Sex is easy. Loving is hard.

Sex is easy. Loving is hard.

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HHC

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#1 Sep 30, 2011
To true, love requires much trust and respect. In turn, requires honest and mutual respect.

HHC

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#2 Sep 30, 2011
*honesty

“Les = 'Les'bian = Gay = Me ^.^”

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#3 Sep 30, 2011
neither is hard when you find the right person for you

ive been with the same girl for 6 years
loving is easy
its finding the right person for you thats hard
Ilikedtobelicked

Caulfield, Australia

#4 Oct 1, 2011
Sex is pleasureful but love is just painful
I only know to sex

“Les = 'Les'bian = Gay = Me ^.^”

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#5 Oct 1, 2011
Ilikedtobelicked wrote:
Sex is pleasureful but love is just painful
I only know to sex
love is great feeling
sex is great pleasure
love sex is the best thing ever lol

Since: May 11

United States

#6 Oct 1, 2011
id rather do neither, i have a son that was awesome its what love offerd me, and love was good and turned miserable sex is over rated, id rather work and get my son set up for his life, sex is easier i beleive, its very hard to love

“Les = 'Les'bian = Gay = Me ^.^”

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#7 Oct 1, 2011
ryangotblue eyes wrote:
id rather do neither, i have a son that was awesome its what love offerd me, and love was good and turned miserable sex is over rated, id rather work and get my son set up for his life, sex is easier i beleive, its very hard to love
i guess it easier for some people to love than others

Since: May 11

United States

#8 Oct 1, 2011
cookielove1992 wrote:
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i guess it easier for some people to love than others
very much so, u could go to a bar and get a girl drunk and get laid in the same nitd im happy for the ppl that love did work out, i just didnt have the same luck

HHC

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#9 Oct 1, 2011
ryangotblue eyes wrote:
id rather do neither, i have a son that was awesome its what love offerd me, and love was good and turned miserable sex is over rated, id rather work and get my son set up for his life, sex is easier i beleive, its very hard to love
You just ruined this thread!Ty!

HHC

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#10 Oct 1, 2011
ryangotblue eyes wrote:
id rather do neither, i have a son that was awesome its what love offerd me, and love was good and turned miserable sex is over rated, id rather work and get my son set up for his life, sex is easier i beleive, its very hard to love
Maybe I took this the wrong way, so I am sorry if I did. I will ask, so are you having a sexual relationship with your son, or you did? Because that is what I took it as and I find that a bit creepy, so that is why I made my previous comment.

HHC

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#11 Oct 1, 2011
cookielove1992 wrote:
neither is hard when you find the right person for you
ive been with the same girl for 6 years
loving is easy
its finding the right person for you thats hard
That is great you have found true love, I hope it lasts!

“Les = 'Les'bian = Gay = Me ^.^”

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#12 Oct 1, 2011
HHC wrote:
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You just ruined this thread!Ty!
haha well theres always someone

“Life is meant”

Since: Apr 11

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#13 Oct 1, 2011
HHC wrote:
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Maybe I took this the wrong way, so I am sorry if I did. I will ask, so are you having a sexual relationship with your son, or you did? Because that is what I took it as and I find that a bit creepy, so that is why I made my previous comment.
You did take it wrong HHC. He is a divorced single dad who loves his young son very much. You can tell how much he loves him because he mentions him in every post. Ryan will find his true love one day I hope but until then he devotes all his time to his son. I can see how his post could be taken wrong though.

“Life is meant”

Since: Apr 11

to be lived..

#14 Oct 1, 2011
Love shouldn't be as hard as it is for some people. I think the most important factor in a relationship is mutual respect for one another. If you respect someone one accept all their little quirks and do not try to change them but love them unconditionally. I certainly have my quirks that the hubs accepts or chooses to ignore. LOL

Sex is easy with a stranger but with someone you are in love with it becomes the ultimate gift to be cherished.

“Les = 'Les'bian = Gay = Me ^.^”

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#15 Oct 1, 2011
just me alone wrote:
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You did take it wrong HHC. He is a divorced single dad who loves his young son very much. You can tell how much he loves him because he mentions him in every post. Ryan will find his true love one day I hope but until then he devotes all his time to his son. I can see how his post could be taken wrong though.
yea theres someone out there for us all
loving them is east
its finding that person thats hard

Since: May 11

United States

#16 Oct 1, 2011
HHC wrote:
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Maybe I took this the wrong way, so I am sorry if I did. I will ask, so are you having a sexual relationship with your son, or you did? Because that is what I took it as and I find that a bit creepy, so that is why I made my previous comment.
omg no man, i got married and had a good love life that went bad, i was in love, the only good thing i got out of it in the end was a son im a single father now his mother left em

Since: May 11

United States

#17 Oct 1, 2011
just me alone wrote:
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You did take it wrong HHC. He is a divorced single dad who loves his young son very much. You can tell how much he loves him because he mentions him in every post. Ryan will find his true love one day I hope but until then he devotes all his time to his son. I can see how his post could be taken wrong though.
thank you for that, it meant alot,

Since: Jul 11

Desert Hot Springs, CA

#18 Oct 1, 2011
ryangotblue eyes wrote:
<quoted text> very much so, u could go to a bar and get a girl drunk and get laid in the same nitd im happy for the ppl that love did work out, i just didnt have the same luck
Have done this many times. Trouble is, the morning after you make love again and then again. And pretty soon, "she's" in your life. Have had four going on rotating dates and it's not easy. I just love a girl and after making love, I love her. I'm wierd. It's the right mind that can decide when to walk away. And disappear.

“Life is meant”

Since: Apr 11

to be lived..

#19 Oct 1, 2011
ryangotblue eyes wrote:
<quoted text> thank you for that, it meant alot,
Your welcome. HHC meant well. She is a mom like me who has no tolerance for pedos and mistook what you said. Any body who is a friend of Julz is okay in my book.

“Life is meant”

Since: Apr 11

to be lived..

#20 Oct 1, 2011
creamydreams69 wrote:
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Have done this many times. Trouble is, the morning after you make love again and then again. And pretty soon, "she's" in your life. Have had four going on rotating dates and it's not easy. I just love a girl and after making love, I love her. I'm wierd. It's the right mind that can decide when to walk away. And disappear.
Hey there B. Haven't heard from you in a while. Still having some warm weather in your part of the US I'm sure. I'll trade you today. Very windy and cool. I can't get warm today.

You are not weird either. You are old fashioned and I wish there weer more gentlemen like you still out there.:)

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