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Patrice

Corpus Christi, TX

#348 Jul 8, 2012
I'm 16 years old. There is this guy that i like. I want to get to know him before worrying about a relationship. I like how he is around his friends and mine. He knows i like him and i catch him looking at me all the time. My friends even asked him if he liked me and he said maybe(that was months ago). And about a month or two ago he agreed to one of my friends that i am adorable. The only really big problem with the entire situation is that we are both shy. I'm only shy with him(NOW!!!). But he is the big problem he is crazy shy. I have known him for months and i can barely get a hi out of him. I have tried so hard to talk to him which is a big stretch for me because i used to be so shy it took me weeks to talk to people. I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

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#349 Jul 8, 2012
Patrice wrote:
I'm 16 years old. There is this guy that i like. I want to get to know him before worrying about a relationship. I like how he is around his friends and mine. He knows i like him and i catch him looking at me all the time. My friends even asked him if he liked me and he said maybe(that was months ago). And about a month or two ago he agreed to one of my friends that i am adorable. The only really big problem with the entire situation is that we are both shy. I'm only shy with him(NOW!!!). But he is the big problem he is crazy shy. I have known him for months and i can barely get a hi out of him. I have tried so hard to talk to him which is a big stretch for me because i used to be so shy it took me weeks to talk to people. I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!
There wouldn't be any future for both of you if you two are too shy to make the first move. It's better to be good friends with a guy before asking him out, talk to him more often. Then when the right time comes, ask him out.
Sam

Anderson, SC

#350 Jul 13, 2012
Ok so I really like this guy but there's this other girl who likes him too. She's EXACTLY LIKE ME and it's the creepiest thing. We both play tennis and soccer and we both have a lot in common. SOS
Helpless and hopeless

United States

#351 Sep 9, 2012
Ok so I am in high school and I have liked a guy for a looooooooonnnggg time. He asked me out in middle school but I didn't say anything back cause I didn't want a boyfriend then. I went to homecoming with him last year and now he talks to my best friend all the time. The first casual dance was like a month ago and he dance with her the whole time... Im really confused cause I still don't feel like I'm over him and I've never liked anyone else and I dont want this to make it awk between my 2 best friends Advice???
Sam

Anderson, SC

#352 Sep 14, 2012
Helpless and hopeless wrote:
Ok so I am in high school and I have liked a guy for a looooooooonnnggg time. He asked me out in middle school but I didn't say anything back cause I didn't want a boyfriend then. I went to homecoming with him last year and now he talks to my best friend all the time. The first casual dance was like a month ago and he dance with her the whole time... Im really confused cause I still don't feel like I'm over him and I've never liked anyone else and I dont want this to make it awk between my 2 best friends Advice???


R they dating or just friends??
If they're dating I'm afraid you cant do anything really.
BUT
If they're just friends, talk to you BFF about it. Ask her if it would be ok if you asked your guy friend out. The last thing you want to do is get into a HUGE fight with your best friend(s).
If she's cool with it, ask him out!!!
If not... Well... Friendships always prevail, right?
Yay!
Don't worry: your not helpless and hopeless.
Hope it works out for u!

Hope this helps!!
julia

Dallas, TX

#353 Sep 15, 2012
im sooo lost i have no idea what to do!!! ok so my best friend told me that this guy i really like likes me so i let it pass for a couple days to try to figure it out on my own well i thought he did to because he was acting like he liked me a lot ive been talking to him for nearly a year now and ive liked him for a while hes soooo sweet and everything and hes never like texted me or talked to me like he is now he is acting so sweet if he is getting together with a group of friends to go to a football game or jump street or something he always invites me and tells me to invite all my friends or something and so i do and when he gets there hes always texting me when r u coming??? im just like soon(: y? and he just say just wondering with a little winkie face or something so i told him i needed to ask him something and he was like go for it so i asked him if he really did like me in my own way and he said i don't. and im just like ok ): but i have a feeling hes lying to me because he doesent want me to know because his best friend is always saying someone likes u!!!(his best friend is also one of my best guy friends i tell anything to and i met him before we even met) idk what to do i just really want to know the truth and idk what to do plllleeeeaaaassseee HELP!!!!!!
julia

Dallas, TX

#354 Sep 15, 2012
Sam wrote:
<quoted text>
R they dating or just friends??
If they're dating I'm afraid you cant do anything really.
BUT
If they're just friends, talk to you BFF about it. Ask her if it would be ok if you asked your guy friend out. The last thing you want to do is get into a HUGE fight with your best friend(s).
If she's cool with it, ask him out!!!
If not... Well... Friendships always prevail, right?
Yay!
Don't worry: your not helpless and hopeless.
Hope it works out for u!
Hope this helps!!
ok hold on...
NEVER SHOULD THE GIRL ASK THE GUY OUT FIRST!!!
and yes... talk to your best friend that he always hangs out with and make sure its cool she doesent like him and make sure she KNOWS tht you have liked him for a while!!!
but if they r dating there is absolutely nothing u can do...
if they aren't...
try to get him to notice you talk to him
BUT: dont be one of those annoying girls who doesent give space!
one thing i hate the most and most people do... is that u dont give them space !!
make sure u give him space nut also make sure that u spend time with him make him figure out that u like him and dont tell him!! let him tell u!!
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!(((:
julia

