Bed-wetting blues: Millions of adults...

Bed-wetting blues: Millions of adults suffer, too

There are 147 comments on the MSNBC story from Feb 19, 2009, titled Bed-wetting blues: Millions of adults suffer, too. In it, MSNBC reports that:

Some people wet the bed. Cynthia MacGregor wet her boyfriend. "I was in bed with my then-boyfriend, one leg over his leg and I woke up and found myself peeing on him," says 65-year-old MacGregor, a freelance ...

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dean10

Brentwood, UK

#82 Apr 4, 2012
Hi Feti, im not 2 bad but DR coming in 2morow and if no better i will hav 2 go in2 hospital. i hav neumonia again but hope i can stay here but they say the nurses cant cope wiv me over the Easter weekend.
as 4 ur visit 2 grand rents, when is it but y no u cant wet there bed dont u. that is wrong and if they dont understand then they r not worthy of the name of grandparents. u must start 2 thing about telling ur rents about this problem. if i can help i will as u no but i mite hav 2 go away 4 a while.
been in bed all day and got through 4 nappies so far.

by my friend Dean.

“you can call me Blake”

Since: Jan 12

luton

#83 Apr 4, 2012
isn't neumonia caused by extreme cold. like fot example being naked in the north pole.

thanks for the advice. but yeah i would your advice on how i should tell them as am unsure how they will take it. i am scared they will get cross and tell me to stop being such a baby and grow up.

HELP ME PLEASE?

feti boy
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dean10

Brentwood, UK

#84 Apr 5, 2012
yep normally cold dose it but i keep gettin infectiond bcuss i have ne osofigus so my spit goes in2 a bag on the side of my neck. they turned my ffed pipe and brought it out the side of my neck if not my spit goes in2 my lungs and gives mt assperation pneumonia which is wat i keep gettin.
no fun and i am gettin so fed up wiv this constant illness and lack of mobility.
i realy am gettin down and not no if i can fight on wiv it all much longer.
bein on hear and fillin my nappies r the only pleasure left 4 me now.
sorry i seen so down but i do not feel so good at the moment but i think i am a bit better and still in my care home and not horible hospital.
strong antiboiocticks again.

as 4 ur situ, i think wiv the upcommin visit 2 granparerents y must talk 2 them. look back at they way i told u 2 approach them and if they dont understand then if u go 2 G rents and wee u tell them u asked rents and tey said no so its their fault. then 2 get back at ur rents 4 bein so crule wee on their carpet one day. that should get u the diapers u need.

ido hope this helps, ur friend dean.
dean10

Brentwood, UK

#85 Apr 5, 2012
sorry Feti, u sent me a email wiv nothing writen on it did u want any photos and if so wat type?
Dean.

“you can call me Blake”

Since: Jan 12

luton

#86 Apr 5, 2012
i only sent the e-mail to say hi and hope you wre gettinf better as its not nce to be ill no matter what the illness is. although some are more serious thatn others. but again thanks for the advice. i dont think the weeing on the carpet will work as some of my cousins still do that. my grand parents will probably think it was one of them that did it and punsih them for it which is wrong.

feti boy
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dean10

Brentwood, UK

#87 Apr 5, 2012
feti boy wrote:
i only sent the e-mail to say hi and hope you wre gettinf better as its not nce to be ill no matter what the illness is. although some are more serious thatn others. but again thanks for the advice. i dont think the weeing on the carpet will work as some of my cousins still do that. my grand parents will probably think it was one of them that did it and punsih them for it which is wrong.
feti boy
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well tell them it was u and show them ur wet pants. then say u hav been weein ur bed as well and need help to tell ur mum, they will take over and tell ho worried u r and how serious it is as u cant keep weein round other ppl's so u will get diaper to cover any embaressmet of ur rents.

if u want diaper then u must get serious and wee ur self in public with them. that should do it or if u cant bring ur self to do that then when u r is their car wee on the seat.
they wont put up wiv a smelly car 4 long.

good luck and i am feelin a bit better.

Dean.

“you can call me Blake”

Since: Jan 12

luton

#88 Apr 5, 2012
i cant do it on purporse but it could happen by accident. one more thing they are very old fashioned. they bilieve that bedwetting is a sin after a certain age as they are very religeous people. they would ppunsih me for it. the last time i peed myself by accident over there house they paraded me around the house telling everyone whata baby i am. they treated me like one all the rest of the time i was there. they went the whole nine yards and told me if it happened again they would make me stand in the corner of the room all day long.
james kulp

United States

#89 Apr 9, 2012
hi my name is (james kulp.) and i am a 27 year old adult male and i am an adult bedwetter and i have to wear adult diapers every night for my adult bedwetting i am so very sad about it because i can not spend the night at any of my friends houses because i am so worried about my friends finding out about my adult bedwetting and my adult diapers to.
Embarrassed

Edmonton, Canada

#90 Apr 18, 2012
I'm a 27 year old bedwetter who also has day time accidents. My fiencee recently forced me to wear diapers to bed and around the house.
Due to my frequency of accidents.
Been to the doctors and they say I just have to live with it.
It's so humiliating being put back in diapers. And still don't know how to deal with it. It emotionally draining!!
Any words of advice?

