You are bending over backward to embarrass yourself. You speak with forked tongue. You articulate a reasonable assessment and then betray yourself through embarrassing innuendo about gay male stereotypes.<quoted text>
Plenty of masculine people are intelligent and sophisticated...without an effeminate sense of style.
Now this obvious fact make people think that you're just needlessly making yourself look foolish. And for what? To deny an obvious point that doesn't even threaten your ideology? That is not an intelligent thing to do.
You canít have it both ways. Itís contradictory to try and looks foolish.