Dallas, TX

#355 Sep 15, 2012
Helpless and hopeless wrote:
Ok so I am in high school and I have liked a guy for a looooooooonnnggg time. He asked me out in middle school but I didn't say anything back cause I didn't want a boyfriend then. I went to homecoming with him last year and now he talks to my best friend all the time. The first casual dance was like a month ago and he dance with her the whole time... Im really confused cause I still don't feel like I'm over him and I've never liked anyone else and I dont want this to make it awk between my 2 best friends Advice???
ok hold on...
NEVER SHOULD THE GIRL ASK THE GUY OUT FIRST!!!
and yes... talk to your best friend that he always hangs out with and make sure its cool she doesent like him and make sure she KNOWS tht you have liked him for a while!!!
but if they r dating there is absolutely nothing u can do...
if they aren't...
try to get him to notice you talk to him
BUT: dont be one of those annoying girls who doesent give space!
one thing i hate the most and most people do... is that u dont give them space !!
make sure u give him space nut also make sure that u spend time with him make him figure out that u like him and dont tell him!! let him tell u!!
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!(((
julia

Dallas, TX

#356 Sep 15, 2012
Patrice wrote:
I'm 16 years old. There is this guy that i like. I want to get to know him before worrying about a relationship. I like how he is around his friends and mine. He knows i like him and i catch him looking at me all the time. My friends even asked him if he liked me and he said maybe(that was months ago). And about a month or two ago he agreed to one of my friends that i am adorable. The only really big problem with the entire situation is that we are both shy. I'm only shy with him(NOW!!!). But he is the big problem he is crazy shy. I have known him for months and i can barely get a hi out of him. I have tried so hard to talk to him which is a big stretch for me because i used to be so shy it took me weeks to talk to people. I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!
ok ummm well this is exactly me because thats exactly my situation...
but u HAVE TO TALK TO HIM!!!
or you guys will get nowhere in your relationship!!!
say hi text him do everything you can even if its out of your comfort zone to talk to him!!
and talk to him get to know him waaaayyy more before u guys just jump into a relationship!!
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
Sam

Anderson, SC

#357 Sep 15, 2012
julia wrote:
im sooo lost i have no idea what to do!!! ok so my best friend told me that this guy i really like likes me so i let it pass for a couple days to try to figure it out on my own well i thought he did to because he was acting like he liked me a lot ive been talking to him for nearly a year now and ive liked him for a while hes soooo sweet and everything and hes never like texted me or talked to me like he is now he is acting so sweet if he is getting together with a group of friends to go to a football game or jump street or something he always invites me and tells me to invite all my friends or something and so i do and when he gets there hes always texting me when r u coming??? im just like soon(: y? and he just say just wondering with a little winkie face or something so i told him i needed to ask him something and he was like go for it so i asked him if he really did like me in my own way and he said i don't. and im just like ok ): but i have a feeling hes lying to me because he doesent want me to know because his best friend is always saying someone likes u!!!(his best friend is also one of my best guy friends i tell anything to and i met him before we even met) idk what to do i just really want to know the truth and idk what to do plllleeeeaaaassseee HELP!!!!!!
OOOKAYYYYY
That was a lot of words. Um I think your tryig to figure out if this guy lIkess you, right?
YeAh that sounds right.
Ok
I think you need to get the facts straight. Ask a friend if he/she will ask the guy you like what he thinks of u. Or u could ask YOurself. Doesn't matter. Hope this helps! Good luck
Sam

Anderson, SC

#358 Sep 15, 2012
Sam wrote:
<quoted text>
OOOKAYYYYY
That was a lot of words. Um I think your tryig to figure out if this guy lIkess you, right?
YeAh that sounds right.
Ok
I think you need to get the facts straight. Ask a friend if he/she will ask the guy you like what he thinks of u. Or u could ask YOurself. Doesn't matter. Hope this helps! Good luck
And if u could check out my dilemma on this page that would be super awesome!!!!
YOLO-

Bridgeport, TX

#359 Sep 17, 2012
Okay so there is this complete hottie, well I dont know what to do. The thing is I asked him to a date party because hes so cute and id love to get to know him better, but how do I know if he even likes me? The first night I met him was over the summer at a party, he was all over a girl until I walked in and then we had a whole convo, he walked me home and we hugged. I added him on fb like a week later to say thanks. Then I have seen him here or there with an occasional hug and hello, he is always chitter chatting with other girls. Keep in mind I had being seeing one of his brothers since like late July until mid august, not real brothers and it a nothng just a date. WEll then the other night we two stepped at a party and so I decided Id ask him. He said yes, but then he didn speak. One of his brothers said its cause most of their guys are intimidated by me because im so pretty, but I dont know if I buy that... like yeah I am pretty, but so are tons of other girls. What hould I do to make things progress?
Sam