“Diisabled 19 year old male”

Since: Aug 10

Ipswich

#91 Apr 19, 2012
Embarrassed wrote:
I'm a 27 year old bedwetter who also has day time accidents. My fiencee recently forced me to wear diapers to bed and around the house.
Due to my frequency of accidents.
Been to the doctors and they say I just have to live with it.
It's so humiliating being put back in diapers. And still don't know how to deal with it. It emotionally draining!!
Any words of advice?
Hi, I write to both u and James.

wat u r experiencing is not a pleasent thing and medical advice shoud b taken but if they hav no reason 4 it then u must b sencerble about wat is hapening and think rationally about it.
Would u let a child run around the house or go 2 bed without protection, no i dont think so as the results r 2 bad 2 think about.
think of others that have 2 share ur world, not pleasent 4 them or u so protection is the answer untill it resolves its self or dosnt.
Whatever happens u will wear protection 2 keep ur room fit 4 others and ur bed fit 2 sleep in.
A nappy is just another type of underwear, just that u need a nappy dose not mean u r a baby but u have a little problem.
I know u might not think it is a little problem but there r ppl out there with cancer, blind, paralised or mental disabilities. they have problems.
Bedwetting falls way down the list when u thing about these ppl so its not the end of the earth and u can have a normal life with just a few aditions to help u cope.
u true friends will accept u 4 u and not wat u have 2 wear.
Trus me, i know as ive been in nappies 4 18 years.
Get on with ur lives and do well in all u do my friends.
There rmany on here 2 help if we can so keep in touch.
Hope this helps.
Dean.

Since: Apr 12

Saint Louis, MO

#92 Jun 26, 2012
James:
Unless you are sleeping with your friends I don't see what the big deal is about sleep overs. Anybody can hide their [L=http://www.theincontinences tore.com/site/999468/page/4496 09]adult diapers[/L], by just getting dressed in your nappie right before bed and take it off and put it in a plastic back with the rest of your stuff in the morning. You can keep your secret for years unless there is a huge fire in the middle of the night.

Since: Mar 12

Australia

#93 Jun 27, 2012
Terry wrote:
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There is no shame in being a bedwetter, I for one have never stopped wetting the bed, Im in my early 60's now.
To manage my bedwetting I wear nappies and plastic pants to bed, done it all my life. I also wear nappies for long car trips(saves on a lot of potty stops)
i also am your age and wear nappies and plastic pants to bed never have a wet bed except if i wear snap on plastics sometimes leak a bit if im on my side and wet alot otherwise no problems

Since: Mar 12

Australia

#94 Jun 27, 2012
billy wrote:
I to still wett the bed at 30.I started about 22,I wear depend disp in the day and tena maxi at nite,i too felt ashamed it took a year or too to get over.but i gess its just a fact of lifes fun jurnneys.
i live in brisbane if you want to talk gmail [email protected]
Big baby

UK

#96 Feb 15, 2013
Hello every one iam new on here i wear a terry nappy and plastic pants do ladies wear nappys or wud a lady like to baby me i wud luv a lady to put a nappy on me and force to wet my nappy iam also after rubber baby pants dont mind if they are pink as sumtimes i dream of being a baby girl dressed all in pvc or a pvc babygrow ladies my numb is 07807924143 thank you baby steve
james gregory kulp

Philadelphia, PA

#97 Feb 15, 2013
i am an adult bedwetter and i wear adult diapers every night for my bedwetting problem.
Steve

Bournemouth, UK

#98 Feb 15, 2013
james gregory kulp wrote:
i am an adult bedwetter and i wear adult diapers every night for my bedwetting problem.
So do I but I have long since stopped worrying about being a bedwetter. It is only a problem if you make it one.
Steve

Bournemouth, UK

#99 Feb 15, 2013
Embarrassed wrote:
I'm a 27 year old bedwetter who also has day time accidents. My fiencee recently forced me to wear diapers to bed and around the house.
Due to my frequency of accidents.
Been to the doctors and they say I just have to live with it.
It's so humiliating being put back in diapers. And still don't know how to deal with it. It emotionally draining!!
Any words of advice?
My advice is to accept it and get on with life. Bedwetting just isn't a big deal. I wet most nights and wear nappies. My Doctor knows all about my bedwetting and agree's with me if I am managing it then just get on with life. I do see the continence advisor now and then but only as a formality because my medical notes say I am enuretic.
Steve

Bournemouth, UK

#100 Feb 15, 2013
james kulp wrote:
hi my name is (james kulp.) and i am a 27 year old adult male and i am an adult bedwetter and i have to wear adult diapers every night for my adult bedwetting i am so very sad about it because i can not spend the night at any of my friends houses because i am so worried about my friends finding out about my adult bedwetting and my adult diapers to.
I thinkit is harder when you are in your teens or 20's and still a bedwetter. As you get older it becomes less of a problem. I don't know whether my friends know I still wet the bed, they certainly did as I was growing up and most were cool with it. I did get teased as a kid like most bedwetters do but eventually it was just accepted by friends and family that I wet the bed and probably always would. I don't especially hide it but apart from sites like theseI don't broadcast it either. Having said that I live alone and my terry nappies, bed sheets and plastic pants are often on theline drying so my neighbours must know I wet the bed. No one has ever said anything but I guess it isn't something many people like to talk about.
james gregory kulp

Philadelphia, PA

#101 Feb 15, 2013
it is just that I hate wetting my bed and I hate having to wear an adult diaper to bed every night and it is a pain when you are laying in bed awake and and you have to go to the bathroom so I have to take off my diaper use the bathroom and put my diaper back on again and it is just pain having to wear diapers to bed it sucks and then waking up in a wet diaper in the morning.
Steve

Bournemouth, UK

#102 Feb 15, 2013
james gregory kulp wrote:
it is just that I hate wetting my bed and I hate having to wear an adult diaper to bed every night and it is a pain when you are laying in bed awake and and you have to go to the bathroom so I have to take off my diaper use the bathroom and put my diaper back on again and it is just pain having to wear diapers to bed it sucks and then waking up in a wet diaper in the morning.
I rarely wake once asleep so it isn't a problem for me.

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