
Rachel --

Indianapolis, IN

#5764 Jun 11, 2013
yoyoyoy wrote:
I've been with my boyfriend for about 5months now, we've done things before...but never sex, his asked me about sex before but I didn't know what to say because I'm worried about the pain!
Things like what?
Rachel --

Indianapolis, IN

#5765 Jun 11, 2013
TheUnknownChic wrote:
Many women are afraid of the pain that they worry they will have when their hymen is stretched open during the first time they have vaginal intercourse with a man. I lost my virginity when I was 11 to a 17 year old but I wasn't a slut or anything but it just happened and it was so pleasuring!
Did it hurt at all?
Nolongerpure

Nottingham, UK

#5766 Jun 11, 2013
I had sex with my boyfriend of 2 months, it did not hurt at all when he put it in, it only began to feel a bit painful when he thrusted really deep due to him nearing his orgasm, I think it felt so deep caus his dick is like 8"
Nolongerpure

Nottingham, UK

#5767 Jun 11, 2013
natalie wrote:
hey i really wanted to know if it hurts, i am 15 my bf is 25 he has expiriance in sex.It will be my first time.is their something i can do for me not to hurt?
Hey, the thing is not to worry and only do it if you feel completely sure its what you want, have loads of foreplay - kissing, caressing, possibly fingering, use lube if you have any if not don't worry. When he begins to put it in totally relax and it will fit. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but if it does it will only be for a short while. Use a condom, I didn't and now am 3 months pregnant age 16 from my first time baby Tyler, i'm still with the father though, if at any point you want to stop, just tell him or have a safe word, good luck :*
Nolongerpure

Nottingham, UK

#5768 Jun 11, 2013
ZVG wrote:
I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for a year now,.. We are both virgins and I'm nervous too do it cause I think it will hurt too much...... Any advice??
Hey, only do it if you are sure its what you want but you two sound serious, if you are too nervous your vaginal muscles will tighten up and it will hurt a lot when he tries to penetrate you, do lots of foreplay, use lube if you have any, relax as he tries to put it in and it will fit, at 15 his dick is no way gonna be to big no offence meant, use a condom as I didn't and now am 3 months pregnant with my son Tyler, I was stupid not to use a condom but Tyler was never getting aborted, anyway good luck and remember relax and if you want to stop mid sex your boyfriend should respect you :*
Srsly

Cumming, GA

#5769 Jun 13, 2013
Missi_girl wrote:
I'm 15 yrs old and still a virgin. I was hoping to have sex when i got married but after hearing how painful it is for women...I probably won't ever have sex
Omg! Me too! Dude, I'm scared as crap to have sex! I hear all the time how it hurts and it's like, "Bro, really? If sex is supposed to be pleasurable, why in the world does it hurt so God damn much?!" Ughhh no sex for me. EVER!
Srsly

Cumming, GA

#5770 Jun 13, 2013
I'm 15, a girl, a virgin of course. Well there is this guy, my ex boyfriend, and there's this thing called Warped Tour coming up and he keeps saying that he's going to try having sex with me while we're there. I'm scared as fuck and don't want to do it any time soon! Basically it would be considered rape, and I'm not good at fighting back! He always gets what he wants and I'm just terrified to even go to WT, I've been looking forward to it all year long, and I'm probably won't be going just because of a dumb ass rapist.
araf

Oman

#5771 Jun 13, 2013
sex good
blueeeee22

Memphis, TN

#5772 Jun 13, 2013
well , this will be my first time & I'm like soooo nervous . idk what be ready for . I haven't got fingered . He wanna just stick it right in . would this hurt worse ?

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