Anderson, SC

#360 Sep 23, 2012
YOLO- wrote:
Okay so there is this complete hottie, well I dont know what to do. The thing is I asked him to a date party because hes so cute and id love to get to know him better, but how do I know if he even likes me? The first night I met him was over the summer at a party, he was all over a girl until I walked in and then we had a whole convo, he walked me home and we hugged. I added him on fb like a week later to say thanks. Then I have seen him here or there with an occasional hug and hello, he is always chitter chatting with other girls. Keep in mind I had being seeing one of his brothers since like late July until mid august, not real brothers and it a nothng just a date. WEll then the other night we two stepped at a party and so I decided Id ask him. He said yes, but then he didn speak. One of his brothers said its cause most of their guys are intimidated by me because im so pretty, but I dont know if I buy that... like yeah I am pretty, but so are tons of other girls. What hould I do to make things progress?
Ok you kept saying he was always talking with other girls and stuff and if that is the case I have to tell you something: watch out. If you it's start going out or something watch out. If he WAS hanging out with other girls, he's probably STILL hanging out with other girls. I don't want anybody to get hurt(emotionally). My suggestion: get to know him as a friend. Just ignore the fact that he's cute... For now. But don't rush into anything or be pushy. Relationships take time.
shhhhhyeahhh
#361 Oct 6, 2012
Well this boy was my first real boyfriend....we dated off and on for about 3 yrs...then just called it quits about 4 yrs ago. But the other night I was at a school dance...& he asked me to "slow dance" with him. We danced & we haven't spoken since. But it brought back feelings for him...I still like him..but I don't know if he likes me. How do I recognize that he does like me or not? If he does how should I go about like really talking to him again?
Ashley Watson

Plano, TX

#362 Oct 7, 2012
There is this guy that I am best friends with. He always claims that we are besties and all that, but when there's other people around, it seems like I don't really matter that much. Every time I try to talk to him about something that's going on, he kinda looks like he's ignoring it. :( Than there's the fact that we fight like every other day over the stupidest reasons, than he suddenly gets over it whenever he wants to get over it. Sometimes he can be the biggest jerk ever. I wanna stay friends with him forever, but I don't know, just..ugh. lol
Ashley Watson

Plano, TX

#363 Oct 7, 2012
Oh yeah, and there's always these rumors going around that he's gay. But, I know he's not, but he always hangs out with girls, and has like 5 guy friends. How do I let him know that if someone is saying crap he can tell me about it?
TisharyLee

Kowloon, Hong Kong

#364 Oct 26, 2012
Hey, I really need your help on this one, I need advice! Okay, so there's this guy who I like, i met him a few weeks ago, but yet, I really really do like him. We've been hanging out a lot, and he would do these flirty things with me, like tickle me and hold me by my waist and stuff...I really really like him, but as of now, I really don't know how he feels about me...he's not doing anything, put it that way...it's always me who's trying to make an effort to get to know him and hang with him and stuff. So naturally, I asked his friends to ask for me, well according to them, he said that if he did had to date someone, he'll pick me over any other girl out there....but he told his friends he's not looking for a relationship right now...I really don't know how to feel right now, I think he kind of knows how I feel about him, I went to see him yesterday, and he wasn't as touchy as he was before, he was different....he's leaving school in a month, and I really don't know how to feel now, what should I do, i'm not the outgoing and forward type, so I definitely won't talk to him, and I don't want things to be weird between us...oh please help me...anyone out there...what should I do...I really like this guy....
Taylor

Oregon City, OR

#365 Nov 2, 2012
So I like this guy, I asked him to dance with me at a school dance and he said yes, but I have only talked to him a little bit since. He's kinda shy, but do you think he likes me or was just being nice?
ConfusedGirly

United States

#366 Dec 10, 2012
So I started talking to this guy around July. We hit it off right away. We have do much in common and we never argued at all. I started to notice the didn't want to make things official right away. I later found out he's still in love with his ex of 2 years and he is quite indecisive when it comes to women. He left what we had for another different girl in August and they dated for about 2 months. After they were broken up we started talking again and the sparks flew like they never left. We decided about a week later that it might be smarter just to be friends for the time being. Ever since then we have been hanging out for like 2 months now and he is literally my best friend. We had a heart to heart the other night and he told me that he loved me. He doesn't say that to very many girls. I do love this guy very much and I am willing to do anything to make it work. I think he knows that too. He knows I won't leave. He basically said we're unofficially dating(without the bf/gf label). He talks about his ex sometimes and that bothers me. She is not a good person and definitely not good for him. He makes me feel really special sometimes and other days I feel like I don't exist. My question is if I should keep trying to make things work? Or should I let things go and just be friends with him? I don't want to give up because he means the world to me, but if I'm going to get hurt, I might as well back off now. PLEASE HELP!
Danielle

Venetia, PA

#367 Dec 10, 2012
So I broke up with my (ex) boyfriend in August we dated for 5 months . I managed to avoid him for about 4 months. But now those feelings are back and I haven't date since but I've talked to a couple guys. Guess I haven't found someone to make me feel better and more alive . My question is do I tell him how I feel or keep lying to my self and keeping him in the dark?

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