was my ex girlfriend a secret swinger?

was my ex girlfriend a secret swinger?

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Ed P

Denver, CO

#1 Jun 27, 2013
I dated this woman for a couple years. On one of our first dates i made a joke that a local place we were talking about was probably once a local swinger spot in the 80's. She immediately shared a story that she had been propositioned by a couple and my reaction wasnt open when i look back on it. At another time she explained that she didn't like watching porn. But she shared a story where she was asked to bring a movie for a group of adults to watch at a party. She picked a movie off of a shelf at blockbuster, and when she put it in at the party she was shocked that it was an erotic movie. I told her that was interesting. Later on towards the end of our relationship somehow the conversation turned in a different direction and she told me that one of the canditates on the ballot was a known swinger. She also shared specific scenes from hollywood films that eluded to group encounters. One such time was after while watching twighlight she claimed she had seen jackson rathbone in a previous movie where there was a group sex scene. I checked on the internet and found no proof of this, so maybe she had the wrong actor or she made this up, but it was a reference to a group sex scene. Another such a scene that she referenced was the rape scene in rosemarys baby and it was interesting to her but i can't remember the actual context of the conversation now.

We are now very distant but i am trying to become a friend of her again, and i wish i could have been more curious with statements she made. I know swingers usually keep their lifestyle on the quiet, but do you think these things i've mentioned add up to her potentially once being or being a swinger? Is there a way to be able to get her to reveal it now that the relationship is very distant and no longer intimate, or if the relationship continues what things could i say to show her that i might be interested? i really would have liked to participate or participate in the future. WHat can i do... and i only feel comfortable with her

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