Adultery at the Copper Basin YMCA

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Disgusted

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Isn't it amazing that a Christian based organization doesn't seem to care that 2 of its directors are having an affair with one another. Now that's promoting the YMCA's "vision of building strong kids, strong families and strong communities." This is not rumor, its real. And the director of the Y knows about it and appears to be turning the other cheek. Two families have been ruined. And they want us to spend our money and send our children there. What are they teaching?
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He who has not sinned, cast the first stone... You, Ms. or Mr. Disgusted are an evil judgemental hypocrite! You are not God--- you are not judge---you are not jury. It isn't your place to point the finger at others. How dare you post private details about someone elses personal life. You make me sick!
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I agree with Disgusted that it isn't a very good example the Y is setting. But I also agree with Offended. Its not your place to be "GOD" unless you've never sinned and you can walk on water also.

Its not right what the Y is letting go on. But I'm sure it'll be dealt with.

How would you like it if someone let out something you did in your past, present, or future...none of us can claim to be perfect...if you are, your full of it.
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Well said "Not Perfect"!
Andrea

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I dont think this qualifies as a public service announcement.

I think "disgusted" has a right to judge and I hope that you spend your money elsewhere. That being said I dont think more people knowing is going to rectify the problem. Like you said...Two families have already been destroyed.
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I never said I was perfect. I was pointing out the hypocrisy of the Y's mission compared to their actions. Now speaking of judging...everyone does it..as you all have now done it to me. Are any of you regestered to vote? What will you do when you are called to jury duty? Refuse to go because you are not perfect? Let that sex offender, murderer, abusive spouse walk free for who are we to "judge"?

By the way, upper Y management finally stepped in and fired both of them.
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And before you point it out, sorry I did not proofread.....*registered.
Disgusted

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Offended by Disgusted wrote:
He who has not sinned, cast the first stone... You, Ms. or Mr. Disgusted are an evil judgemental hypocrite! You are not God--- you are not judge---you are not jury. It isn't your place to point the finger at others. How dare you post private details about someone elses personal life. You make me sick!
LOL. I did not name names nor did I get personal. I only posted what was plain to see if you live in this community and attend the Y. You would be astonished and "disgusted" if you knew the "personal" details of the situation.
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Like this story I was also deeply hurt by one of the trained staff members that works at the Copper Basin Y. A married staff lady was activly seeing a person who I was deeply in love with and I have been with for quite some time. When I confronted this individual she was horribly mean about it and threatend to ban me from using the Y indefinately. I dont think the staff represents the motto that the Y stands for at all and they need to rethink how the staff is trained to treat the public that it is serving.
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Married people that cheat should be punished! THey have no morals.
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They both got canned.
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Some folks believe that people who live together when they are not married are immoral.
I think that when you stay with someone you don't love, and who probably doesn't love you back, well, that's immoral too.
Never any shortage of immoral.

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Baloney and cheese! Is good, I'm hungry!
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Well, I am one of those Directors and I have to say that when things are not your business to speak on YOU SHOULDNT. PEOPLE who gossip and feel the need to talk about others when they have their own skeletons in their closets that need to be sorted out really shouldnt point fingers. I know for a fact a few people who stuck their noses in my business have quite a few skeletons and one in mind is MORMON, and drinks and CHEATED...but then tried to act like little miss houswife again....NO one is perfect and mistakes do happen. No one has the right to judge my personal life or how it ended up. No one knows what happens in other peoples lives or marriages....Wrong or right....everyone else needs to get a life....most people who talk are just jealous. Not everyone can have love in their life....but I do. And before you comment on a story get it RIGHT.....WE WERE NOT CANNED/ FIRED/ LET GO...any way you put it it is wrong. WE QUIT.....we didn't want to work in a community where people felt the need to talk about your life on a daily basis....When in all actuality...YOU ALL HAD THE STORY WRONG....but I dont care anymore...I feel sorry for people who are that bored with their lives that go to the Y and gossip because your own life SUCKS....Why dont you FAT ASSES try working out and get rid of all that negative energy you possess.
Thanks and you all have a great day....
Dony open your mouths until your stories ar2868e straight in the future....
Former Director

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I have NOTICED that "Disgusted" doesn't have a life.........That is the whole problem....
GET ONE and stay out of mine
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I would never say I have lived a sinless life, but I think former director, if innocent, should document his side - if it has been so misrepresented. While you don't owe it appears you quit based on your values, and if that is the case you should set the record straight. We had a similiar situation in our company. The facts were never communicated and one of our senior managers were fired. While I have always supported that person, the truth has never been shared - so rumors are beleived true. Director, you have to remember, especially in management, perception is reality. If the perception is your guilty than that is true unless / until you set the record straight with your side.

Regardless, personally I think god will take care of the cheats. I do not think people jobs should be effected by things that happen outside the office. Everyone is so damn sensitive, and the political correctness is out of control.

Director, I am sorry you job was effect. I would like to hear your side. But you have to respect the opinion of others and disgusted makes very good points about his and others purchasing decisions.

No one made me judge or jury, but if they did. While I would agree with Digusted, I would have a hard time as a Sr. Manager firing an employee unless the sex acts were in the building or effecting productivity.
Former Director

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It is useless to me to have to argue MY personal side with the public. People can walk around if they wish and act like they know my personal side of what happened. To me, people like that have no life and they have to create drama. No one has the right to judge me, good or bad. My work was NEVER involved. I never brought anything to my workplace. This all came about because of just plain nosey people who felt the need to worry about what was happening in my life and I shouldnt have to constantly defend myself...it has been 9 months for crying out loud and people still find my life interesting...WHY???
So as I appreciate that you actually are a decent person and appreciate your response... I still think it is insane that people can be so bold and talk about others when in fact their own life is in shambles....looking forward to hearing back from you....Everyone who wants to keep the christian talk going and reminding me that God will take care of me....well that is true God is the ONLY one that could judge me.....all the other people who say they are christian are Hippocrites....everyone else needs to put themselves on the chopping block...no one is perfect...I never claimed to be....but things happen and in the end if we want to keep bringing religion into this...in the end I only have to answer to god....not Queen Creek. So I feel pretty damn special that people still are facinated by what I am doing on a daily basis. I am still best friends with the Executive and that is no ones business either...My work was never effected.
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Anymore Takers????
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Former Director wrote:
Anymore Takers????
Bravo to you! I commend you and your comments. Stay true to your heart!!

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